when do i tell my 9 year old sons dad am getting married .... and do I invite him and his other half ( who i like) and there 2 babies
i still get on with his mother and go round once in a while for a catch up and a brew so do i invite her??
i was with him when i was 18 had my son at 20 and we split by the time i was 21 so am 30 this year so weve been apart for nearly all my sons life... i dont hate him we were just young
My sons dad is only bothered in his sons life 2 days out of 14 and even then its basically the wii and macdonalds! oh and always has something to say about me some criticism etc even down to the car I drive... basically because hedesnt have a car and i dont think he likes to see the fact am dong well for my self etc and the H2B even my son says hes the best dad ever, so i dont want to rock the boat as my sons dads is acually bothering at the mo with his son
i would really appreciate some advice ladies
CommentAuthorKaya
My mum's ex husband invited her to the evening do if that helps at all.... x
Now Mrs Cobb!!!!!! :-D
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Its up to you if you invite them to the wedding or not. If you don't feel too sure about the wedding then it could be a nice gesture to just invite them to the evening do. I think the sooner you tell him the better though so if he kicks up at all you have plenty of time to get over it before the big day. You don't want things kicking off nearer to the time. Good luck with it and hope it all goes well. x x
CommentAuthorsalamander
Iwe toyed with the idea of inviting my boys dad who we get on with and who would hopefully be having the boys so we can go somewhere after, but in the end we thought - he still left me and my boys (10 week old twins) so why should I pay for him to eat and celebrate with us? Harsh? maybe, but numbers are limited
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
Have you talked to your h2b about weather or not to invite him. that's the best place to start
as to telling the guy your getting marred sooner is better you don't wont him to find out through gossip
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I personally wouldnt invite my ex and he didnt invite me to his but thats personal preference. Your making a new start so he doesnt need to be there and im sure your son wont mind