I can't believe that this time two weeks ago I was stood outside church greeting all of my guests after our wedding!
We had a really busy week in the run up to the wedding, and a couple of things (like bags for the kids activitiy packs) didn't arrive so my sister had to run round to several different supermarkets to sort it out, but other than that, things went great! The weather had been really bad in the run up to the day so we were really worried (flood alerts were even issued) but on the day it didn't rain until we were heading to the reception venue, and it stopped several times and the sun came out so we still got photos outside!
The day started very early with bucks fizz and scrambled eggs and smoked salmon and then the morning absolutely flew by with everyone having hair and make up done! We got to the church right on time and the service was lovely - lots of people have told us it is the nicest church wedding they've ever been to! Then we did manage to get a few nice photos outside before the rain started!
The reception was great, all of my decorations and ideas looked lovely and many people told me I had thought of everything! Even some of the things that my (now) husband told me were unnecessary, like boxes of flip flops, went down great. We had such an amazing day! The only thing that I regret is that I didn't look at my h2b walking up the aisle at first as I was so busy looking at all of the other guests!!
We've had our official photos back already so I'll upload some in a minute.
The next morning we got a train to gatwick to fly to the maldives, but first the hotel put breakfast on in the function room for all of the wedding guests who had stayed over so everyone was there to see us off, which was lovely! My friend gave me a balloon, which I took on the train, and we ended up with a free bottle of wine!! We then spent a week in the maldives which was amazing, I would highly recommend it to anyone thinking about it!
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CommentAuthorMrs Egan
congratulations!!! glad you had a wonderful day, cant wait to see the pics x
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CommentAuthorOWB
It all sounds perfect!! I'm glad it went so well, now to enjoy married life! Put some pics up soon x
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CommentAuthorSparklez
Aww congratulations mrs Keates :D
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You marry the person you cannot live without..
Congrats, and all the best for your married life together! Xx
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CommentAuthorLofty
I'm trying to post photos but it is not working very well!! I'll try again!
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Maybe I was trying to do too many before in one go as that one seems to have worked ok!
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CommentAuthorGemmaM89
Awwww you look lovely!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!! x
CommentAuthorbiochrissy
aw you look lovely lofty, and so happy together. sounds like you had a brilliant day. cant wait to see more pics xx
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CommentAuthornatalie2614
You look lovely congratulations x x
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CommentAuthorHelenW
aww congrats! The pics looked lovely - so glad for you that the sun shone for a while to get some piccies! xx
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CommentAuthorMrs Egan
looks amazing x
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CommentAuthorOWB
You look wonderful!! I love you hair, and the little bridesmaids are adorable. You've got a some really good shots too, you clearly had a good photographer!
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I hope this is not too much of photo overload, but we have so many nice ones I wanted to post lots! And I know that I like looking at other people's photos!
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CommentAuthorLofty
OWB, thank you, the little ones were a nightmare to clothe as the tallest one is only 8 but didn't fit into a lot of age 12 dresses! I'm so happy with the dresses we finally got though, and they were only about £45 from the department store beginning with D! My hair was done by my usual hairdresser and I was really happy with it, and the photographer was a bargain too, only £599 from 10am-9pm including all photos on CD and a photobook! I love the photos so much!
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CommentAuthorfiona
Looks lovely, def not photo overload - feel free to add more!
CommentAuthorSijen
Ah you look fab hun. So happy and in love. The day looks amazing! Congratulations.
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CommentAuthorAtaraxia
Aww Lofty what lovely photos. Congrats on your wedding, hope you are both very happy - you certainly both look very loved up and content on the photos.
Best of luck for the future, glad it all went well :) x
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CommentAuthorLofty
Thanks to all of you!
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CommentAuthorStaceyP91
Aw looks like you had an amazing day! Congratulations
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CommentAuthorweemindyxx
awwwwwwwwww i dont know whats wrong with me just now everytime im on here looking at pics of newly weds i start crying, your pics are lovely and you look soooo beautiful.xxx
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CommentAuthorKellyN29
me too weemindy, i love the photos you look like you had a great day and I love the candle to remember those who weren't there x
CommentAuthorFutureMrsPite
aw ur wedding looks lovely! what a fab day and some great photos to remember it, glad the weather held off for you aswell! you look beautiful in your dress and i love your colour scheme, congratulations!! x
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CommentAuthorLofty
I realised that the photos that show my ideas that were inspired by reading other brides ideas on here have not been included, so I've put a few more below!
