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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    Ugh my man is driving me mad we have for months been talking about getting married and spent 2 months together planning everything, even getting quotes and prices and he has even picked a wedding date which although is still 4 years away he said thats the date he wants us to be married on! but he still hasn't made it offical by actually asking me to mary him and im getting impatiant now as i've already got to wait 4 years for the wedding day, i'm now still waiting to get engaged lol any ideas girls?

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    • Mrs Alsbetty
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    maybe he thinks as you are planning you already are??

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Any important occasions/holidays etc coming up? He may be planning something...

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Or find pics of rings you like, print tem and leave them lying around.

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    but i have no engagement ring yet :(

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    • Mrs Alsbetty
      CommentAuthorMrs Alsbetty
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    hints dove like it haha, have you told people you are planning to get married?

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    its my birthday in july... i've shown him rings i like and most he dont like and has said he is picking my ring not me

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    • DrunchPunk
      CommentAuthorDrunchPunk
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    Does he know he's supposed to? Most men I know are stupid. If he's picked a date, and you're getting prices for stuff, maybe he thinks he doesn't have to!

    You should make it clear you expect a proper proposal, else he might not realise he ought to!

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Hes thinking about it then.

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    yes alsbetty my family know an i've brought it up in convo with his family

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    • L JO
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    I'd ask him lol....say 'oiiii I'm I getting an engagement ring or what !!!!' xx
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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    his sister said maybe its coz we only been together nearly 2 years, he may feel people will think its too soon to be engaged but we've known each other 8 years and have a child together, i dont think its too soon as i love him and wanna be with him as husband and wife

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    • L JO
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    Me and my H2B got engaged after 4 months :-) x
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    • Kaya
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    We got engaged after 6/7 months aswell lol

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    • ginge23
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    We got engaged after a year and half defo dont think its to soon as when you know you know you want to spend your life with someone. I would use the tip LJO gave come straight out with it lol x
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    • Joolsy
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    I would just say to him something like "Oh you got my ring yet - or do you need my ring size" lol xx

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    i fell pregnant after 4 months together, so sure people wont think its too soon to get engaged, i mean if he can joke with our local barman about having his stag do in las vegas and tell his sister that our venue is great, why cant he propose already lol x

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    • L JO
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    Put him on a S E X ban till you get a ring LOL...bet he would soon get one then LMAOOOO xx
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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    he knows my ring size as he bought me a ring for xmas jus gone an i thought it was engagement ring an he said it wasn't or he'd of asked, it now sits on my wedding ring finger on right hand :( x

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    • b2bnicola
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    me and my h2b got engaged after 7 months together lol, im sure 2 years is a suitable time haha
    i agree with LJO sex ban is the future haha x

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    Lmao hmm mite try that lol xx

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    How soon is the second anniversary?

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    not till october, my birthday before then...... he has even picked his suit!!

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    He may be waiting for the best moment to ask.

    If he hasn't asked by your anniversary- kick him in the gentlemans area.

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    Lol ok dove i'll try that one if he hasn't asked by then hehe x

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    • Mrs Joyce
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    lmao loving doves ideas xx
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    • onewilson@btinternet
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    I have a simlar h2b..... we had booked the venue and he still hadnt asked me to marry him, I got soooo impatient i ended up taking into a jewellers and tried on rings and then i said will you buy me that one? which he did........wooooohoooooo x not very romantic, i know, but some men just need a gentle shove in the right direction x
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    • jnaden
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    yeah my man didnt ask me, he just found a ring on line and asked if i liked it...yep i said, then he ordered it and gave it too me one morning with a brew! so i said to him, are we engaged now and he just said yes! not very romantic, but i know my man,hes shy at personal feelings stuff and it was his little way of asking me which is very sweet, for me. Since then he has bought me loads of magazines, took me to every wedding fair in our area and is slowly driving me mad with the budget! but i love him :-)
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    • lala "mod" bunni
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    just say to him you want to make it offical ..........dont drop hints drop bomb shells

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    • Suzi
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    I am in exactly the same position hun, my man has never officially proposed to me, ok so I have a ring but he has never ACTUALLY said the words lol..

    maybe you should propose to him ;o) x x

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    OMG suzi ................tell him to pull his chuffing finger out ( can you tell i`ve a ***** day at school)

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    • Suzi
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    LMAO!!! I keep telling him when the registrar says "does anyone know of any reason why these 2 should not be joined in matrimony" blah blah blah im gonna say "yeah, he hasn't even asked me to marry him yet" lmao!!!

