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    • Pennylane
      CommentAuthorPennylane
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    needs paid 6 weeks before, I have an empty credit card waiting! It has 0% on purchases which makes me feel better about it and will be paid before it can accrue any interest hopefully!

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    • Rags
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    Dave - knows full well that I'm cooking him, he was taken out of the freezer yesterday to defrost - I have a thing about giving chickens names when I cook a whole bird. I think the last one was called Derek


    And yes the guilt thing is gonna come in handy when we go to my mates 25th - she's taking us all to her salsa club and normally he doesn't dance but I'm thinking...."well babe, I bought my own valentines flowers, the least you could do is dance with me"

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    aww thats gud then whoop!!!

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    • Pennylane
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    poor Dave the chicken. sick sick sick! :P

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    grrr im in tears

    cant believe ive let myself be so stupid

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    • Pennylane
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    I have had a pretty terrible week, I want to fill you all in but can't say much cos it's gone to police but lets just say one of my close friends has a very nasty ex boyf, who has turned stalkerish to say the least, and because I helped her get rid of his stuff (I actaully personally delivered it to him in my car so he didn't need to go near her house again), he was not happy about this! anyway he somehow found out Dave's work number and has been calling him telling him I'm cheating on him!!!!

    The point of the story is it got me thinking what if he believed him???? I was freaking out. Thankfully he knows he's a fruitcake and doesn't believe a word the psycho says, but it's made me realise even more how much I love being with him, so inadvertantly the freak has done us a favour!x

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    • Pennylane
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    cheer up Becca it's not that bad you'll see that soon it just seems worse right now x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    cheer up becca................. i kno money i simporant int he long run!

    but ( wiv my debt hisoty i can say it lol) its only money! u 2 are 2geva happy bar the convo 2nite!!! just start the convo off sayin am very sorry, i was silly etc etc

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    • Faeth
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    *HUGS* Becca - I'm sure the worrying about telling him is gonna be worse than actually telling him. Too much time for it all to go around and around in your head. I'd say try to distract yourself with something else, but I know how hard that can be when you're worrying about something.

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    thanks girls......you've destressed me little bit lol

    no doubt ill be on here later saying either a. it wasnt as bad as i thought b. he wnet a bit mad and has popped to his parents for the night or c. he's askin for divorce lol

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    LOL becca cant u say it was sumting 4 the weddin?

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    • Pennylane
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    it will never be c!! lol you'll see when you look back on this that you were overthinking it! good luck with the conversation - remember you haven't done anything terrible!!! it's only money! and not a lot of it at that! x

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    thing is i cut the card up in dec 09 after only having it a few months...ive been tryin to pay off but the interst is as much as the minimum amount i pay so im not really gettin newhere..i used it for xmas presents and such x

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    • Pennylane
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    right firstly chick, if you've been paying that and never missed a payment you should be able to get another card in your name, one with a lower rate. then transfer it and cut up that card too. apply for one or two more, if they are declined leave it a few months and keep trying again x

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    eh???????? u been payin 250 off for over a year? or its down to 250 now? tell him wat u used it for! and mayb payday pay half off this month then next!! get it gone!

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    • Pennylane
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    I'm off girls, my valentine is home :) !!!

    Right i'm off for some dinner, wine, and valentines fun (ahem) :)

    have a good one people x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    have fun hahhahah x

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    • Rachie :D
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    see you all later ladies - we're off to see the most romantic film of the year - Paul! Lol :)

    Have a great night whatever your doing xxxx

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    • Halloween_Bride
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    i feel sick :( my stomach feels like a washing machine :'(

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    • Rachie :D
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    Aw Geri :( I'm on my phone on the bus lol

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    • Halloween_Bride
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    lol rae, i just hope i dont have what daz has :(

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    • alanafx
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    Hey everyone !
    Happy valentines day ! hope you all have a nice day ! :)
    xx

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    • Rachie :D
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    If you do then make hun suffer and i'll send you down some chicken soup xxx

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    • lovelylainee
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    I really can't wait to find out who won - they will most likely have contacted the lucky bride by now so i am letting my hopes of winning go out the window!

