Wedding Forum - GENERAL CHINWAG THREAD w/c 12th October...

What is it with men and being accident prone at the moment ! How's your oh now pp?

Mines at the hospital this morning for day surgery to get his mole removed at last - still never received the so called letter they sent!! They told him to be there for 6.45 and he's still sat in exactly the same place now. Must have had an emergency

Morning all,

GF I am sorry to hear you're having a rubbish time of it. As the other ladies have said he needs to wake up and smell the coffee and realise how lucky he is to have a wife like you! I really hope the two of you are able to work it out and get everything back on track.

Hope your OH's hand is okay Emma!

I'm on a complete downer today and was all of last night. Popped to my mum's on my way home from work last night as she was upset and asked me to go round. She's been on and off with her boyfriend now for the best part of a year but it is now over. She also told me something about how he had been treating her and I am absolutely fuming about it. So upset that she is so upset, breaks my heart

Awwww Flossie, sorry to hear that. Like Sarah has said, your support and love will get her through this tough time xx

There's plenty of men out there probably in the same position as your mum - been treated badly all their lives looking for someone just like your mum .. She just needs to find one :) sounds like she needs a good holiday in the sun to cheer her up!

Morning all.
So sorry to hear that GF. I really hope you can patch things up and he will realise what you have between you.

Flossie so sad about your mom. at least she has you for support.

Woke up shattered and feeling generally glum today. had a really long day yesterday. I was at a work for 7am and didn't get home until after 7pm because at a customer site.

Have a first stage interview today with an agency for a role I applied for but not feeling it.

Sorry to hear about your mum Flossie, it sounds like it's for the best though. Still doesn't make it any easier but it's good she has you there for her xx

There must've been a reason why they split though Flossie ... Lots of the time people don't realise what they had until it's gone and even then they don't realise that's what they really wanted

That's hard Flossie. How long had they been together?

Trying to get through all these gretna green posts to get them off my homepage!!! Lol xx

Yep he's been re-married for 14 years! I absolutely could not imagine them together though. They split when I was 3/4 so I can't even remember them being together - it's a strange thought! He's the nicest man in the world but like you say, it didn't work out for a reason and they obviously weren't meant for each other. Did make me so sad though! xx

I can imagine. I'm lucky in the sense that my parents still get on with each other. OH's parents are also divorced and re-married/re-partnered, and they all get on with each other too, so we are both very lucky! If they all hated each others guts it could have made for a very interesting wedding day lol. Although I think we would have eloped! xx

I agree Flossie. The Gretna green ones couldn't be more annoying haha. cant seem to get through them all.
I'm away for a day and there's 2 pages!

Your mum defo sounds better off without that hassle then, she will realise this very soon herself and be back to her happy self in no time xx

She realises now she's better off without him and she can't 'change' him.. he needs to want to change and help himself and he's obviously not willing to so there is literally nothing left that she can do. I'm now on the hunt to find a man with hair and a dog - that's her criteria haha xx

I am so cold today cannot warm up at all! heating on but doesn't feel like its making much difference xx

She is considering getting another dog at the moment but I'm not sure she wants the commitment/responsibility... she said if she finds a man who already has a dog then it's 2 birds with 1 stone! Haha.

It is chilly today, not very warm in the office despite the heating being on all night! Might have to crank it up xx

Bless her! Started not too warm here either 14.5 degrees but now that ozzys had a good rampage around the room causing chaos it's increased half a degree lol. Dressing gown and fluffy bed socks are a must since noone can see me tapping away on my laptop haha. If die if my webcam secretly recorded you and it was sent to your boss lmao!

Oh god haha! I'd literally turn bright red if a $kyp3 request came up lol! Im just if the view that what is the point of wasting makeup and creating washing if noones going to see you!

One of my bms is coming round for a goss later but since I've known her since we've been in nappies I highly doubt she'll care I'm in pjs and dressing gown lol

Morning all
Sorry to hear about your mum Flossie xx
GF sorry to hear your a bit down about things, your OH sounds a lot like mine at the moment. Xx
OH is getting there thanks for asking becci ,although he really p***ed me off yesterday, been in bed majority of the day but came down when kids got home to sort their t.
He comes in no "hello" "how u feeling" - nothing but "where's my t". I could have cried.
Still no better today but not been sick so it's a start. He will be told if he's the same tonight when he gets in. I'm meant to be out with the girls Friday, first time out without OH in over 2 yrs so I intend to make the most of it,lmfao xxx

Morning PP xx

Morning Flossie X
Thanks Sarah X
Blanket and sofa day, love it xx

I should have been able to work from home for over a year but even though my laptop was ordered last June I only got it in July this year! Our IT department are phenomenal .. Then when it came it had to go back because they hadn't put any rental systems, sign in ability, document folder accessibility or anything on it .. It was literally useless .. God know what they thought I would have been doing with it!

What is it with employers expecting the world from employees these days - no one seems to get a say in anything anymore!

There isn't any appreciation for what you do and the effort you put in either

I agree 3, its shocking how you need to be made to feel like this in work! xx