We have changed date and venue and Just having close family and intimate, I seen a friend that I dont bother with much well its my HTB second cousin when I see her we have a good chat etc and use to be close but she got a baby and we both busy, she doesnt really make the effort any more to ring me anyways she is gutted that she is not invited to the wedding, I never said she wasnt I just said we just having a small wedding with close family now as its in gretna green and didnt expect mates to travel and pay a small fortune for hotel etc, I feel guilty now and ive said for the last 3 wks sod them all there not coming to my HTB and now that ive seen her I feel as tho I have to invite them but I really cant be bothered inviting people that can make an effort and pick up the fone once in a while to see how we r, it was always us kaing the effort now we dont bother give up