i signed up for a calorie count/controlled website and posted on the forum that i needed help because i am not eating enough and what sorta thing should i be eating etc etc and this woman put....
'Hard to comment when we can't see your diary, however this gets posted a lot..I'm afraid when I see it I tend to laugh to myself...you mmust have eaten an awful lot more than 1250 calories a day to put on the weight..so how come a problem now..I could eat 1250 cals in one course of one meal if I wanted.....!!!'

It is so presumptuous! I put the weight on when i was pregnant with my 2 sons. after each i got bigger and havent put on any weight since i had them but i have lost it, but am stuck at my current weight. my problem is that i dont eat enough and it is why i am not losing it!! grrr she has really upset me and made me angry!

ty. things like that really get to me. it might sound like im over reacting but it makes me not want to leave the house or see anypne and my self esteem drops to nothing i sat here crying because i thought if she thought that then everyone else must think i am an attention seeking little idiot. i shouldnt really use those sorts of sites but why should i miss out!

iggnorant bitch she is grrrrrr made my blood boil readin it :@ i have had 3 kids and after my first one i weighed less than before i had her :-D after second one i went bac to my original weight :-) BUT after my last i put on 7 st with him and i dropped down to 10,4 but have gradually gone up to 11st 4 my original weight is 8st 7lbs i want to be at least 9st or 9 and half but no luck so far :-( xx

ignore her just try eat smaller portions and maybe goin for a walk x

omg how rude!! xx

What a stuck up cow! Shes not worth getting upset over hun, just another rude person who enjoys putting other people down, she obviously has nothing better to do!

Thats so very rude, but just a generalisation. I've been under the dietician for 6 months and in that time only lost about 6kg, which is ok I guess, but I exercise and I know what I eat and what I burn as I have a Ki Fit, but still it ain't flying off. Do you have much to lose? seen your picture and you look great as you are x

yerh i get where u comin from my jelly fat belly and my thighs are my problem i love summer but hate it as my thighs are that fat rub together when im sweaty lol nice thought for u all there lol and i dont wanna feel conciouse on my day or our honeymoon i wana be like yerh u cant keep your hands off me even though he cant now but u get what i mean lol x where do u live totally??

maybe we should all have a monthly jogging to meet up half way between us all im sure wed all be fit and skinny in no time then lol x

Don't listen to a word she said, she clearly doesn't know what she is talking about. Like many brides I too am trying to lose a bit before the wedding, i'll do really well for a few days and then become naughty again. Tried my dress on again at the weekend and i'm slowly getting there, but its really hard especially when you have other things going on in your life. I don't have children, but know what it is like to run a household, work, sort out the wedding etc etc and sometimes food and eating right is what suffers as i just don't have the time or inclination sometimes to be good (like last night when we had take out again!!)

My sister is the polar opposite to me and can eat whatever she wants and not put on weight, even though she wants to, me i just have to look at a kfc and the pounds creep upon me......You have 27 months to get sorted, don't let it stress you out and try and find something that you can easily do..........

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thank you girls, i cant tell you how much you have helped me feel better! stressed i live in norwich, norfolk, what about you??
thanks again for your support you ladies are the best x

totally i live in barnsley so if we jog and meet up half way twice a week we will have to jog 149 miles each hahahahhaha we will be super skinny in no time lol x

phahahhahaha x