Hey girls I'm really sorry as I guess this isn't a major thing butif I don't get it out ill lose my temper and I'd hate that to happen. My h2b is a great guy 90% of the time! The other 10 you may aswell speak to the brick wall it will irritate you less trust me! So he does a fee jobs around the house like anyone would expect but I had 2 kids before we met, and he agreed he'd do one early morning school run a week to give me a break! And he has done until now, last night he said today was my lie in and then I get woken 20 mins ago asking what I was doing because little lad had to be in school at 9. So to start with not happy at all. I won my wedding shoes for 99p of the bay and he shouts at me! So I said today I'd take the little girl and I'd go start the invites! Seems harmless yes? Unless your me that's not right as he said he was doing them, and I'd do them wrong! I'm sorry to rant ladies I just wanted to get it out before I lost my temper. Xx
CommentAuthorMrsComiskey-2b
It is better to vent and get out all the pent up frustration. As you say you dont want to lose your temper and on hear we will gladly listen..
Just take a deep breath and maybe even talk to H2b when u have settled and discuss how you are feeling (only what I would do )
Take it easy and good luck xx
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CommentAuthorbridalmiss
Oh dear - still, to look at the positives of all this, at least he's trying to get more involvement in the wedding prep and wants to volunteer to do the invites! When we get ours, H2B has already asked me to write them all out (there'll be over 120 envelopes!!!) as he thinks I have neater handwriting - arghh!
CommentAuthorKimmie.Bride.to.be
All men are a pain babe and all men thnink they do everything right. My h2b is too doing out invites...as he is better on the computer...as he thinks lol! (secretly he is...but shh). I will do all the pretty gluing and glittering ;) xxx
CommentAuthorBridezilla
Let him do the invites if he thinks he can do them better. Seriously - don't stress about that part! It's hard sometimes to just trust someone to take things out of your hands, but I'm sure you have enough to do, so anything he can do for you is a bonus.
I can understand you getting upset if you thought you had a lie in and got woken up anyway, but maybe he just forgot. Or maybe he just panicked when he realised he was not very organised this morning.
I'd happily let him do the invites if he'd get him butt into gear we have 6 months and family in Sheffield and Wales that don't even know a date yet, everyone works so gotta give notice for time off. If he would assure me he'd have them done in a few weeks I'd leave him be but he's doesn't. He's unless and just wants to do it so I can't I'm sure look.
The lie in wouldn't of been a big deal if he'd woke up not shouted at me, and then I'd of got up took him school and started the work on little girls birthday but no grumpy Martin and the house suffers. Xx