there is a guy at my work who is married, but never wears a wedding ring. I asked him why and he said that he doesnt have one! he said that he has never had one (they have only been married about 2 years). He said he never wears jewellery so didnt want a wedding ring. (even though on a night out I saw him wearing dog tags round his neck, and he is nothing to do with the army!!)
what do you think of this? are any of your men not going to have a ring? I think i would be quite upset if Shaun refused to wear a wedding ring.
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CommentAuthorBecky
My OH is going to wear a ring. I personally would be devastated if he didnt because I like the symbolism of it. I have a platinum engagement ring as he wants a platinum one and wants us to match! lol xx
CommentAuthorUnknown
i would be so upset and to be honest i would really think about marrying him if he refused!! xx
CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
I asked Steve about this and he said He wants a ring and will wear it forever, I asked him because my dad never wore a ring when he was with my mum and does now he's re-married! I Think i'd be upset too if Steve Didn't want a ring :( x
CommentAuthorMrs Steer
To be honest i would be upset if Kev wouldnt wear one, but if they said they would rather wear it on a necklace, i guess i would understand but to not have one at all!!!
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My h2b says he doesnt know weather he will wear his, he hates rings and no ring ever fits him properly.. He said he will give it ago but if not he will wear it on a chain instead.. It doesnt bother me, My dad hasnt worn one for years, my mum had to have hers cut off and has ended up wearing his now...
But it really wouldnt bother me to be honest.. I will know he is mine, and i trust him to know he wont lie lol! x
CommentAuthorTilley
i'm the same as K8tie90, my h2b doesnt know if he'll wear a ring or not as he hates jewellery, all he wears is a watch. he said he'll try though x
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
My dad never wore his wedding ring and i know that upset my mum. I have bought martyn a cheap wedding band from argos 2 years ago to get used to wearing one and he now says he dont feel right not wearing it. So if he went without it i would be very upset
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CommentAuthorBrissy_Bride
Both my dad and h2bs dad never had a wedding ring, no idea why really. I wouldn't be upset if h2b chose not to wear a ring. I think if anything, he really wants one and im the one not fussed!
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CommentAuthortweedwedding
I would want Ross to wear one - even if he didn't wear it everyday (he works with his hands a lot so it could get in the way) but it took me a while to get used to wearing my engaement ring, so I want him to wear a wedding ring! He know's this and has said he'll wear one so that's ok!!
CommentAuthorMrs-West-2B
My oh doesnt like rings but he is going to wear one and im glad. My dad never wore a wedding ring but it never bothered my mum x
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
men seem to vary. Most men asked werent too bothered mainly because it got in the way at work. My H2B hates jewellry but said he really wants a wedding ring for the meaning and symbolism behind it awww sweet
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CommentAuthorMr Stevie-Dee
i cannot stand jewellry but already picked out our matching wedding rings and looking forward to wearing it.
CommentAuthorjoey86
My h2b will wear his ring (he wears rings all the time anyway).
However, my mum never wore her wedding ring - she doesn't like wearing rings in general, so used to wear it on a chain around her neck. But she lost it one day at the gym - it was horrible, she was so upset. So my dad bought her another ring and she only wears it on special occasions so she won't lose it again. x
CommentAuthorAmy
I don't actually know many men that wear a wedding ring my Dad didn't, my step-dad dosn't, don't think any of the married men in my family do either. So no it dosn't really bother me- but I know that he is really looking forward to wearing a wedding ring, bless him :-)
CommentAuthormillwalljayne
My other half hates them as well, he was genuinely surprised when I told him to pick one he likes as he will be wearing it for the rest of his life!
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CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
My H2B is a carpet fitter and has said he probably won't wear his ring on his finger at work (perhaps on a chain) as he doesn't want to damage it. Which is fair enough. I know we are married and so does he and he will wear it when he is not working :)
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CommentAuthorKimi
My dad never wore his wedding ring although he had one although I don't know exactly why but he doesn't really wear jewellry except for the occasional watch.
My H2B will be wearing his which is why we spent time hunting for the "perfect" ring to ensure he would wear it. I'd be very upset if he stopped wearing it or refused as I like the symbolisation and I just think he should.
