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    • Happilymarried Mrs G
      CommentAuthorHappilymarried Mrs G
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    I am not worried, before i start ill make that clear. I love h2b and he loves me and i know i have nothing to worry about.
    But omg i really dont like her, and when she met someone and moved away last year it was like i could breath a sigh of relief. Not a huge amount of people like her tbh, she is trouble and i know a lot of people didnt like her when her and h2b were still together. He lost contact with quite a lot of people over her, I was friends with him when he was with her and saw how much she treated him badly and hurt him, and tbh even if we hadnt got together, i wouldnt like her anyway for treating a friend like that.

    But when she found out we were seeing each other, she emailed him saying she had chlamydia, she has had a bought of trying to cause troubles and split us up, including several late night early morning calls when we were iun bed, of course none of them worked and he put a stop to it, but it doesnt stop me not liking her.


    Well, she met a guy and moved in with him out of area, and over xmas came back to visit people and ended up cheating on him and leaving him, even though he had let her into his and his little ones life.
    She slept with a guy whose married with 2 kids, whose wife is pregnant with number 3. This man is my freinds husbands boss, my friend knows his wife and specifically explained the situation to this hound dog as it would obviously put people in awful positions and she saw the signs, well the dog didnt listen and went there anyway. She has also slept with another of my good friends, who has only just split from one of my best friends!!
    I know there is not much i can do, and i have nothing to be worried about we all know her for the trouble she is, but still needed to rant!!
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    • Goff
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    Ignore her and move on. She has no place in your life so dont even waste your time thinking about her.

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    • Mrs Sheppard2B
      CommentAuthorMrs Sheppard2B
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    hiya just try your hardest to ignor her and her troubles and you and your heb should just show her how happy yous are by just being the way yous are xxx
    ex are just so not worth it ....she sounds like nalot of trouble tho so good luck lol xx

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    • Rachie :D
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    She'll get her comeuppance one day hun xxx

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    • laurabrown83
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    Yep ignore her hun, or failing that a good headbutt ;-P
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    • Happilymarried Mrs G
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    I do my best and most of the time ignore her, just bugs me when she is always about in the same sort of social circle to us. Just needed to vent really, i just dont like the girl hehehe
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    • Abi4tomboy
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    its hard to igorne them isn't it i found that out long story short as im sure people will of seen on other posts i dont like my h2b ex and yes he did cheat on me 3years ago but were over it she was jsut a dirty "!$£"!$%^%$ bit on the side and he finished with her but we did have a shock oneday police at my door about 15 no exagration at all with search warrents when i asked answered the door this was about 3 in the morning they ran in and dragged my h2b out of bed and handcuffed him when i shouted and screamed why they said they had been told she had run away to be with him and he had turned on her and was hidin her i wne t mad and said what well im around if anything i would of killed her not hid her in my place so she moved away but when she moved back down here she tryed causing trouble again telling my h2b about all her woman parts so i juts put the whole email she sent all over face------book as she told everyone she was married yes childish i no but i hate her and made me feel good as she makes out shes a loyal wife when really shes not even marryed now when i see her i still want to rip her face off but i no my h2b would never do it again and she trys to talk to him and he looks at her like the scum she is :D
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    • suzky123
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    it just goes to show how pathetic she is... your above all of this! Dont let her get you down or she in effect wins. You dont want to give her the satisfaction that he childish games are working. Chin up

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    is hse just an ex? or do they hav a child 2geva? if not 4get about her! shes past!!.... like that other post an ex is an ex 4 a reason lol

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    • kaz
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    ive been thru exactly the same n the x hates the fact that they are moving on... head high she wants what u got unlucky lol xx
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    • Abi4tomboy
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    when uou see his ex just give your h2b a nice big kiss and smile i do lol
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    • louise
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    crikey she sounds like a lovely lady. Just pretend she isnt there if you do happen to see her. :) xx

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    • elsie
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    Ignore the diseased little ho. x
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    • Happilymarried Mrs G
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    OMG the *** has struck again!