    How is everyone tonight? xxx

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    • Halloween_Bride
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    lol rae i will do, and yummy cant beat chicken soup xxx

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    • *Kat B*
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    i want to cry so much right now, was suppose to be moving back in today but the cleaning firm/removals company have royally screwed up,

    1) they've decided that I said I didn't want my beds - yeah so where am I meant to sleep
    2) damaged most of my possessions
    3) lost the majority of my possessions
    4) insurance company still haven't paid out for replacement of everything i lost

    completely at my wits end now, just wanted to be home

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    • Rags
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    Aw hun, you need to speak to removal company and find out whats happened, also log a complaint verbally, then sit down and write one out, photographing all the damage they have done and send them it if they don't get back to you over the verbal complaint. Hugs

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    • Rags
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    h2b just got home, I was busy chopping the veg for his dave tea, so I opened the door with the knife in my hand and gave him the cold shoulder, he was being all lovey dovey with me and saying that he couldn't have got me garage flowers as they're crappy and rubish and his love for me means I have to have the best....bla bla bla.

    His mate that I bought the other flowers for is having a rocky patch with his missus, when I got home I realised I'd bought her yellow and white flowers....hmmmm something in my memory is telling me these are funeral colours......whoopsies. Well the florist did make em up on valentines day and my mum has a friend who lurves yellow flowers.

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    • *Kat B*
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    we've done the verbal complaint and been informed by our insurance company to get hold of their insurance details to claim off them but they won't release them and surprise surprise the boss isn't available, he will be tomorrow when i drive down to his office and demand an explanation and apology otherwise it's small claims court

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    kate that pants!!! so sorry its delaying u1 and insurance companys just love to take their time payin out!! grrrrrr

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    • *Kat B*
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    tell me about it, if they had their way i wouldn't be anywhere near this stage i'd still be waiting for the cleaners and for the walls to be ripped out, good job h2b knows people in the trade

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    ha yes thats always handy to know people in gud places

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    ok so we had the talk..we're fine..but he's assured me if i do anything like this again , be so stupid..we're through!! :( but :) ..he was slightly less angry than i thought he would be just asked why i got one, what i spent it on..and got pissed that i kept it from him from over a year!

    i feel like such a witch i told him about seein the letter about him apployin for a loan and he didnt get it..he said he was goin to surprise me and take me on holiday :(

    but i said as much as i need a holiday its not worth gettin a loan for !! gahh

    nehoo i refused to have him watch me sign on the credit card online banking so he through the list back at me and told me i got myself into this mess i get myself out so therefore dont think he's givin me the money to pay most of my over draft off :(

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    • Pennylane
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    I'm sorry hun but I wouldn't be standing for that! u are not in a mess! 250 is really nothing, most people have debts these days way more than that. Sorry if it sounds harsh but I wouldn't be putting up with a strop over that amount!

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    no its just not the credit card hun, i have a 1000 overdraft as well that i said was now down to 750..he was goin to be giving me that to clear off most of it

    but even still altogheter my debts is only just over 1000 ....i dont get why its a big deal! but hey ho ..we're fine! thats all that matters

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    • Pennylane
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    1000 is still not bad at all, as long as you're fine hun, i'm sure he'll calm down and still help you out anyway, you're meant to be a team now remind him lol x

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    tbh i can see why he's angry cause we've been here countless times and i dont seem to learn my lesson about being good with money lol!

    havin a glass of champers to chill me out..Phewwwwwwwwww lol

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    • Pennylane
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    see told u wouldn't be as bad as you thought! get those bubbles down your neck and chill lol x

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    yeh im watchin New Moon..so ill be back later

    thanks again girls for all ur kind words and support x

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    • Pennylane
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    oooh enjoy Edward :)

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    • Magsy
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    evening ladies

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    • twirler
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    ooooooooooo i am stuffed H2B cooked me a gorgeous dinner and brought me the most most beautiful choclates when he was in belgium last week

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    back on the diet re set my target

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    OI edward is mine! and just over a grand?? i will swope u!!!!!!!!! lol twirler i can believe ur eonly 9 days away!!!

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    • twirler
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    exciting xx i fly on sat i think it will all feel so real when i get there

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awww bless, where u gettin wed? wen we got engaged in dom rep our room was facin the weddin gazebo thing

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    • twirler
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    we are by the lake in the central park area of universal studios

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    • Halloween_Bride
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    awww h2b is sooooo romantic! he came home with a box of chocs, a single red rose with a minnie mouse teddy & a lush braclet

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    ooo nice one geri

    mike's excuse "i havent had time to get you anything"..em hello u were off work yesterday?? ..auch well spose his gift was not reacting to how bad i thought he was when i told him about my money lol

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    • twirler
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    awwww how cute geri

    And becs it could of been a whole lot worse xxxxx

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
      CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
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    it could have been..basicall i was told to grow the f*** up..and if it ever happens again we're through and that i got myself into the mess and igot to get myself out ! and he seems to be talkin to me like normal ! which is good

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