Wedding Forum - Having his hair done on the day!...

h2b is now telling me he is going to have his hair done on friday (the morning of our wedding) unfortunately that means a 20 mile journey and im telling him no! he can go on thursday but not the morning of! what if something happens to his car and he doesnt have an appointment so what if he has to wait im totally stressinghe will be late to the wedding he is terrible with timings and thinks the world will wait . now what i need to know is am i just being a stress head ? should he go to town for his haircut or just do it the evening before and put my mind at rest! after all his hair isnt going to grow that much in a few hours!!!!! am i just stressing because its close?

How come it will be a 20mile trip to get his hair done?
And I would say get it done the day before, he will have enough on his plate to deal with on his wedding day, better not to add that extra task onto it.

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Mine had his done the day before. He finished work early on the Friday and popped down to get it chopped. That's with the barbers being 2 mins down the road as well. Defo worth him getting it done the day before.

Most brides get there's done on the morning, with the BM's, MOH and everyone else, so why should the Groom be different?

If the Bride and BM's can get up early to have it all done, why can't the Groom get up early and have his done?

Can understand you have a panic due to distance, but i think it's an unnecessary worry. Groom's don't have half as much to do as the Bride on the morning, and it could be his way of relaxing on both your big day, adding a bit of normality so to speak.

I personally think saying no is harsh. He could say the same to you. Don't want you to have your hair done by a stylist in case it makes you late for the ceremony. How would you feel then?

I agree with Lauren too! If a bride can have hers done why can't the groom?

well he has come round to my way of thinking after being stuck coming back from the town he would of had to go to for over 2 hours the day before yesterday due to an accident further up the road. I would not have thought of getting my hair done by a hairdresses if I had to travel to town as I know how bad it can be especially at this time of year our roads are tiny and quite often unpassable so not worth the risk. my stylist livesin the village and will be at the hotel with me :) h2b is now going the day before as I pointed out he would look good on his evening out with the boys the night before and he knew I was worried about it :) he is happy about the decision as he said he can go for a swim at the hotel and unwind in the morning instead . its amazing how stressed you get over the small things when its so close :)

Glad you were able to sort it out; I probably would have asked him to get it cut the night before as well :)