Hello everyone I am having a dilemma, I have just bought my wedding dress (nearly) and I need it taking up but I cannot decide between wearing heels and flats.

I love the look of heels and it adds some much needed height to me. but i find them uncomfortable after a while as I have a high arch and it starts to ache massively after a couple of hours. Does anyone no of any reasonable priced shoes that are made well enough to stop this happening if anyone else has the same problem?

Or does anyone no of any really pretty reasonably priced flats that would be good for wedding shoes? Not really sure where to start looking!

My worst nightmare is my feet being sore on my wedding day!

I have high arches too and can't wear heels. I've got a pair of Dune silver flop flops. Have what you feel comfortable in x

if you really want heels how about kitten heels? will add a little height but shouldnt hurt your feet too much

what about wedges? they're easier to walk in and take more of the strain off too

Aw thanks very much thats really helpful!! xx

For a beach personally i would go for shoes where the sand can escape from well

Wedges are quite comfy. Otherwise I don't know, I've got some heels that are super comfy, and some that are a pure pain, and I couldn't really tell you why... :/ sorry, I think you just have to have a look around until you find a pair thats right for you

Dance shoes! Firstly they're cheaper than a lot of wedding shoes but most importantly, they are sturdier and meant to be worn for long periods of time. They're very structured and will offer a lot of support. I'd recommend you go to your nearest dance wear shop and try on a pair. They also come in various width fittings so you can get the exact match for you. Hx

I want to be comfortable as sore feet will just spoil my day so I'm wearing pumps.

i have just been look at shoes and theres loads of flat ones some really nice ones guess it depends on how much you want to pay i can put a link on your wall if you want

its on your wall they do have a section of prices depends what you want

i have a weakness for chie mihara, they do some lovely heels, bit pricey.... well very pricey... but designed specifically for comfort. that's a really good idea little kettle, i will try looking for some dance shoes

I've gone for heels and flats! Both from Debenhams (I find their shoes really comfy). The heels arent really high cos I'd never be able to walk up the aisle! And heels do tend to hurt my feet after a while, so I am going to wear them around the house a few weeks before to wear them in and get used to them. I think they cost me about £30. I've just got some ivory flats too for £16. They're the same sort of design I wear everyday so I know they'll be really comfy.

Im going for flats or very low wedges from the high street. Im a size 7 and have wide feet so normal shoes are hard enough to find so im sticking to the shops I use for my everyday shoes as they cost enough. Definately stick with what you know is comfy. Think practical too, I will probably spend much of the reception running around after my son who will be just over 2 at the time of the wedding (boy that sounds strange to say, he's only 16 weeks now). If your feet hurt because your shoes aren't comfy then you micht be more distracted with the pain/discomfort than actually enjoying your big day xx