id never had a day off sick ever until the car accident and even then I worked the day of it and two days after, then it was the weekend and I went back to work on the Monday but half way through the day I couldn't even stand straight because of the pain and my staff sent me home. I self certed for a week because I felt cheeky having the time off. Tried to plod through for another 4 weeks until on week 6 I went to the doctors to get help and he asked why an earth I was still working and demanded I go on the sick until further notice .. I was gutted and thought people would think it was silly but they know best and I felt less guilty bcause it was the doctor telling me I wasn't fit to work not me saying I wasn't.
Flossie's right.. Your body is telling you to slow down but you're that stressed your brain is telling you to carry on which is making you Ill :( mm the thought of chicken tikka is making my taste buds water .. Chillis out though now!
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Glitterfairy the best cup of tea I ever had was when I came round from a general anaesthetic and was given tea and hot buttered toast. It was just what I wanted.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
That's what the women say after having a baby, they love the cup of tea and toast afterwards.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Laundry is on, went downstairs to do it and found that one of the cats had pooped in the girls bathroom, (when we moved in their litter tray was in there as they never went out until they got used to it and now one uses it as her bathroom as well), neither of them had cleaned it up and seeing as the cat in question had been out all morning from when I got in I am guessing it is from last night. So it stank down there, had to bleach the floor!!!!
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
I've been told that the cup of tea after giving birth is the best ever. I'll have to make a comparision come end of April. Although I might be asking for alcohol instead by then.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
I hope the birthing unit at the Heath Hospital does good tea and toast. Certainly the short stay surgical unit does.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Toast anywhere in the hospital normally tastes good, my daughter loved it when in childrens ward. They do tend to use cheap tea bags though, but with us after a delivery we are usually making a pot for us as well so they get to have the teabags we buy to take in.
One tikka with a splash of rum cooking very slowly on the hob!
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Might have a lay down actually and watch Back to the Future 2 which was on last night when I had to go to work but was recorded. Doubt hubby would have done the third one though, but 2 is my fave.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorInDreamland
EC I work in HR, the team have all complained about lack of resources, nothing has been done 18 months later M
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
I haven't seen Back to the Future in ages. I liked 1 and 2 but wasn't so fussed about number 3.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
IDL maybe you all have to be off sick with stress at the same time.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorInDreamland
EC that's a nice idea but not realistic lol. We're a high performing dedicated team.
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorFlossie
At the expense of your own health IDL!
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Maybe you need a rota for being ill. You're allowed to be sick on Mondays but the rest of the week you have to be in tiptop condition :)
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorInDreamland
I know Floss.
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorFlossie
I was planning on having a bit of a spruce up of the house this evening, fed up of it looking like a pig sty. Want to do a big clean out of the airing cupboard as loads of cr@p just gets shoved in there and I am pretty sure we don't need everything that's in there. OH also has lots of stuff that needs to be put in the loft. Want everything clean and TIDY!
Oh wants to go and purchase the laminate flooring tonight though so by the time I've walked pooch, cooked, eaten and done that I'm not sure I will be bothered. Definitely a weekend job though. Told OH that anything on the floor some Saturday morning is getting chucked in the bin and I don't care what it is!
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorInDreamland
I so need a long holiday,
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorMrs Jones
Me too - off the week after next, although not going anywhere. Feeling a bit peed off this afternoon. The minute something goes wrong, it's my fault as the Lead. Sick of my staff questionning whether I've done something - if I said I have ,then I have. Think I might have to call them all to a meeting as sensing some unhappy rumblings from within. Problem is I am here there and everywhere for meetings, so not always getting into the office daily, but always around on my mobile for emergencies. Really not happy or impressed today.
First Date 26 April 2014
Proposed 27 June 2015
Happily Married 18 June 2016
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Afternoon all. Had a lovely afternoon with my friends and their kids and soft play. LO is asleep now it tired him out. Going to face the music soon and go get weighed at SW. Haven't been very good at all and have a wedding Saturday and staying over so will be bad Saturday and Sunday too!
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Does anyone know where u get the code for the bay?
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Good luck Danielle. I've been pleasantly surprised on occasions when I've had a bad week and my weight has stayed the same rather than increasing. I think sometimes eating more can increase your metabolism. I never did SW or WW, but lost weight with a dietician after being referred by my G.P., and then again in the run-up to my wedding.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
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Thanks Elinor. Need to start exercising more than anything
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Just got the code. It's CUKFLASH
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Oh dear Lindsay that sounds difficult. A meeting might well be a good idea if there are bad dynamics, as I know as a junior member of staff if I was unhappy I found it very difficult to raise it with my boss. The boss we currently have is lovely and is constantly asking us if we're happy with our shift patterns and if we're happy with how much time we're given on the issue desk (I work in the library at a higher education college of music and drama). There was a point years ago under the old boss when a member of staff was on long term sick leave and I was basically being given my share and her's of the issue desk. I had half an hour at the beginning of the day to work in the back room and take the post around, and then apart from breaks I was on the desk all the time. My boss only ever did the first (quiet) hour so never realised how tiring it was being out there all day. Plus I had various things I was responsible for and the desk was so busy I couldn't keep up. It got to the point a couple of times where I was close to tears. Fortunately I had an appraisal and was able to raise it there, and she did split the load more fairly after that, but otherwise I'm not sure how long I would have kept going before it got too much. With the boss we have now I wouldn't have got close to that point, as she would have asked me far sooner if I was coping.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Danielle I think that's sometimes why I've been pleasantly surprised, increased food but also increased exercise. When my husband and I had a few days in Paris my eating was disastrous, but we covered so much ground on foot that I was burning a lot more calories than normal.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
EC they were all on the tv last night. I had to leave part way through the second one which is my fave. Hubby did not record the third one.
