My h2b has told his ex that we are engaged and now she is saying that there son can't come to are wedding and is not aloud to be part of it. What do I do I feel really bad that she won't let there son come, ok she may in time come to terms with us getting married but what if she don't? I know it's jealousy as sometimes she will bring me up in the conversation when he rings to see how there son is, but dose anyone have any suggestions? Xx
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CommentAuthorStephanieM71
Such a rubbish situation for you :-( I think you can only hope that she comes round to the idea, she has a year. How old is his son? Will he be old enough to say that he wants to come? My h2bs ex has said that he may be able to have his 2 girls 'for an hour or so' on the day but we're both hoping she'll come round, and that the girls will ask to come so she'll relent. He has another daughter who is going to be one of my bridesmaids. Exes are hard work!!
CommentAuthorCharmainey88
He's three just a couple of months older than my son, the thing is she has a partner and my h2b has never had a problem with her being with him and has never tried starting an argument about her having a new bf. H2b and his mum have both said she's a very bossy person and likes things her way so may have to hope that she will just get over the fact he's moved on and wants to marry me with his son there. Just really hope she dose let him even if it was just for an hour like your h2b's girls. Yea your telling me there hard work but I don't have that problem with my ex as he don't see are son by his choice as he chose a girl over him but were better of with out him and so is my son but I though men were complicated women seem to be worse lol. xx
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CommentAuthorMrsC
I'd say it's a gut reaction to hearing the news hun, hopefully you'll be able to work something out so your H2B's son is able to come. Probably will take a little while to settle though, its a difficult situation.
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CommentAuthorVelcro
Hopefully she will see sense as when hes older and asks questions, he will then find out his mum didnt let him go to the wedding out of spite and that's apinfully unfair as he deserves to have those memories and photos to look back on.
For now, I'd leave it and let the dust settle and bring it up nearer the time
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Yea think its prob best not getting married until next year so hopefully she would of settled and will be fine with it all. Well thank you ladies you have been very helpful xxx
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think it's a reaction too, I think u should let her get used to the news then try to broach the subject about the wedding again x
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CommentAuthorbrilly
theres a chance she may just be a tad jealous hun she may calm down or may be just doing it to throw a spanner in the works I would leave the situation for now and then maybe bring it up a few month down the line when everythng has settled and the news of your engagement has sunk in x
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