well what should have been a lovely relaxing holiday ended in tears. to start h2b couldnt come but i could cope with that, then by mon started to realise sis's OH is a waste of space got worse as the week went on thur sis asked mum and dad where they were goin then said i thought u where babysitting to them at this point i'm sat there with the 8 week old on my knee and the 3 year old next to me so i started crying yes i'm very sensative shes always askin if they can come live with me for a joke but the one time i'm entertaning them its like i'm not there then on fri it was asumed that i didnt want to go swiming so got told i was looking after the youngest again tears this time tears = anger didnt help that the only time the waste of space did anything it was for the baby even then he wouldnt change poopy nappies. sis got anoyed when ever 3 year old wanted somet she would say ask nana, pop aunty tracy as she was on holiday too then to top it off she got angry coz dad told her she was payin for tea on the last night, all week dad and myself had payed for food and rounds at the bar not once did she offer she then sat there an fri night and said i;ve gone throw £180 quid in 2 days and i've olny got £8 left to which dad said he'd gone throw £400 in the week. went out that night and they both got upset coz i only got drinks for me, mum and dad and still the waste of space hadnt done anything. he wasnt impressed when we made him get up at 7am on sat morning to pack (which me and mum had packed our bags the night b4) as they where sleepin in the double in the lounge area oh we had all been gettin up about 8.30am to make the most of the day and he wasnt movin untill gone 9 and then complainin we where noisy and sittin in the lounge, they where bringin the kids (8week and 3year old) back from the bar at gone 11.30pm me mum and dad coming bk around 10pm then being angry wid 3year old the next day coz she tired and keeps not goin as shes asked. then to top it off on the way home i ring h2b to say will be home in 20mins to get home to find him asleep in the tent in the garden this was at 4.15 tried to wake him he finally came in at 8.30 to find me really hissed off and once again in tears. i have 3 types of crying upset, tired and angry the angry ones are the worst as i shout alot and the tears get worse the angryer i get so needless to say didnt really have a relaxing time one a happy note bought a really nice brolly for the wedding just incase it rains and mum and dad booked our honeymoon
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
oh hun what a week you had!! sounds like complicated families.. i defo have 1 of those and so does h2b! xx
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorGriff
Oh hun what a bad week! Just remember you are not in the wrong and she cannot take you for a ride you are not an in house baby sitter! Also beat the hubby ;) he should have been conscious to help you when you were so obviously upset xxx
CommentAuthorderangedbride
if sis's OH wasnt there would have been a good week i think my sis's is prob is her OH but she cant see it like we do and u cant say anything as she blows a fuse
CommentAuthorderangedbride
oh he's been paying all day lol not left the sofa unless for the bathroom he has done everything and is tring to get me to give him his pressie goin to make him wait a bit longer for it or eat it mysel
Families always have problems when together for long periods of time as people are all so different its impossible not to get even a little annoyed by other people but it does seem your sister and fella was inconsiderate towards everyone else
Sounds like you need a holiday to recover from the holiday x
CommentAuthorderangedbride
mum and dad said after the 7 night hol with them last year never again but as this time me and h2b where goin they said they would and now they have said never ever again 4 night yes 7 no but wouldnt mind doin a 7 night wid me and h2b as we do things around the van we chip in when payin for things. i know i really need another hol but back to work at 7 in the morning no rest for the wicked. he's suppossed to be an usher starting to wonder