Right, I'm off home - speak later ladies and mrsbarkertobe - hope you stay with us, I'd miss you if you weren't around!!!

best not be me????????????????? is it?????

Thanks Heather! ive told lala so hopefully it will be sorted so will see how it goes! speak soon! xx

was gonna say ... i know ive opened a phew threads recently but in my defence.......

im getting married in 70 days, im stressed, i have no family, no friends, and no ones opinion.... i rely on you guys to give me honest opinions so my wedding doesnt end up like a charity gig, and well im the croc im great hahahaha

lol!!
dont worry...we know you have been stressed recently with everything!

something just made me laugh to myself. the other night me and h2b were in bed and we always chat before sleep! i cant remember why or how but he said about other men chatting me up once we are married and what will i say if they ask if i have a boyfriend. i said i will say no...Because i wont! well you can imagine if a bloke asks a female if she has a boyfriend what he will say! Will ask to buy her a drink etc...
Then i said i will tell them my husband is stood over there! Very strange to say i will have a husband in 4 months!

not very funny but made me laugh!

very scary! i feel too young to say i will have a husband!

im to young in the head to say i have a husband !!!!!

ahhh bless i will be a wife.... doest mean ill be blinking ironing for him thou grrrrr

i dont.... he frapped me last night saying i love my husband to be loads hes the best ever and i will iron his work shirts for ever and leave the loo seat up


i refuse to iron for him... he can iron his own shirts... i hate ironing so i ron when i need to iron my clothes!!

Neither of us ever do any ironing... actually he ironed his shirts when he was going for interviews, but that's it! lol

I am really naughty I pay someone to do it for me! I so can't afford it but then I just don't have the time to do it myself and if he does it he never does my stuff just his own. he used to do that with the washing as well till I threw a mega eppie

I have to do his ironing, if I don't I come home from work to find him ironing his boxer shorts! OMG and WTF it's taken me a long while to get him to understand that he is a joiner and therefore his polo shirts that get worn under his jumper for most of the day don't need ironing. Also had to laugh one day when he put a big hole in the thigh of his work pants, they were brand new and he wanted to iron them for some boyish reason, the plasticy content of his trousers was very high and as soon as the iron hit them they melted leaving a big hole!

oh dear...h2b used to only do his own washing and leave mine till i told him! and would iron things he he needed them but i get annoyed with that so sunday afternoons i am stood in the kitchen doing all the ironing while he sits there doing nothing! really annoys me. i then ask him to put his clothes away and he says in a min and i end up putting them away! i think i need to start leaving them there till he can be bothered to put them away himself!

i tell him i am going to be his wife not slave! lol!

We both went to see a plam reader and he got told that he if is a good husband i will be a good wife so i always remind him of that!

Sorry no offence, I've never had opportunity to go to a palm reader :)

Righto, h2b just got home, id better make his tea and butter him up seen as though I'm off to get drunk with my long time no see (lives 5 min walk away) BM.

I'm home and therefore back on here! Just had some awesome news! As some of you know I work for a cycling charity that supports disabled people to cycle. I'm a member of another forum (cycle related, not wedding related, so I don't feel as though I'm betraying you guys! LOL) to do with cycling and I emailed their boss man to ask if I was allowed to post for a volunteer web designer to overhaul our website.
Not only did he say yes, but he's also posted the ad himself and within minutes (between me leaving the office and getting back here) I've already got a taker! Can you believe that! And he'll do it for nothing! i may have to arrnage a donation to that forum as a thank you...

can someone please message me on chat I dont think its working :(

Names are flashing up but not letting me read any messages or talk to anyone - going to log off and try later

Hey nickers...I have a stinking cold :( how are you?? excited for you hen do?? xx

I lived in york once but I can't remember it because I was less than 3years old

never been too! been york n chetse rraces they are ace

lol u never been york?

we are having my hen do the morning after my friends wedding (suspect she will not attend) in cambridge we are going to have brunch. then the BMs and I are going to my mums house for our second dress fittings. its all a little rushed if I am honest but then we are not down that way often.

awww nickers lol ave just finishe dnites so heads a shed!! york is ace!!!! r u just goin at nite? if u go earlier and its nice weathe rthe bars by the river r ace

defo go to them bars then!!!

thanks hun xx