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    • Sarah D
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    That's lovely Mrs wade a bunch of flowers makes a world of difference xx

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    Flossie- m@gic m1ke xxl is out on DVD from today

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    • Flossie
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    I still haven't seen it Mrs Wade!! Maybe that's something I can put on my xmas list as my mum has been asking what I'd like!

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Morning ladies, just catching up on what I missed yesterday! Had a manic day in work so didn't manage to get on here, working from home today to try and catch up! 5 hour meeting yesterday and got told our office is moving into one of our parent companies offices in North Wales as of 4th Jan, so I become a full time home worker as of then as I have no way of getting to the office! Result haha!

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    • Elinor Claire
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    I'm so jealous Emma. Although I'd never get any work done if I was working from home.

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I know haha, I have to make sure I don't have the TV on but going to turn one of the spare bedrooms into an office so I'm away from distractions. I work from home once a week now and I don't get as distracted as I thought I would haha!

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    • Flossie
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    Oooh that's cool Em! I find I work so much better at home, not sure if I would if I was constantly at home though as would surely get distracted by washing, cleaning, cooking etc. hahaha. But will be nice to do things in your own space!

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    • Emily17
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    Sarah the poor thing. must be so difficult for him x

    Great news Emma! I would snap that up in an instant,
    Elinor, I work so much better from home. No distractions it's great!

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I don't really have much choice but it will be so much better, as long as I make sure I go outside for a walk at lunch time so I'm not constantly at home then I think it will be ok! Plus if I have an office I probably won't get distracted by things, I'll just lock myself in there!

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Saves me £65 a month on my train ticket too!

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    • Flossie
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    Y'know I mentioned a colleague who was really rubbing me up the wrong way? I've just been told that her role is going to be slightly changing which means quite a large pay cut - the new role is just admin, she is going to be really chuffed about being an "admin girl"... and reporting to me!!! If she doesn't accept then she will have to leave the business and someone else will be brought in. I really doubt she will stay to be honest.

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    • Flossie
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    Love the thought of having a home office Em! I always just use the dining table when I work from home, would love to lock myself away in MY office and just crack on with work! I'm slightly jealous now tbh lol.

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    • Emily17
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    Wow what a situation to be put in! Fingers crossed for you she leaves so you get someone new in

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    • Flossie
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    I would feel sorry for her, IF she hadn't brought it on herself! She's been playing some funny games that both my boss, the Director and various other people across the business have picked up on. She would be really good at her job if she cut out all the funny business! If she leaves and we get someone new in they would be based in the Swindon office with me, so I will have a bit of company! I've gotten used to being on my own most of the time though, so that would be weird.

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    • Flossie
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    "Karma" springs to mind.

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Haha that's great Flossie! Great for you too, will that pay cut go into your bank account??

    I use the dining table now but if I was doing it every day I'd need a proper office so work are giving me a desk and a PC so I can work properly, just need to clear out one of the rooms to fit it in haha!

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    • Flossie
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    I will be seeing some of it.. not sure how much yet though. My boss did say she would be on less than me though. I'm hoping for AT LEAST a £5k pay rise but we shall see. It scares me that the Director is finalising the budget as we speak so they've obviously already had the conversation and decided what is going to happen... worries me that there may not be room for maneouvre when I have my review next year.

    Oh that's good that they're giving you a desk as well!

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Hopefully they will be giving you a big rise now rather than making you wait until next year!

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    • Flossie
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    I won't get it now, it will happen in time for the new tax year. But will be having my review around Jan/Feb time xx

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    • Emily17
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    I have to work from my lap or the floor at home because the dining table is too high and I am over stretching my shoulders. that or I have to sit with 3/4 cushions :)

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    • Mrs Jones
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    That's a result Emma. I'm working from home today, but have already put on 2 loads of washing and find I come on here a lot more too!!!

    When does she find out Flossie about her new role? I'd love a 5k pay increase - hope you get it. We're lucky if we get 1% but right now I am just grateful to have a job especially when we're waiting to hear if OH is going to be put on gardening leave. Timing sucks with all that we have to pay out for with the wedding.

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    • Flossie
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    She'll find out early Jan Lindsey, boss says he doesn't want to have the conversation with her before Christmas. He wants to combine it with a team meeting, so he'll speak with her first and then we'll have the team meeting - that may be slightly awkward!!

