My soon to be hubby said this evening that he's happy to let me practically organise our whole wedding, cheeky sod! surely he has to have a say too? anyone else in a similar position?
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
no but i wish!!! my H2B keeps causing problems for no reason, about things hes never cared about before, and now is suddenly passionabte about. joy. Enjoy it babe, you're lucky. As long as youre both happy thats what matters. <3 x
CommentAuthorMrs-West-2B
My H2B has said that i can organise it too, actually his exact words were 'just tell me the time and the place and ill be there' lol. Bless him tho he does give a little opinion every so often, he just wants me to have my perfect day and im sure your man just wants the same for you hon xx
10th September 2011 Here I Come.!!
CommentAuthorLiz3yy
Well he keeps saying that it's my day, but without him it wouldn't be much of a wedding, bless him!
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthorMrs-West-2B
To be honist i think men just look at things differently to women, it will mean just as much to him as it does to you but they just dont know how to go about things like this, i wouldnt worry about it, just enjoy it im sure if he really didnt like something he'd say xx
mines exactly the same, keeps saying that as long as im happy that's all that matters x
CommentAuthorLiz3yy
At least it's not just me then?!
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Its not that they don't care they just know how important it is for you to have your dream come true so leave you to make that wish come true. They are interested in the getting married to you but not in the fancy favours or what the invites look like etc.
CommentAuthorlaurabrown83
Nope definitely not just you! I fake being shocked when he does occaisonally mention something wedding related! x
CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
urgh, youre all lucky. My man hates weddings etc but as soon as i settle on somthing, he decides he hates it. He told me to do what i want, and now blocks every move i try to make! Beware; this could be you! lolz Good luck ladies <3 x
CommentAuthorlovelylainee
So is mine - i am doing it all and sending him emails telling him what to pay when he is at work lol! xxx
I married the love of my life 23/06/2012
Our little boys are so cute!
CommentAuthorLiz3yy
Lol, looks like I should enjoy the freedom I have then!
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
My H2b say's he's happy with whatever i'm happy with, But i too would like him to give opinions as it's his day too :S
CommentAuthorekielty(now Trow)
Im glad my H2b doesnt want to plan the wedding, ive asked him about the big things but all the little details are up to me.
I think he appreciates what ive planned so far but its good i am left to do it, it would make the whole thing more stressful! :D xxx
Very very happy as Mrs Erica Trow
I feel like the luckiest girl in the world! xx
CommentAuthorFaeth
Mine is also leaving stuff up to me, but is helping out with decisions as I present them to him. He looked a little pained when I told him he couldn't wear jeans and a t-shirt on the day - LOL. He's helped out with the invitation design, which I have to admit surprised me, and he'll definitely have to help with choosing the music.
"Of course I'm not wedding obsessed!!"
CommentAuthorpixie.bunny
Everyone is leaving things for me to do....but i'm glad H2B is not making an effort as we'd probably argue over his ideas :P However a little interest wouldn't go a miss :/ Xx
CommentAuthorgreyarea
My partner is helping me all the way its a nice way to bond
CommentAuthorSoon2BBlackwell
My H2B has told me it is all down to me though i am kind of getting him involved but thats venue, tableplan, church etc. He has no intrest in the colour scheme or cake or invitations......
Holly
Time to lose some weight so i look my best on our day!
I will stay motivated I will stay motivated
CommentAuthorSweetyPie
Hi, I guess I get to choose venue etc but we'll have to discuss all the costs involved :)
CommentAuthorlouise
Im in the same boat. Im organinsing my wedding myself. He's been with me when we booked the venue and the only thing he did on his own was ring his mate who is doing our dj. Apart from asking him if he likes my choice of menu he knows nothing. Told him he will have to sort his suits out i cant do that too.
Getting Married 27th November 2011
Il be Mrs Dobson!!! :D
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
yes i will be doin the majority i will just ask him his opinion wen needed
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorNHR115
Neil takes an active role in the wedding planning but only to a certain extent. I have to do the research and find things then I pass them by him for his opinion. xxx
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
yes thats wat we will be doin wen i get down to the nitty gritty lol
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorSteffie
my h2b doesnt want anything to do with the wedding until it comes to chooding the menu woop woop go me and mummy!!!! xxxx
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
lol ha lucky u
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorFruity_pops
my h2 b is the same not really interested untill i dont ask him what he think then he as an opinion lol and i keep asking him to be more involved as i want it to be about both of us x
xXx Cant wait till am Mrs Lever xXx
26th August 2011 at 3pm
cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
CommentAuthorMrs Brakes
Kiz likes me to come up with and explore options, I shortlist idea's and then WE make a choice. There are some things that he doesn't have an opinion on so he leaves that to me but I still ask his opinion. He talks to friends and comes back with his own ideas too. He's organised a meeting next week with a friend's girlfriend who makes cakes. I think he's a keeper
Got married 11/11/11.
CommentAuthorSoonMrsHingley
Mine was certain on the church and gave a few comments on reception venues we want to look at but hes said alll the 'girly' things are up to me eg flowers, stationery and all the other bits n bobs. Men....they are usually the ones that propose but when it comes to the big event its all down to us girls! xx
CommentAuthorAbi4tomboy
my h2b says 4 me 2 do it all but i run everything past him and he seys is it what u want if i say yes all he seys is its perfect thn so luvly in 1 way but worry if i do sumthing wrong its my fault but we have simualr tastes so hopfuly not
