Basically h2b works with an absolute **** who cheats on his gf all the time including with hookers whenever he works away and even just when he goes out. I hate that h2b is around him every day and though I believe he would never do anything like his work colleague I have trust issues due to previous relationships and it stresses me out every time they have to work away together.

He is currently away for 3 days from yesterday with this guy. h2b called me at 10:30 last night and said they were off to bed when they had finished their drink because he was bored and tired. (we are skint atm and hes got about £20 on him) We talked for a while and he said he had had 4 pints and only paid for 1 (other 3 were on the company) but was completely coherent and acting normally. He said he was outside the hotel and text me to say good night when he went to bed. I can't sleep and looking on fb his mate had posted something at 1:30 so had obviously not gone to bed when h2b had said. I spoke to h2b this morning and asked what happened and he said that his mate had got chatting to some guy and wanted to stay out so h2b just went to bed. fair enough.
Then tonight they are out at a pub and h2b is texting me then rings me as he is walking back to the hotel. He said his mate wanted to go out to a club but h2b didnt have any money and didnt want to go anyway. We talk until he's in bed and he sends me a picture (not a rude one) but he's in bed anyway. an hour later i get a message off h2b's mate's gf asking if i had heard off h2b. I tell her i spoke to him and he was in bed and she says shes called her bf and he answered the phone it was obvious he was out cause it was really loud and when he realised it was her he put the phone down and turned it off. She then goes on to say its really annoying her like yesterday when her bf and h2b were out and drunk at 12:30 apparently weeing outside!!!
This is really stressing me out and after 2 hours sleep last night i really wanted to sleep tonight! I don't know what to think. I know hes not lying tonight and obviously his mate had. but yesterday after telling me he was going to bed at 10:30 she said they were both out at 12:30?!?!
But she wouldnt go into detail and i didnt want to sound crazy and keep asking her whether she actually heard h2b's voice or her bf just said he was there. so maybe her bf just lied and said h2b was with him when he was out with that other guy... its something he could easily do. but then again i dont know if she heard h2b. :( sorry its so long and moany just can't sleep and really getting to me!

hi i know he wouldn't do anything its just if he lied about staying out i dont know why other than money/and i guess he knows i hate him spending time with him! i really wish he didnt have to be around him but he has to every day it drives me crazy. thanks anyway supposed id better try and get some sleep or the kids will be up before i even close my eyes xx

you never know, your h2b may be telling the truth and his slimeball collegue may have just told his gf that he was with him so that he didnt get in trouble for being out on his own! see what your h2b says when he gets home hun, and try to stop worrying! you're h2b works with this guy so unfortunately you cant simply tell him that he cant see him....maybe just explain to h2b how you feel and im sure he'll put your mind at rest xxx

Thanks girls. sorry haven't been on for a while a lot has been going on. i spoke to him when he got back and asked him everything. he was adamant that he went to bed and everything the guys gf was saying happened earlier. like people have said he must have just said h2b was there. its all sorted though x

ive been here and had this exact same thing and fingers crossed for u its what hes sayin it is cause when it came out about mine hed been lyin and i didnt think he would only reason i found out was via his contract phone bill. sad but true we eventually worked things out and i hope everything just as simple as hes sayin it is hunny xxx