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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
      CommentAuthorsarahuttley2b-[keera
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    what s the best way 2 get her 2 back off without her thinkin she s gettin 2 me? x

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    • shelby
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    I know this is easier said than done but ignore it rise above it. I know shes getting to you but try not let her see that then maybe she will see that shes not getting the reaction she hoped for and will back off. xx

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    • Attention seeker :)
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    HHHmmmmm not a good subject for me my H2B ex is a bitch and she is forever causeing trouble. Best thing to do is be happy and dont let her get to you belive me i know its hard i do it everyday

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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    Hi hun

    When you say ex - how long were they together, were they married and do they have kids.

    Cos if there were no kiddies, i would simply tell her to fuck off! lol

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    lol at nic
    Nic is right i have to behave as there are kids involved

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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    yeah, if she has his kids, you have to keep contact with her for obvious reasons. If there arent any, then why are you dealing with her at all?

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    I would tell her to grow up and move on.

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    • badgirlj
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    i have the same prob wth mt H2B ex she not tryin to cause trouble about wedding yet but she is a cow wouldnt suprise me if she did nearer the time and my h2b has 2 kids with her its hard but i just ignore her it seems like she gt the message cause she has not done anything to annoy me for ages but i no nearer the time i got it to come, hope all goes well for u best thing u can do is ignore her xxxxxx
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    we did have this problem untill glenns ex realised that i was "to much of a grown up to play childish games at her level".i refused to stoop to that level,ignored her completely and told her to carry on making an ass of herself,was very funny to watch,she got bored not long after,not heard off her since
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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    just ignore her..if they have kids together u got to agree to put all her childnessb ehind her and stay on half decent terms for kids sake

    if not, tell her where to go and get on with your lives!!!

    if she gets agressive, or starts any threats, keep a note xx

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    You do have a few worries! He obviously loves you very much reading your story of how you got together and how you have been since. Listen to the others and rise above it! If you start getting stressed either about the ex or the stag night it's only going to affect your relationship with him. He loves you!
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    • CupCake
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    Just show a united front with your H2B, ignore any calls texts etc ... she'll soon get bored and go away x

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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
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    no they dint av any kids and werent married.they were 2gether 4 yr but she kept cheatin and final straw was when she slept with his mate.she s been doin it for yrs now as shes still talkin 2 a lot of are friends and comments and stuff are always gettin passed on.very childish and annoyin.x

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    • debs x
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    Ignore her that is the best thing to do as the others have said she will soon get bored and move on x
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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Get h2b to tell her where to go! xxx

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    • Goff
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    Hang on....

    They have NO kids
    They weren't married
    She kept cheating on him

    Why on EARTH are you giving this person a thought and wasting your breath on her?

    You have been with your H2B 3 years and have a child together.

    I dont get it

    Get a bloody restraining order if its that bad

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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
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    thank you u were brutally straite 2 the point and honest and ur rite.x

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    • Possum
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    Ignore her and get h2b to talk to her, that way it looks like he's just sick of her and not that its your problem
    xx
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    • Possum
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    On second thoughts - I agree with Goff x
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    • Attention seeker :)
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    totaly agree with goff
    she has no right to even be informed of the wedding let alone stick her nose in and cause trouble.
    i would be going to see her and putting her straight!!!

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    • Goff
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    lol, thats me all over im afraid. I will tell you what i think like it or not, but i dont ever mean to offend

    and if all else fails - deck the biatch lol

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    see i would go with decking her first but im like that

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    • Goff
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    LMAO@AS!!!

    You do make me laugh lol x

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    sometimes it has to be done .....
    off to anger management tonight lol

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    • Goff
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    My anger management is me modorsickle - great for doin donuts in the offenders garden......

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    LOL i like to scream at people till they wet themselves then rip thier heads off :) makes the pleasure last so much longer

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    • Mrs Alsbetty
      CommentAuthorMrs Alsbetty
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    please don't try and get her back just ignore it it will make you a better i say this from experience just leave it she will get bored you just concentrate on planning your day xx

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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    Yep, as I said, tell her to fuck off, tell h2b to tell her to fuck off and do not waste any more time and effort on this woman x

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    • Kimi
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    Ignore her, block her on whatever possible and just dont bother listening to her bull.

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    • Kerrylou
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    Sad pathetic cow who has suddenly realised that her ex can indeed live without her (her not you obv!!)

    He has no ties to her, you have no ties to her, she's a skank - you really have no worries!! If anyone comes back to you saying "She said this, she said that" then you tell them you don't give a flying feck what she's said and if all they can talk to either of you about is her and her childishness then don't bother opening their mouths!!

    Seriously petal - 'getting your own back' on little miss super wh0re = tremendous waste of time for both of you!!
    xxx

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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
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    thank you everyone and has temptin as it is 2 rip her 2 pieces i think your rite ignorin her is the best way she s only doin it cos she s jealous of wot we v got and respondin in any way is like sayin we actually give a shit wot she thinks.and we dont!!!!lol.x

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    my life,my love,my soulmate...forever.xxx
 

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