We have been trying to meet up with our vicar now for two weeks, the dates and times he give us are always not convenient as we are both working, i have just emailed him tellin him the days and times we can do next week and waiting for a reply, if you can not meeting an he feels it coz we are not making an effort ( even tho we are ) can he refuse to marry us.
Hes a new vicar at church where we are getting married, as when we arranged to get married the with the church warden he said it would be convenient for us to get married the etc etc. then David (vicar) said we couldnt get married there if we didnt live in swineshead, so i said to him we were told we could coz bens (h2b) parents live in swinshead, and he arranged and confirmed we could if we used their address, thats gud with me. but everytime we try to arrange something he finds away around it so its not convenient.

Sorry if ive gone on, am i just been paranoid or not
help