    Firstly, she went round to h2b parents house, talking to his sister and nan about how i was always only ever gonna be the rebound girl and how she wished she could fix everything and asked his sister to talk to h2b for her to make him change his mind!!!
    Then she tried texting h2b slagging me off.... he gave me his phone to read the texts and reply saying whatever i wanted so this is not an issue between the 2 of us its dealt with.... but omgoodness i just needed to rant and vent a bit!!!

    Well now h2b brother, sil and parents wont have anything to do with her, not sure about h2b sister but not really bothered about her tbh.
    She apparently hates them all as no one was there for her when her gran died, ignoring the fact of all the trouble she tried to cause being the reason why no one wants to talk to her.

    Today i have been told that she has now upset someone else, she tried it on with another man who was in a relationship, and when he turned her down she got nasty and has been telling people she slept with him anyway, people who she knows would get back to the girlfreind.
    Luckily the woman trusts her boyfriend and knows he wouldnt go there, but ffs!!! Does she have no respect for herself or for anyone else!!!
    What is it that makes some girls like this?? What is stopping her sorting her life out!

    The man she had been living with had a little boy, she moved in with them and played happy families and mummy and then left them high and dry!! I just dont understand what possesses people to act this way!
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    • kimmy
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    Just keep thinking im marrying him not you!!!!!
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    • madison_uk
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    i had trouble when me and my partner got together his ex kept texting him all the time in the night he'd split from her for like 3 years but started when we started dating then she backed off got married then the texts started again she would say how much she still loved him blah blah blah and in the end h2b gave me his phone and said get rid best thing he did specially to a hormonal lady id just had my daughter, she told me he was only with me cos of are daughter lol, i sorted her out by pm her new husband asked him to sort his wifey out and get her to stop texting my h2b and he did checked her messages lets just say there marriage is on the rocks already.
    think people like this just need a wake up call they get thrills out of hurting other people and to be honest have no friends, they thrive on the thrill of the chase, so just ignore her




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    • JELLYBABY
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    I have had 5 years of abuse and trouble from my H2B'S ex...now I just laugh at her and tell her to jog on..She is so pathetic. Her life is a mess and she cant stand to see him happy with me and being successful. Luckily he knows exactly what she is like and just ignores her. Its a shame she uses their little boy as a weapon in it all but I know that when he is older he will see her for what she really is and resent a lot of what she has done. Some people just cant help themselves.....
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    • xox-Zoeee
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    erghhhhh ex's!!! xx
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    • ada
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    They are a pain in the but!!!! My ex's ex caused us to split up in the end but that was also as he could not let go either why cant people just move on and be happy with their lives xx
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    • Feb..bride2012
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    I agree girls ex's are just arrrgggg. Ubfortunatly I will always have my H2B ex in our lives as they have a daughter. I just can't stand the women but get along with her for the sake of my step daughter, she was 2 when I meet my H2B and they had split when she was one. My step daughter is now 8 and I love her like my own we also have a little boy who is 3 together. But his ex just can't help herself she still to this day flirts and constanly txts my partner. She is always causing unnessary rows. It is so hard when there are children involved as she will always be in my life. What makes me angry is that fact that she is not a very good mum. We have been told on numerous occassions she is on drugs and has different men around the house all the time, her house is a complete mess and she does not care. Her life is a mess and she has no ambishion to achieve anything.(brilliant role model) We would really like our step daughter to live with us and are hoping in time she will realise her life will be better with us. I think you should just smile at her nxt time you see her and let her know u and your H2B do not care, she would truly hate the fact you are not fazed by her. xx
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    • Enny
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    ex's either way can be a right pain in the bump :D had that often enough ... but also had quite good once they been nice afterwards... my last ex and i was so bad he was so much trouble... was so scared of him only good thing was i could split easier as i lived to far away and a internet relationship doesnt work in lots of ways... (personal opinion) but i also had the opposite i was engaged once b4 never got married though ... thought he was right but i realized myself i'm no good for him and didnt feel as much as he did i didnt deserve him as he was such a good person and it just wasnt right but there we go we split as friends and still talk every now and than to see how we are as i really also got on with his parents and was for a while still in contact... but now i'm glad i have h2b as i know he is the one :) so we will always have problems either with our ex or with our partners ex...
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    • Ignition
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    It's not good. I hope everything works out for you. xx

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