sick sick sick of my h2b"s sister she wants to no everything about my wedding she is tryin to interfear so sick of her.She aint even a bridesmaid or anythin she is gettin me stressed but the best thing is we dont talk to each other but she is twistin to everybody else n she wants to stop at the venue on the night she thinks that we can just pull out £160 out of our pockets n pay for her think not.I dont want to say anythin to her as this will upset my h2b"s mother n father so wat do i do just grit my teeth n let her get on with it HELP HELP
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Just tell her there is nothing more to report next time she asks or just say, don't you want to wait and see on the day? Leave a bit to the imagination! lol
As for her staying at the venue, give her their number and tell her its £160.00 for the night and they accept card. Thats right cheeky to just expect. If she wants to stay that much - let her pay. x
CommentAuthorginge23
Iv had a wee bit of the same problem. I just say we havent done much more since I last spoke to you. Gave basic detail and that was all. xx
CommentAuthorfoolsapprentice
I whole heartedly agree with Puddleduck!
My h2b didn't get to grow up with his sis, so now he wants to be really close, and have her as part of the wedding, however it took her over two months to actually congratulate us. When I sent her a message she just sent back "Get Pete to ring me" So I did and she just dripped at him that he hadn't told her first! I explaned to Pete that if he really wanted her to be a bm then I will have her, for him, but it would be an extra expence as I wouldn't demote any of my already arranged bm's. so he said fine it would be hard to organise things for her anyway with her living so far away, however he has now told her he'll buy her a new dress for the day (she also has expensive taste)! I mean ffs, if she had shown any interest then fine, but she hasn't and she always lets him down. Of course I wont stop him form doing it but wasn't best ammused when he told me.
I will draw the line and paying for her transport and accomodation. As PuddleDuck said it's cheeky of her to just assume you'll pay for it. Cx
CommentAuthortrustmeimawoman
we had same prob with my sis , we paying for my parents (family room) as they got my youngest 2 that nite , and thought it be easier for them to stay and kev's parents as MIL2B is '' disabled'' my eyes is diet is needed opps did i just say that or type it lol anyway my sis wanted to stay so i said rooms are temp reserved but u need to confirm and give ur credit card details coz im skint and cant afford it , she stuck her nose up and said fairenough.
My sister would NEVER expect me to pay for her she has offered to help me in every way she can I guess Im lucky in that way. She has even bought her little one who is my flowergirl her shoes which I would have expected to pay for. H2B sister has not offered to pay for a thing for her little one who is another flowergirl.x xx
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
we got engaged new years day ....still waiting for H2b`s sisters to even acknowladge it ...have seen them both since
Aren't families just a pain in the bum? My sister has been a little like that, inviting herself to loads of stuff, i just said to her that i only plan on doing this once and i am really enjoying planning it and at the moment i dont need any help but she will be the first to know if i'm in need of a hand. As for paying for her to stay the night, just say that budget is tight and you cant afford to pay for anyone to stay the night, and (like the ladies have above have mentioned) the venue costs 160 $and they will accept card, if she cant afford that there might be other local hotels she can go to for cheaper? xxx
CommentAuthorb2bnicola
Just dont tell her anything about the wedding and when its nearer the time just ask her how shes paying for her room....
Happily Married! :) xxx
CommentAuthorajwilki
thanks for all yr notes my h2b"s sister wont pay for it she is a dole waller she sits on her fat arse all day thats why she expectin me n my h2b to pay for it as we work 6 days a week n she just scroungers lol
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Tell her to Balls! lmao
Well just tell her its £160.00 a night, you can't afford to pay for it. Tell her you would love to have her there, give her the number and say if you can afford to pay for the room that would be fantastic.
You know she won't be able to pay for it so you win. PLUS if MIL AND FIL get upset about it you just say "We would love her their but we can't afford it, its such a shame" Then its up the the GROWN WOMAN that she is to get off her lazy ass and work for it!
