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    • kirsty91
      CommentAuthorkirsty91
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    So my h2b and I booked our venue today. We're getting married in Anstey Hall in Cambridge, and its so beautiful!! The thing is, we have changed our date to Friday 13th September 2013. Are we mad getting married on this "unlucky, superstitious" day?! By having it on this day we have saved 1300 quid on our venue hire!

    Any other past/present/future Fri 13th brides???!

    Kirsty xxxx

    Got together 24/03/2006
    Engaged 02/01/2012
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    Kirsty and Ian xxxxxxx
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    • Shirleygirly
      CommentAuthorShirleygirly
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    Sounds lucky to me if you're saving money. I don't believe in all that Friday 13th superstition, my brother was born on Friday 13th and he's a legend. I think the number 13 is lucky. x

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    • Shirleygirly
      CommentAuthorShirleygirly
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    I hope the ceremony is at 13.00pm x

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    • MrsDanks
      CommentAuthorMrsDanks
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    It's recently been my lucky number as my newborn son was born Friday 13th last month! I say go for it, and what a great saving. xx




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    • kirsty91
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    Haha shirleygirly I think the ceremony is gonna HAVE to be at 1300 hours =) my lil sister was born Friday 13th so I'm hoping it'll be our lucky day!

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    • LegoWife
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    You can prove to everyone that superstition doesn't make an ounce of difference!

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    • Elle23
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    You have to get married at 13.00!!!
    On the 13th day
    Year 2013
    and saving £1300
    Its just meant to be xx

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    • emmaaa
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    I like that! All the 13s! If you're not superstitious then absolutely not mad at all! My wedding's the day after yours, so I have the day before the wedding being Fri 13th, so maybe not quite as tempting fate, but still, any 11th hour pre wedding disasters, that's what I'll be blaming it on! :-D




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    • samitrev2B
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    also be 12 mins late so when u walk in it will b 13.13 lol thats what my friend was gonna do xx

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    • Wifey2be
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    thats great news about the discount.. i never believed the day was unlucky till the friday the 13th just gone and someone crashed into the side of my car!! no i will never drive on that day again lol x
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    • CommentAuthorSweetchilli
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    Some great ideas for the number 13. We are getting married on a Friday although not the 13th and saved £4000 on our venue for exclusive hire.
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    • Elle23
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    We too are getting married on a friday so we have avoided the dreaded minimum numbers and are also able to get discounts with photographers, florists etc!

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    • kirsty91
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    I think iI'm gonna try my luck at getting Friday 13th discounts off caterers and everything else I can think of! Xx

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    Kirsty and Ian xxxxxxx
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    • SarahT74
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    All the discounts, sounds pretty luck to me :)
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    • MrsShaw
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    i think its a good idea :) that amount of money that you saved!

    plus at the end of the day... it really is just a number :)

    xx
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    • Officially Mrs M
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    sounds lucky to me, saving money is always a bonus

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    • Princess2be
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    Sounds very lucky to me but i love the number 13, lol, im not superstitious at all, think its an old wifes tale.
    x




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    • natalie2614
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    With that saving I would say Friday 13th is very lucky for you! x

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    • almost a year wife!!
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    i was born on friday 13th feb and im left handed.......im still alive lol....go for it! this is a superstition i do not believe in! xxx

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    • Princess2be
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    hahahaha, lillmisschuckles, you made me chuckle!
    x




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    • Definitelymaybe
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    My H2B was born on Fri 13th, His mum was too and my son was born on (sat) the 13th. Fri the 13th has always been his lucky day and if it wasn't for the fact that it is 2 weeks before xmas we would begetting wed on Fri 13th too. But we don't think it will be fair to ask our guests to try and get a day off in the run up to xmas when those days off are needed for xmas shopping etc, so we are hoping for the 14th. xx

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    • Velcro
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    We we're planning on a friday the 13th wedding too, he proposed on April Fools Day, so I thought it would be quite funny

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    • Vickie
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    Don't beleive in superstitions, go for it your saving a lot of money plus its just another day, bad things can happen on any other day too.