    It's quite funny. I've created a brochure that my boss has sent around the business today asking for some feedback. She's just called him to give her hers - she is being so petty about it and my boss knows it lol.

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    • Flossie
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    Fingers crossed things work out okay re. your OH's job Lindsey x

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I put a few loads on last week but I haven't done any today, been on here more than I should though!

    I think if that was me I would just look for another job haha! No way would I take a pay cut and then tell everybody about it!

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Afternoon.

    Had a short nap, caught up on Tuesday's I'm a celeb, now watching last night's. Lady c and Tony remind me so much of my youngest two bickering so much.

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    • Flossie
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    I think if it was me I'd refuse to participate in the team meeting and just leave lol. To be told you're taking a pay cut and a "lesser" role and then having to sit there for the day discussing how the team is to move forward etc may be a bit of a kick in the teeth!!

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    • Mrs Jones
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    Thanks Flossie - sometimes things have a way of working out for the best. I think it's going to make us have to decide where we want to be long term: Durham or East Sussex.

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    • Mrs Jones
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    I couldn't do that - I'd feel so embarassed and like I'd failed in my job role.

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    • Flossie
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    She's a very proud woman, I can't see her taking it very well at all. I am expecting a full on drama!

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    • Flossie
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    I believe things always happen for a reason and work out for the best Lindsey. Sometimes we just need a nudge xx

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    • Glitterfairy
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    I found starburst in my work bag, they are going down a little too nicely.

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    • Mrs Jones
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    I love a bit of office drama!!!! I've got one in my team who is drama to the max - mountains/mole hills. Such a negative woman. Had to do her supervision yesterday and she just doesn't get it. She likes to challenge and do her own thing, but she's doing things wrong as a result. Her references were poor before we took her on and I wanted to pull the plug, but got over-ruled by the senior manager and now I am left to have to deal with the inadequacies. She just can't do the job, but I need evidence to move it on formally!

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    • Glitterfairy
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    My shoes that I have ordered for my Christmas party

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Love them GF!

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    • Flossie
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    Sounds a lot like my colleague Lindsey. She's deliberately gone against things my boss has told her to do because she thinks she knows best, and her way is obviously the right way!

    Gorgeous shoes GF.

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Thanks, I ordered them whilst at work last night, reviews said the pic did not do them justice.

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    • Mrs Jones
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    Lovely shoes GF. What are you wearing them with?

    I know Flossie - she drives me mad. Plus it's the insolence and the attitude. Unfortunately as we're public sector it's not easy for us to just make the role a lesser one - we'd have to go through a COnsultation process with her.

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    • Emily17
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    Lovely GF!

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    • Glitterfairy
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    I'm wearing them with the dress I wore the other evening for the James Bond theme night

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    • LeanneR0186
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    Lindsey when OH left his last firm for his new job he got put on 6 weeks garden leave but it was with full pay, I thought it always worked like that.

    Love the shoes GF

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    I've not watched it yet either Flossie.

    Great news on working from home Emma

    Love the shoes GF

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    • Emily17
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    Leanne I think it depends on the role and the industry from what I've heard.

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    • Flossie
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    I thought you still received full pay whilst on gardening leave too actually as you are still contracted to the company, but I guess it's the whole stress of having to find another job during that time.

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    • Flossie
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    I've emailed my mum now Mrs Wade saying it's on my christmas list! OH wouldn't go the cinema with me to watch it but I bet he will watch the DVD with me. He has a secret man crush on CT hah.

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    • Emily17
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    I was confused sorry I think you always get full pay on gardening leave but my comment was on whether you get gardening leave or not. Sorry

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    • Flossie
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    Ah yeah, that would depend on the company/industry. I would be put on gardening on leave as I'm privy to confidential information that the company wouldn't want to get passed onto any competitors. Sounds good being paid for doing nothing!

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    • LeanneR0186
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    No worries Emily I don't really know much about it as with my job it's not required. I know that OH put in his 6 week notice and the next day they sent him on gardening leave with full pay. His new company was in the same industry though so I expect that was why x

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    • Emily17
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    Yeah, at our place they ask if you are leaving the industry or not and if so will put you on gardening leave. Chances of staying in it are minimal though because our industry is big but far spread.

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    • Emily17
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    Makes me laugh though because in most instances here the information will still be valid and correct 3 months down the line as now

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    • Flossie
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    Yep same here Emily. If you knew you were leaving the company you'd still have time to get together whatever information you wanted to take with you before even handing your notice in.

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