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    • kirsty91
      CommentAuthorkirsty91
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    I have put a deposit down on what was my dream dress a few months back but now having doubts whether it was the right dress. I don't know what im going to do if end up hating it when i next try it on. Do you think the shop would be flexible and let me choose another as that dress isnt being made yet??? :(
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    • kateh3
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    u need to go back and try it on again first but if they havnt yet ordered it i dont see why they wouldnt transfer the deposit x
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    • jodie b
      CommentAuthorjodie b
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    if its not started being made i don't see if that it could be a prob but your best off giving them a call and seeing what they say xx

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    • leafy
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    its possibly just some wedding wobbles setting in, i think we all get them at some point :-) you will probably go in and fall in love with the dress all over again, everytime i see mine i love it more and more xx

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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
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    i'd go back as soon as possible and see what they say,have another look and try on of the dress and then decide xx

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    • SweetyPie
      CommentAuthorSweetyPie
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    Hi Kirsty,
    I'm sure they won't mind transferring your deposit to another dress .. if they want to keep your business. Try the dress on again, it's probably the wobbles as Leafy said. Let us know. :)
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    I had the same doubts after not seeing it for a while but as soon as I went back and tried it on again I just fell in love with it all over again and couldn't believe that I had let doubts creep in.




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    • kirsty91
      CommentAuthorkirsty91
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    Thanks. Really eager to go back to the shop now and try it on! x
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    • Hunny Bunny
      CommentAuthorHunny Bunny
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    I guess its easy to forget the reason you went for that dress when not seen, I agree that maybe you just need to go and try it on again and you'll just know... Ive never come across and unreasonable bridal shop, if anything they usually go out of their way to please the bride, so if it's really not the dress for you, I'm sure they'll have a back up plan

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    • lovelylainee
      CommentAuthorlovelylainee
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    Go try it on again and talk to the shop about your deposit after you have tried it on - maybe when you remember why you fell in love with it in the first place that will help you be sure of why you chose it

    Besides women change their minds often so if they haven't ordered it yet and you want to look at other dresses again to be sure, they will prob be ok with it and transfer your deposit for whatever you choose if you do change it!

    Best of luck xxx

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    • kirsty91
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    I have been to try the dress on again, I was really happy with it but there is one dress that is in the back of my mind and i don't know what to do about it. My dress consultant said to leave it a few more weeks to have a think about it and suggested only to try on the dress ive put the deposit down for. Do you think I should make an appointment to try them both on together to put my mind at ease??? xx
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    • Griff
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    If you think it will help then i would try both :)
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    • x ashlil x
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    yes try both, if not it will probably always be in the back of your mind hun. x
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    • pixie.bunny
      CommentAuthorpixie.bunny
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    I think if you don't try the other on, then you will continue to have these feelings maybe, you can put your mind at ease by trying it on and knowing that you chose the right one in the end <3 Xx
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    • mitch2509
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    yeah i think you need to try both on x




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    • Hunny Bunny
      CommentAuthorHunny Bunny
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    Yeah, ask to try on the other one, otherwise it'll become a scratch you just HAVE to itch if you dont x

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    • 'ca'ca'ca
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    just go and try it on hon, youre probably being paranoid because of the time elapsed from last time you saw it. :] <3 x
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    • lovelylainee
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    If it is bothering you that much then you should definitely try on both and see how you feel xxx

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    hav u been to other shops? cos u got a while 2 go yet! i wud shop around i been to 3 now hav another 2 appointments this weekend, just dont wanan order 2 early but as soon as i do i aint lukin at no more

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