ok so after having a rough patch with h2b, i am having a wedding planning evening, and i've just started a guestlist and im unsure whether to invite my siblings, i have 3 brothers, 2 sisters (they have a different dad so technically their step siblings!) i never see any of them apart from one brother who comes down near christmas/easter to bring presents for my son, another of my brothers iv never met! but have heard from family hes on drugs! so i dont know who to invite if any, my guestlist is already long, but do you think its harsh not to invite them? i could invite the one brother i see, but then id feel bad not to invite the others!
god i have such a complicated family!
xx
CommentAuthorcymrugal
would they even know if you got married if you didnt invite any of them?
CommentAuthorSuzi
My thoughts exactly ^^^^
Do not disturb... Already disturbed enough!
CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
my family is a bit like that my mum has step and half brother/sisters all over the place! I've decided to only invite people I like and see reguarly. I'm not paying for people I dont know or care for to come to my wedding! may be harsh, but i'd be spending a fortune if not x
CommentAuthoriluvcakes
Totally agree with you cymrugal and pinkalice! xx
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Can't wait to do it all over again on the 4th October 2017!!
i am not iniviting anyone who i hardly see, or havent seen for a loooong time. why would i want to celebrate with someone i hardly know?x
CommentAuthorKizzy81
I think you've got to be tough - if you think about, you've probably NOT been invited to a wedding you maybe thought you might be, and did you go nuts, or did you just say "I'm sure they had good reason not to invite me". Most people will understand, and by the sound of it some of yours may not even know you've got married - if they don't know, how can they be bothered?!?
CommentAuthorDiana89
If you've never met them then don't. If you want to invite one brother do just that or if you want to invite sister(s) too then go ahead but really there is no point having someone you've never met and may never see again there. Don't deprive one brother bcause of the others
CommentAuthorLisy Lou
Its ur big day, so sod the othas, u just invite exactly who u want there. Theres no room 4 worrying bout peoples feelings when ur doing ur guestlist, invite who u want & leave it @ that x Lx
CommentAuthorsuze
I TOTALLY agree Lisy Lou my family are a nightmare and Pauls aare all very close so was abit upset at first then I just thought sod anyone who wants to be petty.Its your day why would you want people your not that fussed about being there.Do whats best for you and your h2b
