Well I thought that all was going to be OK inviting his family, but after dishing out the invites on Saturday to his mum it turns out it might not be!! For starters his brother (who is going to be best man along with H2B's son) and his daughters do not speak, however I have got to know his daughters and have invited them, but his Mum was going on about it not being a great idea bla bla bla. Then H2B's cousins (twins), one of which is a friend of mine who I met H2B through, are not getting on at the moment after the death of their Mum last year. Now the thing is, I would rather if the cousin who is my friend is there as for one she is my friend and we met through her, but his Mum is not really talking to her. I just felt so darn awkward the other day when she was there putting her down in front of me! Then as she was going through the invites she was like, well so and so won't go as they don't do weddings, and they won't go! Well I wish I had known as I would not have bothered writing an invite out and could have invited others who I have not been able to invite.

Rant rant rant. Sorry, hope all that makes sense!

Yeh I agree with millz090. Just send them out. If they all do come them they will just have to play growen-ups for the day and learn to et along. An if you want your friend there who helped you and H2B get together, then they should be there. If up to you at the end of the day not MIL2B. And if you get some nice early replies saying people cat come then invite the others that you would of liked to.