well there is a thread at the top of the forum which has all the rules in it so have a read through that on how to use the site, then go introduce yourself on the newbie thread.

As for wedding planning once you have a venue sorted and have selected your date everything else you want falls into place. So to choose your venue I would make a list of all the things you want and how much they are or what you can afford to spend and take it from there.

I will see if i can find the wedding checklist as this will help you look at what you want and when to do stuff by!

Congrats on your forthcoming big day and welcome to UK Bride xxx