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CommentAuthorLofty
Thanks ladies! I love the candle too Kelly, lots of people commented on how nice an idea it was. My dad's mum died last year and after the meal there was a really nice moment where my dad and his two brothers had a quiet moment by the candle together. Thanks weemindy and futuremrspite, I really did feel stunning in that dress and with my hair and make up all done. At the altar, my h2b (at the time!) said can you dress like that every day! I said if he wants to pay for me to have my hair and make up done and to have a new dress every day then no problem!
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CommentAuthorClareS
Yay, congratulations. Fab piccies. Looks like to had a wonderful day. Love the memory candle. Can I ask where you got it as I'm looking for one for our wedding x
CommentAuthorLofty
Clare I'll check my email and work out where I got it from (I think it was the bay of e!) and i'll put it on your wall. I spent ages looking at different companies and this was my favourite.
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CommentAuthorClareS
awww thank you :) for our service we're hoping to have a memory candle and from that mine and h2b's mum will light a candle each after the welcome speech bit, then after we've said our vows we light a unity candle together from our family candles. leaving the memory candle and until candle lit :) x
CommentAuthorLofty
It turns out it wasn't from the bay, I've put the website on your wall
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CommentAuthorClareS
aww thank you :) xx
CommentAuthormicky
you look stunning and fotos are fab, so glad you had a great day :-)
CommentAuthorKarenB9
loving your wedding pics looks like you had a fantastic time and what a great colour scheme you picked. on a cheeky not could you also let me know were you got the candle from I had tears in my eyes just reading the words would love to have one to remember my parents on my wedding day what a lovely touch to your wedding x
CommentAuthorDonda
You looked stunning and your day looked amazing. Karen you can get the candle off the bay of e various prices and types, just enter "wedding memorial candles" into search.
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CommentAuthorjodie b
Congrats!! I love the pics! Xx
CommentAuthorLofty
Hi Karen, what Donda said is correct but I'll put the website I got mine from on your wall in case you want it.
Thanks ladies for all of your messages!
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CommentAuthorbex
wow looks like the perfect day, congratulations were did u get that absolutely perfect candle from?
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CommentAuthorgemsy
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looks like you had a fab day!. I was wondering whether to get some flip flops. Did many people use them? xx
CommentAuthorJill
You look beautiful hun, looks like a fantastic day x
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CommentAuthorLofty
Gemsy the flip flops went down brilliantly, I got 24 pairs (7 size 5, 10 size 6 and 7 size 7) and they all went hours before the end of the night. Bex i'll put the website for the candle on your wall.
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CommentAuthorloustew2012
Congrats to you both and many best wishes for the future! Your pics are fab xx
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CommentAuthorKirst
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Such beautiful pictures, looks like you had an amazing day! I was wondering when you lit your candle? We have a candle similar to yours and we are having a civil ceremony and I would love it lit during that?! All the best for the future hon x x
CommentAuthorMrsRowan2be
Such goregous picutres. Congratulations! The comment that I will keep with me is about regretting not looking at your h2b as you walk down the aisle.
When I watch wedding programmes that is my favourite bit, the grooms face when the bride enters the church. I will probably want to cry when I walk in but will make sure I give him a wee glance and a cheeky smile.
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CommentAuthorLofty
Hi Kirst, we just lit the candle during the meal. We didn't make a big fuss or anything, once we had sat down, me and the hubby got back up and lit the candle which was on the cake table, just next to the top table. But then it was referred to during the speeches so that people knew it was there if they hadn't seen it. I did think about doing it during the ceremony, but as we were having a church wedding I wasn't sure where it would fit in, and it would then had to have been blown out and transported by someone to the reception venue, so I decided just during the reception.
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CommentAuthorjocelinetex
congratulations to you both i love the purple colour you had and your pics are awesome ; ) x
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