Getting married in Comlongon Castle in Scotland this time next year.. The dreaded question of who will "give me away" has just reared its head. My parents divorced when I was only two and whilst I had regular contact with my dad and his new family as I was growing up, this has dwindled over the years . Relations are ok now, and whilst I want him, his wife and my two stepbrothers at my wedding, Ive always had my older brother who i'm really close to in mind for the job. Trouble is now I think my Dad will be gutted if hes not involved in some way!! Would it be weird to have them both do it?? Trying to keep everyone happy sucks!! :(
CommentAuthormillz090
Who do you want to give you away? Traditionally it would be your father but doesnt have to be xx
Finally marrying the love of my life !!
10th August 2013 - 9 years to the day we met !
CommentAuthorSam
You can always walk in by yourself, that's what I'm doing.
CommentAuthorlizzylou
Have who you want. If you aren't close to your father - have your mum give you away! A friend of mine did that. And this year my H2b gave his sister away as she hates her father and they have had nothing to do with him since they were children. You can have who ever you want as long as it's special to you.
Lizzy. x
CommentAuthorTatty
It's up to you who gives you away. It can be anyone you like x
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I think you can be given awayby who ever you feel right to do it and yes some people may not like or be upset by that choice but if u want both or if u want ur brother then u do what in ur heart u want xxxx
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CommentAuthorRosyF77
i think its a lovely idea that they both give you away xx
CommentAuthornugget80
If my dad can't make my wedding I am having my 2 daughters give me away... They are also my bridesmaids...
CommentAuthorNicholaP44
I think its totally up 2 u hun, but i agree, u cud have two people do it? x x
Marrying "the 1" on 4th Oct 2013
CommentAuthorTori
I went to a wedding last year where the bride was given away by both her parents. At the end of the day you need to do what's right for you xx
CommentAuthorAlexK
You could always ask one of them to do a reading/ be a witness so they are involved and have their own job
CommentAuthorsarah
bump VickiW97
CommentAuthorMattsBride
I love lalas idea of your dad passing you over to your brother to walk you the rest of the way.
CommentAuthorPrincess2be
Good idea lala and then both get a shot of the bride. Comlongon Castle is lovely - i wanted there for my wedding venue but they were not availabale, booo :( xx