Wedding Forum - GENERAL CHINWAG THREAD w/c 5th October 2015...

My doctor once made a very inappropriate comment to me which has scarred me for life and the reason I don't like to see him or the other doctors anymore! I was off on holiday and was due my period whilst I was there, so I wanted some pills to delay it (I wasn't on the pill at the time). He opened his drawer and pulled out a wine cork and said problem solved!!!! I don't know why he had a wine cork in his drawer anyway.... ?!

That is so random Flossie! No wonder you don't want to see him xx

Ive seen that too GF I wouldn't trust it either and Im sure i seen the part about the costs of it but cant remember what it was xx

No I didn't GF, he was joking and has always had a strange sense of humour but I didn't find it very funny or appropriate! My mum was in the room with me too and he has been her doctor for god knows how long so she knows what he's like too. She seemed to think it was quite funny.. so maybe it's just me lol.

No defo not just you Floss! lol xx

I changed my dr when I had my LO. They kept messing my midwife appointments up. My first midwife appointment got double booked and they couldn't see me for 2 weeks after that. The receptionist was unhelpful too.

A few other appointments got cancelled so I'd had enough so Once LO was born I swapped to the gp OH goes to and it's a lot better

Im allergic to trimethoprim too GF xx

Kids will be back in about half an hour, then off to the GP surgery. I honestly feel like I could go to bed quite happily.

Ahhh he's doing good then?

Yeah he's a lot better he's on a new inhaler and has to have it daily now to stop any infection getting to his chest, its his dads fault he's in this mess, he has them most weekends as mum and dad have split up, on Saturday he was not well and with his asthma problems any cold goes right to his chest and this has been from birth and he needs to go right to the docs and on antibiotics, dad ignored it and left him so Monday when my friend got the kids back he was very very bad and that's why she had to take him to the hospital, the hosp have said to my friend that if dad hadn't ignored it all weekend and got him to emergency docs on Saturday he would not of needed admitted to the hospital! poor wee thing xx

I know and its the second time this has happened now first time thankfully didn't result in hospital but he was very ill! As you can imagine my friend is livid xx

Hi All, busy day here. Its an awful position at work at the moment. Want to just go home and cry.
really don't feel like going out any more :(

Get well soon Emma

Hope your work gets better Emily your not having the best of times at the mo and that wont be helping!

The dad is an idiot I have no understanding of why he would find it acceptable to ignore him being ill! xx

I think that call about a job yesterday was the push I needed to start looking properly.
I'm just frightened that I'm not ok in myself and that its not good for me looking for another job. but I know its not good for me working here either.

Ill be ok, thank you

Emma, hows your new job?

You might not be ok in yourself but I really believe that your job will heavily influence that! If you spend the majority of your day doing something that causes you stress and makes you unhappy then it's going to have an effect on you in general and affect your overall mood xx

Agree with Flossie Emily, maybe this will be the change you need to get better in yourself

This afternoon has dragged on, wishing I could go home but I'm right out to a Course from 6pm - 9pm! but needs must xx

But you don't have to disclose that to potential employer's Emily. It has nothing to do with your ability to do a job and do it well? xx

I hate going to the doctors unless I really have to,even then I'll ask to see the nurse first as she can normally deal with it,
Awwww sorry you feel that way Emily it can't be easy xxx

That's a bonus then with it being free! I'd not have a clue either! xx

I've had a good day - just switched my mortgage deal and managed to save £107 a month off my monthly payments, so very happy, especially as my acting up post at work came to end earlier this year, so that extra saving will come in very useful :-)

Sorry work is so awful for you at the moment Emily. Nothing worse than having to turn up everyday to sit in an atmosphere like that. I've been there and it's not nice. Hope something positive comes through for you with the agency. I'm not 100% happy at work at the moment - I just feel like I am stagnating and working in the public sector promotions are very hard to come by. There are no development courses offered, but can't really leave the organisation as we want to start trying for a baby straight after the wedding, so have to stick with it for the maternity pay as I've got over 10 years service... Doesn't make the days go quickly though.

Lindsey that's a really good deal.

It is horrible working where your not appreciated

Evening all,just had gyros and rice for t,yum yum . Haven't had it for ages. Kids had pizza.
Good to hear about your daughters eye GF. XX

It's pants when work is a rubbish atmosphere- to me u are there more than you see your own family so you have to all get in a create a god happy place to work- once motivation has gone it's do hard to pick up again x

Ha ha ha I love it Michelle that's fab,I can't wait to get started with Xmas,getting kids to start their lists this week,I've got a few ideas already but need their input. Xx

Yay bake off final :-)