Myself and h2b have decided that we deffo want a joint stag & hen party and also picked a dress up theme :D
My query is...who pays for it i.e if you wa going to a satg/hen party would you be expecting to contribute to the evening?
For example ive found a venue that looks ideal but it voted £100 to hire for the evening say say I added on £200 to supply a buffet(possibly) It would work out around £5 a head for everyone... but is it cheeky to ask for this? or should we just find it in out budget to pay for it ourselves?
Forum Poll
Is it cheeky....
if you was my guest...
Poll Results
Total Votes:
24
I would pay the £5
92%
I wouldn't pay it
8%
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CommentAuthorkrazykitty
i'd pay it hun x i was thinking about this too and to be honest i thought people usually paid for themselves on hen/stag nights anyway! xx and i would prefer a joint do but i think they'd get ry a stripper and i couldnt deal with that! (dont get me wrong i dont mind him having one i just couldnt see it! i get uncomfortable with it to be honest) x
i dont see why people wouldnt pay! xx
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CommentAuthorMrs Q - Weegie
thanks hun :)
tbh the more I think about I need 2 pay to go to my uncles w2b hen night... hmmmm
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'this is our time, and our lives and nothings ever going to
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CommentAuthorgraffalice
Ah I think anyone would pay a fiver, when you consider how many people expect their friends to pay hundreds for long weekends or a week away its nothing. I've never heard of a joint do before - is it quite common? x
CommentAuthorKatie
People usually pay to go on a hen night. We are also having a Sten night and are having it in a club that has a motown night we get a 4 course carvery meal and disco and motown act for £14.99 per head. I have told everyone about it and they need to pay £5.00 to book it then the balance 2 weeks before and loads of people have said they will come.
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yes do 'invites' and ask for the £5 per person to be given
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CommentAuthorsam73
i agree with becky - mrs firth 2 b i would pay the £5 its nothing really people spend alot of hen and stags, it will only happen once, people wont have a problem paying it.
CommentAuthorkimmy
This idea would work out a lot cheaper for alot of people, so paying £5 each is fab i think!!!!
CommentAuthorMrs Q - Weegie
Thanks :)
h2b has a lot of female friends so its working out better just to have one big night!! the venue drink prices are also very reasonable so think will be a good night!!
thinking of having a cartoon/tv character fancy dress theme... so it will be a good laugh i hope xx
25 days Until i marry my price charming!!
Cant belive its sooo sooon!!!!!
'this is our time, and our lives and nothings ever going to
break us' :D:D:D
CommentAuthorMrsPink
Id pay it hun! People expect others to pay for hen/stag do's any ways. :-) x
CommentAuthorxbeckix88
Oops i clicked on the wrong answer! haha i would pay £5. I dont see why your friends would have a problem paying this. For my birthday i hired out a party coach and VIP room with drink deals and all my guests paid towards it, not a single one moaned or didnt wana pay :) x x
CommentAuthorspooney24
You could also ask for the guests to bring a bottle too which would save on the cost of buying drink or having a bar hired in.
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