Laundry out on the line now, hopefully it won't rain, it's not forecast
The spot on the base of my nostril is annoying me now, it's really sore, but nothing there
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorFlossie
Don't know why but today and yesterday have been absolutely manic since about 3.30pm onwards... why do people not use the rest of the day to send out all their emails and make all their telephone calls?!
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
That's a really annoying place to get a spot. They always really hurt there. The one that bothers me most is if I get one right under my bottom lip, as I play the flute and that's where you have to put the mouthpiece. You have to press it in as well, you can't just put it there lightly.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorMrs Jones
Banging headache, just put a washload on and about to walk up to the shops - fahita Thursday!!!
First Date 26 April 2014
Proposed 27 June 2015
Happily Married 18 June 2016
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Flossie I do most of my emailing and phoning at lunchtime, and invariably get into a long queue with phone calls because lots of other people are using their lunchbreaks to phone as well. The only one which really doesn't work is my dentist which closes for lunch right when I have my lunch break and doesn't open until I have to go back to work. They don't have an option to contact them by email either, which I could do at lunchtime for them to pick up, and you can't leave a voicemail message.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
We normally get busy after 10pm on a night shift, suddenly they seem to all have problems,
I'm pooped, not looking forward to my early start tomorrow as working. Hate doing an early the day after finishing nights. But after that it is half term, yayyyyy
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorBecci93
Grrr. Trying to sort my P@yp@l account so I can make use of the code and they are an absolute waste of space
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Think I might order th bridal hangers tonight. Can't wait for pay day
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
What's the code all about?
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
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Nor can I Danielle, and nor can my bank balance, pay day is Wednesday
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
I get paid tomorrow!
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Glitterfairy I'll try to make sure if I have any problems they happen during the day. I'd much rather not have to go in to the unit in the middle of the night anyway. Fingers crossed I go into labour at a sensible time of day. Not during rush hour would be nice. My friend got caught in rush hour during a very quick labour and nearly gave birth in the car. I did contemplate ringing the unit yesterday because my feet went out from under me on my way to work and I landed on my hand and my hip, but everything I've read suggested that given I didn't land on my stomach it was nothing to worry about. I figured if I rang they'd only tell me what I already knew, that if I got any bleeding or abdominal pain it would need checking but otherwise just keep an eye on things. No sign of any problems anyway.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Wednesday here too GF. Can't come quick enough. Staying away on Saturday for a wedding so the credit card may have to make an appearance
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorMichelleC961
Payday for me tomoz too yay!
CommentAuthorMichelleC961
Woke up tired and now I'm shattered!
CommentAuthorMichelleC961
Spent a whole day interviewing- some of the candidates were dire and just about lost the will! Last candidate blew me away- really bubbly- done loads of research, gave good examples and saved me day- needless to say I've appointed her- :-)
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Thank goodness you found someone good Michelle. It would be awful if you went home feeling the whole day was wasted because you found no one. I know last time my team was involved in recruitment, the people interviewing came back at lunchtime looking very depressed. Fortunately the afternoon session was more successful.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorMichelleC961
Interviewing is harder than your day job, to listen and write answers and encourage and still be upbeat when you've had 5 rubbish candidates in a row- def equals lost the will! Could have done with a drink by lunchtime lol- chocolate had to do lol- yeah I'm really pleased too as Woukd have then had to try and find bank or agency staff which again is hard to find decent people and then end up spending loads of time and energy training them for them to leave-
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
I've heard it can be really boring as well, as you have to treat each candidate the same and that means greeting them in the same way, asking the questions in the same way, giving them the same information (unless they ask questions of their own). You can start to feel like a stuck record.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorInDreamland
I'm back.
Been referred to emergency eye clinic tomorrow morning first thing. For tonight I've been prescribed G01d3n 3y3 every 2 hours. Doctor was really shocked when she saw it.
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorBecci93
Oh dear! Does she think it's more than a stye?
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Yes. She basically thinks it got infected and turned into a bad cyst.
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorInDreamland
She's not an expert on it though hence the emergency referral.
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorMrs Jones
What were you interviewing for Michelle?
First Date 26 April 2014
Proposed 27 June 2015
Happily Married 18 June 2016
CommentAuthorMrs Jones
Sounds nasty IDL
First Date 26 April 2014
Proposed 27 June 2015
Happily Married 18 June 2016