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    • CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
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    Hi Girls,

    I'm sat in tears whilst writing this, Happy tears I may add.

    Basically my dad lives 5minutes away from me, since he's been with his new wife we have kind of lost our relationship, We used to be extremely close but now i don't hear anything from him for months on end, he never comes to see my girls and he drives past my house everyday i don't even get a phone call!

    I went to my nans today and he coincidently rang her, she passed the phone to me, i bit the bullet and asked him if i could go over to see him. Surprisingly he said yes.

    Anyhow i've just got in after being around there for 3 hours! My h2b and I have just had the biggest heart to heart ever with my dad! I didn't think he was interested in my wedding at all, He burst out crying and said he's sorry for how he's been and he's helped us with planning the wedding so much so he's saved us £2,000! (Not paying for anything not that i expect anybody to pay anything but just by helping me see sense)

    Out of all the people i thought would be interested in my wedding, whom at the moment really don't seem to be interested at all i never thought Dad would be one of them!

    He even Promised me he's going to walk me down the aisle.

    Sorry girls for the long post, this really does mean the world to me that my dad IS interested and he DOES want to be there
    I really Can't get over it at the moment
    xx
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    • slybacon
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    Aw hunny!!

    That's great news! I'm so pleased for you! x x
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    • CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
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    Thank-you Hun :D I'm so glad we went round there! xx
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    • Mrs Steer
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    thats lovely :) im really happy for u xx

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    • Liz3yy
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    Wow good for you! X

    Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)


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    • Rachie :D
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    So pleased for you xxx

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    • Emsy5000
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    Thats great news honey

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    • Becky
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    Awww thats great news. Will be another thing to make your day extra special xx
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    • CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
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    Thanks girls, I honestly can't believe it! He made me see just how ridiculous i was being trying to make MY wedding perfect for everybody else, in doing so i have re-planned everything and added it all up i'm now under budget by £3,000! xx
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    • krisw86
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    wow thats really good! xx
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    • Mrs Hinch2B
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    fab news hunny I'm so pleased for you xx

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    • future-mrs-watson
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    Yeay! Such a fab outcome in both ways! x
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
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    Thats really good hun

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    • Katkin
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    Awww that's so sweet, I'm really happy for you xxx
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    • CommentAuthorMrsB
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    Bless glad you sorted it, my dads same with the phone calls and coming round but I don't have the balls to say anything, it must of been really hard to do it! So pleased for you x
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    • Griff
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    I'm so glad for you hunni :) xx
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    • RachelMarie
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    awww so pleased for you xx
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    • CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
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    MrsTyson2B It was very difficult but it's getting to the stage now of me getting really upset and thinking what have i done to make him be like this especially as we have always been inseperable until he left my mum! It was just something i had to ask i just needed answers.

    xx
 

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