I wouldnt like that at all. Does it sound like shes flaunting the fact that its white or does she not understand the "white" rule? If it was me I would drop a few comments like "The other guests may see you as a bit selfish for wearing white as everyone knows its only the bride who wears white on day" she may change her mind. xxx

lol what a frube Ha Ha Ha still laughing

Do you know for sure that it is white? I dont know the woman but maybe just maybe she could be winding you up? Would she be the type to play a joke on you? There are members of mine and h2b's family that would definately say something like that as a joke. Im no saying she is but Id find out for definate. xxx

No it wasn't a joke she called me for aother reason and then called back to say she forgot to say she'd bought her dress for the wedding it is a white lace mini dress with long chiffon sleeves she got it today and said she'll send me a picture once she has tried it on tomorrow!!! ((((ggggrrrrrr))) I should have reacted but as you can understand i was in shock

Just think female cat

i'm going to ask my h2b to speak with her tomorrow and if she kicks up a fuss she's just going to have to be off the list no more wedding guest (in white )

Yes but that has nothing to do with tiredness .thats just me!!! Cant go bed, Im too germy! Lol Im having a night on the couch as I keep coughing and Steves on call so needs all the sleep he can get. xxx

strawberry frube? ......tell the witch you are now having a dress code and everyone has to come in shades of green

la la i'm loving the shades of green idea x

thats just rude! my theme is black and white but to save that happening we've said guests should come in black and diamonds.

Mwah hahaha ....= evil mod laugh

I saw someone in a white dress at a wedding and I did step back and go whoa! Then a couple of weeks later I saw same dress in cheapo shop and I went ha ha.

Not on! But don't tell her, let her make a fool out of herself he he he he

bug ger

biatch! would never dream to wearing white to someones wedding x

sounds like shes just attention seeking. does she have a habit of doing this????? i would ask her politely not to wear white and if that doesnt work go round and sabotage her dress (accidently getting foundation or lipstick on it). she should know better and if she denies it shes obviously lying. if you still have no luck changing her mind exclude her from the photos. it'll teach her a lesson :)

If its plain white dress then i think that may be a little tacky for her but if its patterned and has other colours then its fine, maybe she can accent it wearing other colours???

My MIL is looking at cream trousers or skirt and wearing gold top, at first I thought it would be weird considering the wedding colours are red white and silver. but I dont mind any more, whatever she's comfy and happy in will do me and the same goes to the rest of the guests. :)

It could be worse...
Jordan (that complete numpty 'woman') turned up to someone else's wedding in a wedding dress!
I think she was just confused - she's so used to being at her own weddings...

I think if its a white dress but with a, say, red coat and bag, accessories etc you might not notice?
I don't know
xxx

oh god i know what you mean. we bought my mum a lovely hat them she told me what kind of dress shes going to look for and she said white, i was like what. you cant wear white. im probably going to wear white. they she went on about it will probably be ivory. Theres not that much of a difference between the two. I wasnt happy but i know my mum and she'll do what she wants. even though im still going to try and change her mind. Even thought about making her part of my bridal party lol.

Also im off jordan at mo.... but she turned upto her friends gay wedding in a wedding dress, and that was palnned with him!!!

I nearly got a plain white dress for a wedding I was at in summer as I couldn't find anything I liked at all. I decided against it as I didn't want folk talking about the fact I would be in white, even though I would have worn colourful shoes and jewllery I knew I would of felt awkward.

Instead I opted for a white dress with a floral print :-)

The only thing I would say that if it's a mini dress with big sleeves everyone will know she's not the bride, and she will be the one feeling uncomfortable. xx

I would tell her to fuck right off!!

Silly little girl! How old is she, just out of interest? x

Hoxxyhula she is 27 and i'm 29 ,
I'm still in shock she didn't answer the phone to my h2b today so i told my mil2b when she came home from holiday she was not amused that her niece is being such a cow

How pathetic! .... don't you feel like saying there are about 100 OTHER colours than white to wear to my wedding you silly MOO!
If she wears it just invite her over for pre-wedding drinkies and spill coffee all down her front, she'll have to change then won't she? pmsl ... I'm so evil hahahahahahaaa x

Im debating weather or not to tell ppl a dress code???
They can wear any colour............ EXCEPT red (of any shade) black and white/ivory as thats the wedding parties colours.