argh!!!! h2b is being such a n*b today. he doesnt understand that even though we have booked the church we need to book the reception venue asap as were gettin married on a bank holiday next may and we are finding it hard to find a venue which allows us to bring in our own caterers. trying to arrange a viewing of a social club about 10 minutes away from our flat but he said today even if we like it were not booking it straight away incase we find somewhere else but it might actually help if he helped me look for different venues but he doesnt. he just sits there and thinks he doesnt need to help as i find something wrong with the venues, but the only ones hes looked at is ones i have shown him which is out of our price range (hence the only thing wrong with them) i just feel like saying f**k it then i cant be f**ked to look if he doesnt give a damn :( anyone else feel like this sometimes??
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25.05.2013. best day of my life
CommentAuthorsalamander
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I think there comes a time in wedding planning when most women have to leave the men to think about men things and just get on and do it! I run my ideas past h2b but the wedding is 90% my input/effort and the rest is him. I don't mind, at least I get what I want!
CommentAuthorkimi1987
yeh i think thats what my h2b thinks, ive got to plan everything but then everything i run past him he says whatever or no to, theres never a definite yes so i cant win :(
caught the catch of my lifetime
25.05.2013. best day of my life
CommentAuthorkrazykitty
they all the same hun x ry says that he is just gona turn up on the day the rest is up to me and when i said does that mean i get to piock everything he said yeah so there you go! put it this way if he doesnt like it on the day then he cant complain cos you have tried to involve him xx im struggling to get ry to even do the guest list!! good luck hunni xx
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CommentAuthorMrs b to be
Trust me thay are all the same! Men get involed in wedding i think NOT! Thay would rather play on their xbox or do something else! My h2b isnt really fussed on what we have! So i dont ask him anymore Lol Good luck x
Hi Kimi best of luck, some men find it hard to get interested, especially when it is so long away, unless its the next football world cup, i think you have to spoon feed some of them, little things at first, go off and fing the right venue with your best friend or BM, i knw my cousin is getting married later this year and his total input is to arrange Go Karting for hsi stag do.
CommentAuthorJosoap
You can't win either way in my book lol... Just do what you want babe!
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
h2b was like this... went around venues fair enough but wouldnt book anything. I called his mummy hehe. It worked
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