I've just been invited to my own wedding!!!!.... via the book of face!!!! Two of our guests have set up a group that is open to ANYONE. I'm fuming. AND they haven't even got the time right. GRRRRRR
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CommentAuthorKirky
OMG, have you contact them?
CommentAuthorLiz3yy
Oh good grief, that's disgraceful! tell them to take it down now, or you could report it to Facebook?
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CommentAuthorKayteeG
What ? Why on earth would anyone think it appropriate to do that? Are they trying to help or hinder?
CommentAuthorJill
That's a bit cheeky! Think they need a talking to x
That is so out of order - i think they and FB need sorting out! if there was going to be a wedding group you're the only one with the right to organise it!
CommentAuthorsuzky123
omg/ Why would your guests do this. Phone them and make them take it off immediately. Write something on its wall too saying that this is a hoax etc. Make it clear people will not be invited
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CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
I'm glad you all think it's at least a bit out of order. I thought I was over-reacting! H2B's going to contact them as I'm so mad I'll probably end up univiting them! He got so much more tact, diplomacy and patience than me LOL! If I wanted a group setting up then I would have done it myself. For goodness sake. Why do they think they have the right?!?!
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CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
i wud tell them to close teh group asap and tell them this is unacceptable
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CommentAuthorJellybabylin
i also did find it slightly amusingly ironic about u getting an invite! more annoying tho....u may see my point when ur not so mad!
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
has he rang them yet?
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CommentAuthorKinkyemo
ID hit the roof!! Demand they remove it! and ensure that it is INVITATION ONLY!
Oh and next time you see the people responsable Id give them such a freaking slap!
CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
He's emailed them as they're online at the moment. I'll see what they say and let you know. Jellybabylin - I can see the funny side too - it really is quite funny that I've been invited to my own wedding. I've got a good mind to reply 'no' though - they even got the times wrong on the page and I won't be there at that time LOL!
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CommentAuthorLiz3yy
I would deffo Facebook slap em! cheeky sods
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CommentAuthorJellybabylin
ooohhh...facebook slap.....do it! I would reply no just for the point!
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
i wud say no hun!! or do a group of ure own! how dare they invite people lol
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CommentAuthor~ஜ~Tiggs Daltry~ஜ~
id tell them straight that 1 its not up to them to invite people and 2its not their wedding and 3 if they dont delete them now they wont be invited
CommentAuthorserine4andrew
oh no thats terrible, what a horrible thing to do!! i wouldnt even ask for an explanation, id be uninviting them straight away!! hope you get it sorted quickly hun :( xxx
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CommentAuthorNishaVyas88
You're not overreacting- I'd hit the roof if that were me! Especially if it was an Open Invite group that anyone can RSVP to. Good on you for setting your h2b on them, but definitely uninvite them if they don't take the event page down.
When they got the time wrong, was that the time of day or the day itself? If it were me, I wouldn't correct them and watch them turn up on the wrong day *evil maniacal laugh*
CommentAuthorSpud
omg thats so bad, im kind of laughing in diss-belief i would hit the roof!! ooo let us know what the email says! xxx
CommentAuthorPaula
All though they should have never done it they are showing interest and may not have thought it through before they did it x
CommentAuthorMina
i'd definately hit the roof as well, who do they think they are? hope you get it sorted.
CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
can you contact them and tell them to delete the group and also contact facebook. surely that cant be allowed! its your day and to make a group open to every tom, d*ck and harry isnt on
ooo id flip if it happened to me
cheeky f**kers! x x
CommentAuthorlovelylainee
christ almighty - this is why i am putting on my invites no facebook involvement where my wedding and hen is concerned. that's terrible xxx
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CommentAuthorEnny
omg thats just mean... i would be fuming as well so totally understand your reaction there ... hope they closed the events!!! unbelievable....
CommentAuthorJilly17
That is quite unbelieveable!!!! I would have gone mad!
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
you know what the fact that they have got times etc wrong i would let then get on with it ....have they got the venue right ?
contact the venue , maybe they could send them an invoice for the hire etc
they will look so stupid
and i wont even think of inviting them after this ...as they say who need enemys with friends like that
I would reply no, and explain you wont be there as you will be at your real wedding at a different time etc..... make the point public and then deal with them in private.
CommentAuthorshellay
thats awful, why on earth would somebody do that, its out of order :) x
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
can i reply to the group invite ........please please
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CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
that's outrageous I wouldn't bother email or call or text but got see them face to face to uninvite them and report the problem to face book. who do you think they are to organise an open event/group
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CommentAuthorGriff
Oh dear god... maybe they were trying to help? The failed totally though :( xx
CommentAuthorkrazykitty
i would go mental if someone did that to me!!! i think ry would too!! you lucky you got a calm h2b! xx
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its a total disgrace that they have done that!! i could never imagine anyone doin somethin like that!!
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CommentAuthorKatie
WTF!?!?!? Why on earth would they do that? Thats just unreal!!!1 Do you think they thought they were being kind? xx
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CommentAuthorJodyx
Aww this is terrible hun, I would be well annoyed xx
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CommentAuthorMrsPink
WTF!! :O!
CommentAuthornoddingnelly
I cant belive that someone would do such a thing, Id be livid and put something on the wall without thinking about it which could be an oooppps lol
Am I being a tad innocent about the book of face? folk who are your "friends" and feel its ok to invite the world to a special and personal event such as your wedding.
Maybe its time I look through all of mine and give it serious thought incase the same happens.
I hope it all gets sorted out for you xx If not get a burly guy with a clipboard to bouncer and only admit guests with an invite lol xx
CommentAuthorRosie
OMG thats is so wrong why is it people take it apon themselfs to do things like this have you spoke to them and told them to take it off I would be going off my head at them and making it clear to them that if you want to make a fb page about your wedding then you will do they not relise that that group and by seen of the hole of fb I would write on the wall of it just now that this is not an invite from you and that you didnt not set up this page but people will be getting there offical invites soon and that there will be security at the venue that works on a no invite no entry system xx
CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
Thanks for all your support ladies! Turns out that they use FB for organising their own private lives but had forgotten to make the even private, just for them. Hmmmm...anyway, they have now removed it, so all is well with the world again! I can't belive that they don't have a diary in this day and age a shared online diary (me and H2B do this). Ah well. As far as I'm concerned, it's done now and no really harm done apart from my blood pressure for a couple of hours LOL! Hx
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CommentAuthorekielty(now Trow)
Im glad they took it off! That was quite naughty! xx
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CommentAuthorkimmy
That's sooo wrong !!
CommentAuthorkrazykitty
glad it is all sorted out now hun and to be honest thats just stupid! why dont they use the diary on their fones!! im sure they will have those if they dont have a diary! x lol ah well glad it over with xx
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
i`m still up for slapping them ..................................PLEASE