Sorry he's being a muppet hun. Withdraw all bedroom activity until he will discuss it rationally with you!

H2b is recovering from an operation and is spending literally all day on the playstation while i run around after our almost 8 month old son, who is at the cruising around the furniture stage and is getting into eveything! I'm exhausted as h2b has been off work since July and has needed 2 life saving operations in that time (our son was born in june.) I've looked after our son since he was a newborn with little help as h2b was so ill, i've done all the housework, cooking and errands. And i'm tired! Thank goodness he's back to work a week today. One less baby to look after! Lol xx

Ah I love finally telling it like it is :) nothing is always roses!
This week OH got up and made us breakfast, two weetabix... Nothing challenging, but thoughtful none the less... Until...Then less than an hour later when I asked him how long it was til we went out he threw it back in my face, supposedly he was taking a long time as he HAD to make our breakfast, oh yeah.. Cus putting weetabix in a bowl is tough!!!! 'How dare I not respect what he did for me.' I cook every meal every day for us, fend for him and his mates on a weekend when they are round, and he is stroppy about weetabix in a bowl?!
Cue big argument.
All over pretty quick but it's sooooooo annoying

Xxx

Annoying thing about mine is when he speaks without thinking especially when causing an argument with people (not arguments with me,just others) he's just very opinionated but I think he needs to tone it down!

P.S - I agree with you over the money thing...I don't care whether you're married or not, I don't know where he thinks he's getting off thinking it's ok to use your savings to buy a house, his own,well maybe, but not yours without discussion. You're supposed to be a 'unit' so finances are one of the things you should be discussing as a 'couple' to him and his friend discussing as a 'couple' x

Hahaaaa, know how you feel georgi. Think it must be a universal man thing!!x

Haha Laura ! I haven't mentioned it to him cause he feels so bad about keeping me awake and I really don't want him to sleep in the kids room like he's offered before but if it carries on I'm going to have to ask him to get snoring remedies from boots or something xxx

H2b asked me a week ago what did I want to do on my bday I told him id like a meal out and left it at that. So this evening my bday im sitting patiently hoping he remembered then he asked me uf I had booked anywhere and then got upset with me when i said i thought he would . not sure if im being unreasonable thinking he would book somewhere or for getting upset he didnt think he should, so argument starts because he cant understand why I got upset.

Nothing yet but watch this space it's not normally long before something comes up haha

I agree he shouldn't be spending YOUR savings on that without you agreeing

P.S. I'm so pleased that you all are normal and do have lovers tiffs and real life dramas,even if it is about preparing weetabix. lol x

My OH pretends to be in a mood to annoy me then when he's put me in a mood he laughs n finds it hilarious
I found it hilarious getting him back by getting my satisfaction in the bedroom n then leaving him hanging ahhhh :) haha

well i feel well sorry for mine! hes having a right shiz time in work, yesterday his boss called him a pr!ck and a mard ar$e and also said nothing would make him happier than having him (h2b) f*ck off somewhere else or better yet f*ck off home then he proceeded to tell him to f*ck off and then put the phone down on him! h2b did nothing wrong and this is not the first time this has happened! and i was working a night shift last night so i couldnt even be with him so he could vent...
i hate his boss, hes a total *insert expletive here*
x

Omg missweedles that horrible what a nasty bully is there nothing your h2b can do about this?

Aww lala I know we shouldn't moan but that's what woman do best (according to men)
It sucks that he's not there with you but bet you have the best time ever when he is, makes you appreciate him more than probably any of us appreciate our h2bs when they're constantly there you do tend to forget to appreciate each other and little things niggle.
In a way I'd say you're lucky because I bet you love him as much now as when you first met him!

I'd say I love my h2b 70%as much as I did when I first met him lol 6years of living with his snoring , mardy bum mood swings,lack of knowing how to tidy up after himself and slight selfishness would do that.
But on the other hand here's some posatives...

He can be caring,he's the best dad I've ever met and when I watch him playing with our son and caring for him I feel so content and full of love and proud of him as a parent to our son, he's thoughtful, protective, he does the best job of putting the clothes washing on the radiators haha , he looks after me when I'm poorly,he defends me (even when I'm sometimes wrong) he doesnt go out every weekend and wee away our hard earnings, we can talk about absolutely anything and never find it difficult to find something to have a conversation about, he argue and burst out laughing at each other, I don't mind that he thinks he's hillariously funny even though iv heard him repeat jokes, he's good looking, VERY charming a real sweet talker.and finally he's my best friend.

So even though our h2bs annoy us sometimes we are still in love enough with them to make vows to spend the rest of our lives together xx

My other half doesn't annoy me. I have no issues with my partner and to me relationship is perfect. It's what you make of it. Everyone might disagree with me but if it's the small things why let it bother you. It's the big things you should stress. Like using you mine to buy a house. That's harsh!!

They say ' a couple who laughs together stays together'

Oh Lala, I only really see my H2B for half of the year. As a farmer he is out from early hours to 10-11pm at night during the Spring, Summer and Autumn. It'I love seeing him in the Winter but that's only on weekends or in the evening after work. It is tough. There are times when I do see him I want to throttle him but I love the guy. (Thank goodness as we get married soon!) Just know that I'm thinking about you while you are alone. x