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CommentAuthormelliecake
My h2b is really looking forward to wearing his. I would most certainly be upset if he didn't want to wear one. My dad also never wears his wedding ring. His is too big but never got resized...lol but my mum doesn't mind and they have been happily married for 28years so I guess it doesn't matter. x
CommentAuthork
my huby to be will only be wearing his when he is at home, he is a chef so cant wear it at work, i am fine with that x0x
CommentAuthorKatya
It took 2months to find Dean the engagement ring he wanted. It then took a year to find the wedding rings he wants us to have. We searched milton keynes, northampton, cambridge, huntingdon, and peterborough just to find the rings. We live in such Ives in cambridge, he chose a ring finally in our own town centre, I was not amused. But neither of us liked the price so it took us a year to get a company such as forever wedding rings or smooch to make it for us and come to our home to discuss design! After that he had better year it!
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CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
my dad has never worn a wedding ring my parents have been married 50yrs next month he doesnt really wear jewellery he does have a chain my mum bought him when i was little he wear occasionally and a watch but other than that nothing more
some ppl dont wear them. my h2b cant wait to wear his i dont really wear jewellery i wear hoop earrings for work and my engagement ring but i'm so aware that i broke my 1st engagement ring that i take it off as soon as i get home and it goes bk in the box for safety reasons (i am sooooo clumsy) i would happily not wear my engagement ring but i cant wait for my wedding ring as their is no stone so i'm less likely to break it :( lol xx
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
it doesnt make the commitment any less if they choose not to wear one .......i actually work with a women who doent wear a wedding ring and she had been married over 20 yrs
I asked Chris and originally he said he didn't want one but it did upset me so i got him one and we made the deal that he will wear it for a month and if he isnt used to it by then, then he doesn't have to wear it. But I think he coming round to the idea.
I also told him that if he didn't have one he would be shortchanged in the ceremony because its normally included and he should get value for money!! That seemed to work a bit!!
CommentAuthorMel D
my h2b has said that he wants to wear one, but I'm not too fussed if he does. it's not like he'd not want to wear it to try to score! I quite often forget my engagement ring if I'm in a hurry.
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CommentAuthorEmsy5000
each to their own but I would be deeply hurt if h2b did not want to wear a token of our marriage
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CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
i try not to do that Mel coz he made such an effort to replace it for me bless him haha xx
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CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
doesnt mean they love you any less emsy my parents have made it 50yrs without my dad wearing one tbh he would have probably ruined it in his job anyways xx
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CommentAuthorljeh92
I really wouldn't be happy if h2b didnt wear his. It's a symbol of marriage! If I wore mine I would expect him to wear his. If he didn't want to wear his ring then he wouldn't have to marry me. Harsh but I would be very upset if he refused to wear it!
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CommentAuthorUnknown
my h2b never wears jewellery but when we got enagaged i got him a ring and altough it took time to get used to it he always wears it now except wehen he is at the gym xx
CommentAuthorLiiga
My h2b recons he doesnt like jewelerry, oh well... He does manual labour, snd came up with that as an excuse to not to wear ring at all, but keep it in the box. But we have come to an agreement now - he will wear it on his right hand. :) And we might be getting tattoos on wedding finger with the date (if he's not too scared) :D lol
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
thats a nice idea liiga xx
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CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
My h2b said he will the wedding ring on the day but more than likely wouldn't wear it after, duno why though its not like he dislikes jewellery because he used to wear massive rings but now doesn't, i guess he cant wear it while at work but to not wear it after our day is a little upsetting x
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CommentAuthorAli
My h2b will probably forget to put his on lol. He can't wear a ring at work as he works with machinery and its a health and safety issue and i can guarantee that for the first few weekends he'll wear it religiously, then will forget as he'll be doing other bits and pieces and won't want to get it damaged. He's got an expensive watch that i bought him in the summer and i think i've seen him wear it twice and he also has an engagement ring but he forgets to put it on unless i remind him. Tbh, i don't care if he wears it all the time or just on occasions when we go out etc as I know that he is mine, and he knows that i am his he doesn't have to wear anything to show that (not only that, i would hate for him to forget to take it off and injure himself at work)
I think a tattoo with our wedding date on his finger will be a better idea as that will never be removed...........still have to bring that up with him, not that he should object as he's covered in tats lol.
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