Hi all,

So after my wedding there's H2B cousins wedding in October and his sisters wedding next year in July I think.

My question is- is it acceptable for me a wear a dress that's in my wedding colours (sky blue) to someone elses wedding? Also, could I wear my wedding shoes/bolero or will that raise a few eyebrows/upset the bride?

I'm just paranoid cause I know some brides get upset with what guests wear at their weddings. I worry it'll look like I'm trying to bring my wedding back into someone elses or something, am I being ridiculous?

Also, would it be weird to wear the same dress to both weddings?

I know it's probably down to opinion at the end of the day but I just wanted to check it wasn't a definite no-no lol.

Thanks!

I think it's absolutly fine to wear your wedding colors and accessories to another wedding. And also the same dress.

There were a few people wearing their wedding shoes at our wedding (they were pleased to be able to wear them again!) and I have one dress that I've worn to five weddings ... somehow been to that many where there were no overlapping people!

my cousin wore her wedding dress to her sisters wedding (was just a maxi style dress)
so yeh wear what u want

Ask the bride/s!

I think it would be fine but if your not sure what they would like ask them!
I think they would only have a problem if your dress was her colours and looked like a bridesmaids?
As for wearing the same dress to both I think it would be ok as they are so far apart, would the guests be the same at both?

I say wear what u want too, they probably won't even remember as such as they'll be so wrapped up in their own days x

Half the guests will be the same at both weddings. Maybe I'll ask around and see what other people are doing in regards to wearing the same outfit to different weddings. If I'm not the only one wearing the same dress be reet lol.

Glad to hear that wedding outfit recycling is perfectly acceptable too :)

I agree, wear what you want. If it ruins the brides day she has bigger problems on her had then your outfit.

Would you be bothered if they were to wear said dress and shoes to your Wedding??

I have a friend who is wearing a similar style dress to my Wedding in the colour I wanted!!!
I'm not at all bothered by this as I know I'm the Bride that day!!!
:-)

Eh?! I've had one dress I've worn to every wedding I've been to for the last 8 years, same people for many of them, is it actually a thing you have to get a new one... for every wedding!? Definitely can't see why anyone would be bothered about you wearing a dress in your wedding colours, or your wedding shoes, to be honest I doubt people would even realise. The only thing I'd be slightly hesitant about would be the bolero, but that may just be because the only time I'd ever wear a bolero is at my wedding, and a lot of them are very "bridey". But you know them, if you think they're the type of people to care, then plan something else.

Yeah I agree with the other ladies, as long as you don't turn up in a big white wedding dress and try to up stage the bride I can't see why they would bat an eye lid at whatever you choose to wear!

Wear what you want, no one will mind x x

I think it's fine un, it's not like you're going to turn up in your wedding dress, ornother white dress. I wouldn't worry, just wear whatnyou like, at least you'll get some more wear out of your shoes etc just think the cost per wear will go down which can only be a good thing xxx

funnily enough we're going to a wedding this summer and Dan asked me if I was going to wear my wedding dress (it's been dyed) ... of course I'm not going to! Despite the fact that it is now purple, it's still way too dressy to be wearing as a guest

Wear what you want chick.