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    • Lisa77
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    I agree with suzi, can you not ask him??? x
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    • fee21
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    speak to him hun and see what happens fingers crossed xx
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    • mrselbie
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    H2B asked me less than 3 months in but we didnt becoem officially enaged until 18 months. It's not too soon if you're sure xx
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    • essexk
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    2012 is a leap year so ladies are "allowed" to ask for their man's hand in marriage on feb 29th - maybe he's waiting for you to propose to him!! x x
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    • Roxii
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    If it was me.. I'd just tell him! :) Just remind him that he's not asked you, and that you want him to? x

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    • Jessica
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    I waited 9 years for a proposition! x
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    • Mrscarter2b
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    Hi hon, we did things backwards too. we visited places and even chose the ring 3 months before he did he deed. Can you believe he even managed to suprise me when he asked me. I was convinced he would ask me where we went on our first date and he dragged me to Ingleton waterfalls on a soggy day, my hair was a mess, I was covered in mud and he went down on one knee on a bridge by a beautiful waterfall after reading me a poem called 'will you marry me'. So the moral of this story is good things come to those that wait. let me know xxx
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    • CommentAuthorkitkat
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    A child is better than any engagement ring in my book that is definately a commitment. Let him ask you 'officially' in his own time because if you give him an ultimatum you will always wonder if he did it for a quiet life and even if you don't get an engagement ring you have his heart. Remember there are others out there who have the engagement and have been waiting forever for a wedding and may never get one. Take a step back and just enjoy your relationship as it is and things have a habit of working out naturally it is a huge lifelong commitment and should be entered into thoughtfully he is a man so he just needs a bit more thinking time than you. I'm sure he will get round to it when the time is right for you both. x
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    • pouchi-loo
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    i agree with kitkat, just give him time, its coming.
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    • ohfiddles
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    I think as alot of girls have said that as you are already planning and have basically set a date, he thinks theres no need to formally propose. I know it would still be nice and all but the end result will still be the same hunny xxx
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    • lala "mod" bunni
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    claire88 your page is restricted hun..... cant send you a friend request .....boooohooooo

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    • CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
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    i proposed to my man if thats any help... :)
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    • mrsmada
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    i fell pregnant wif our daughter after only 3 months, which wud normally horrify me but from the moment i met carl i knew he was the man 4 me. we got engaged after 6 months although he didnt actually say the words, he lit the room with candles and had a bouquet of flowers and our rings next to them with a little card saying " will you make me the happiest man in the world and marry me". i then fell pregnant again wen our daughter was only 3 months old and had a little boy. we were planning on getting marrid last year but the baby came along so we went for this year. why dont you ask him to marry you first xx
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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    Well girls i cornered him last night, i got on the computr and showed him engagement rings and asked what he thought and he said he liked them so i said "can we pick one now" and he said no... he wants me to carry on planning our wedding even though its not for 4 years so i can have my dream wedding (apparently he's not bothered about planning with me as the day has more meaning an is more special to me than him so long as he turns up on the day lol) and wants to save up for a while so he can buy the perfect engagement ring... (then joked "we're not getting engaged til 1 week before we get married") GIT BAG!!! lol

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    • mrs pinkalice
      CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
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    my mum and dad never got engaged, they just decided they were getting married, then she picked a ring. no proposal or nothing! i always joked with edd i wouldn't marry him without a proposal and a ring lol xx

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    • Halloween_Bride
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    Claire i have the same problem with my H2B he wont tell anyone in our family yet till its official and he has asked me, we have done the same as you, planned everything & priced everything up & even ringing the church tomorrow to speak to someone in the clergy to book it, its sooo frustrating waiting for him to ask, its doing my head in cause i want to tell everyone in our family etc

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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    omg halloween_bride me too, im eager to tell family etc espesh my nan as she recently lost her hubby(my grandad) of 50 years marriage and i want to give her something to look forward too, i know my h2b wants to save for a ring but i dont want an expensive one saving for the day is more important

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    • Halloween_Bride
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    i've told my mum but thats cause she was feeling a bit down, i keep asking him when is he gonna ask so we can make it official etc & all i get from him is "i dont know yet" lol, i know what you mean about the rings, we are trying to do the wedding as cheap as possible so that we can spend extra on other bits

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