Well, my h2b is having his stag do today and tonight! they've gone to liverpool and im a nervous wreck lol!
Im pathetically scared to death of the dark and being in on my own so this night is not going to be fun!
They're supposed to just be going to some bars/clubs and one of his friends has requested they go to a strip club...now i dont mind strip clubs at all as its only looking, not touching but another then asked me 'can we buy him a lap dance tonight then?' i mean omfg! why on earth would he think it was a good idea to ask me that? i was absolutely horrified and have felt sick since he said it. h2b assured me that it would not happen but what if they get him one anyway? the thought of another woman grinding against him makes me want to vomit!!!
I can see this being a very long and stressful night :-(
ergh!!!!
xxx

Oh no hun!
Don't worry you will be fine. Ladies on here will chat to you, get a dvd on and a takeaway in and you will be ok :D

As for the lapdance .................if it was me TBH I'd hit the roof. I still need to speak with the best man about the stag weekend and any inappropriate activities that will upset me. I'm sure if your H2B refuses it then it won't happen xxx

I'd be sitting there seething all night at what might be. Those kind of places disgust me, I had a thread on it before and the thought of another woman wiping herself on my man makes me angry. Not at the woman because that is her job, but I'd be out for the blood of whoever decided to go there. so best you try to wipe it from your mind. Easier said than done I know!

As for being alone, I don't like it either but keep occupied, film, tv, friends, books, games if you like them. And lots of chocolate :D

Xx

Lol his mate sounds err....delightful. Thats the same thing my h2b mate would come out with!

I'm sure if his dad is there they won't be visiting those places. Just stay online I'm sure there's plenty of company here :)

My Mr is on his stag night tonight as well. He is going round Sheffield to some bars. I don't have any worries or concerns as I know my bloke won't go into any strip bars as its not something I agree with.
But I hate the house being so quite. All our girls are out tonight as well. So its just me. Spag bol. And the tv.

Lol, we will all be over in a minute. Save food :3

2 glasses of pimms and im feeling a little less nervous about staying alone! hopefully ill just drop to sleep when im ready lol
xxx

my h2b isnt allowed anywere near a strip club if he does hes out the door im strongly against men going unless they are full single lol xx

Snap my H2b is on his as well up in Edinburgh, my brother has txt me to say he's took his duck tape and handcuffs. Someone has already put on my wall not to expect him home for a few days. I'm sat on my own, with bottle of Rose and doing more wedding stuff.
If I were you I wouldn't let it get to me at all, It's all gone over my head otherwise I'd not sleep with worry.
Heather your the same too my girls (13 and 17) are too at their dad's so no girlie company. Had I thought about it I would of arranged a night out. These men are 100% committing themselves to us so I very much doubt they'd even think let alone do anything. If we have no trust in our fella's then why marry them???
Never mind.... it's sounding morbid. So raise your glass. CHEERS LADIES

I'm sure we'll keep you company as much as we can!

I dont get the whole lap dancer thing on a stag night. The whole reason for a stag night is because one of them is getting married! Not because he's need attention from women! I understand why you'd feel sick though, i'd hate that thought too. Hay, i hated the thought when me and my H2B had a small disagreement and he went off to a foam party with loads of girls in tiny bikini's! He even told me they were tiny and also some got their tops off! I was furious and felt sick!

x

My h2b used to always joke about lap dancers so one night on holiday we ended up in a seedy club, he was enjoying the strippers so I took a gamble and got him a lap dance. I've never seen him so terrified, it was quite amusing, him trying to play the big man and squirming at the same time. I asked him afterwards if he enjoyed it and he said he was glad to have crossed it off his list but never again. I think lots of men think like that, they like to watch from a distance but don't like it close up.

I'm always home alone when he's away and I hate the noise of the house settling. I've got a big metal ornament by my bed to reassure me, it helps.

Aw i hope your night was ok n your feeling better knowing the outcome of his might.

My oh went on his stag in manchester last wk. A wk before one of his bm had had a few drink n said he wold be waking up with lipstick around his erm nethers. Well i wanted tear a bit off him, he said it not just infront of me but infront of his own parents and a lot of our friends! What an idiot. Im just thank ful i know my h2b is not like thst and i trust him. They did however go to a strip club on his stag, he had a few private dances with no touching and the lads to my horror organised a little something for him. Im glad my oh was honest with me bt i cant believe what they did with him. He had four of them dancin round him on the dance floor infront of everyone then one made him crawl.around with onr sat on his bk! I wont tell the rest but i was and am still shocked he did iy. But despite all that when he told me the only reaction i could come out with was a fit of giggles! Im just glad its over and he wont be doing anything like that ever again.

Bet your glad your man dint do that. Im glad he didn't, just wish mine hadnt xxx

Well he lied, he went in a strip club and had a private dance! I feel sick :-/ not because he did that but because he lied to me! He's still hammered so absolutely pointless talkin to him at the moment. I'm so annoyed, just feel like they've all been laughing at me just coz he couldn't face telling me the truth. Right now I just feel like walking out! Grrrr! Xxx

Lying about going there AND getting a private dance.....
Well, I'd be sending him away out of my house to have a serious think about what the hell he is playing at.
Don't let him turn it around with the cliche "I didn't say because I knew you'd react like this"

Sorry I'm massively biased on the topic lol

* hugs*

But he has told you now. At least it hasn't come out closer to the wedding. Thing is I'm not ok with strip clubs so I would be fuming. But like I say he has told you. I think you should just give him a good telling off tell him how much he has upset you lying to you. And just think he won't be going on any more stag nights that are his.. Don't let it ruin what you have darling. X