    It is only a bad day if you are a crusade.

    xxx
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    • Princess2be
      CommentAuthorPrincess2be
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    And think of all the savings your making!!
    Velcro, did you think his proposal was an april fool?
    x




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    • Hayley Elizabeth
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    I think if it saves you money then go for it :) xx
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    • Princess2be
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    BUMP




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    • PB
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    13 is my lucky number and my birthday is on the 13th.I wouldn't of hesitated at getting married on Friday 13th and i think its proved very lucky for you! I am having 13 people to my hen do and someone said ..oh no you can't set a table for 13...nonsense.You have just benefited hugely from other peoples supersticious nonsense,well done you!
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    • Kate4
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    My birthday also on 13th. Never been an issue. I passed my driving test on Fri 13th. It's always my lucky number :-)

    Agree with poultonbride, other people's superstitions have been your gain! :-)




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    • ShelleyM46
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    i would not go lookin 2 book it on that date but with a saving like that i would :)

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    • MrsGtobe
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    My parents got married on Friday 13th and have been married 28 years! I'd say go for it :) My mum was also born on Friday 13th xx
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    • LynD
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    my daughter was also born on Friday 13th February.... Littlemisschuckles - you don't happen to be 25 do you??? if so you're the same age as my daughter (now that makes me feel old hehehe). I don't believe that day is unlucky at all :)




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    • Velcro
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    It didn't even occur to me it was april fools day til a few days after otherwise I might have questioned it haha!

    I was hoping for Friday the 13th sept, next year, but its far too soon to save up, just for the novelty of the date lol

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    • Princess2be
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    Aww, nice stories on here.
    x




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    • rachymoo
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    I'm trying not to worry about superstiiton - our wedding day is our 13th anniversary (of being together)! xx
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    • CarolineW10
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    We are getting married in the year 2013! and we have been together for 13years! We are hoping we have had all the bad luck that we are due!
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    • FrancescaJ
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    hello i am also getting married on friday 13th september, i dont think its a unlucky date at all and im probably doing everything thats supost to be bad luck anyway xx

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    • almost a year wife!!
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    lynD yep i am ha! 26 next wednesday! x

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    • Lulu1388
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    not at all! my bday is 13th so im celebrating on a friday every few years or so.
    my OH's brothers stag is friday 13th sept and theyll be flying out for it!

    Also in some religions 13 is deemed lucky so :p xx

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    • KimD7
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    13 is not unlucky every whee... a few positves to note about the number 13.

    the number thirteen is a prime number and is only divisibly by itself. This is symbolic of:
    •Incorruptible nature
    •Purity
    •Integrity

    I also found this.
    The number 13 is considered unlucky for many people in the West.

    This is not the case among many Chinese.


    The digit 1 when it is in the position of tens sounds like the word 'definite' (shi or 实) in Mandarin and dialects such as Cantonese; while the digit 3 sounds like life, living or birth (生)

    As a result, 13, which is pronounced as shisan in Mandarin, can mean 'definitely vibrant'.


    So there you go it is def not unlucky and I think it is fab you have made such a huge savingx


    Hope you have a fantastic day xx
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    • *KelBel*
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    I don't think it's unlucky either... We're getting married on the 13th sept next year and although that's a Saturday we will have a few anniversaries that fall on a Friday so I'm not worrying x

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    • Lulu1388
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    for us jews, 13 is deemed a blessed number :D x

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    • AmyP7
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    The discounts sound good to me x x

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    • Vickie
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    Unless you're a knight templar then Friday 13th is not unluckly, lol

    13 is my lucky number, we are getting married July 13th this year and it is a Saturday.

    It is like any other day and you have saved money so bonus.

    xxx
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    • Lulu1388
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    Vickie your getting married on my bday :D xx

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    • Vickie
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    Ah Happy Birthday Lulu for then, lol. xx
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    • kirsty91
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    Hi Francesca! Woooo we are getting married on the same date! How's your planning going?

    Kirsty xx

    Got together 24/03/2006
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    To be wed 13/09/2013
    Kirsty and Ian xxxxxxx
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    • LynD
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    littlemisschuckles - now I do feel old hehe..... well I hope you have a lovely day and you get lots of nice treats (my daughter's involves a fist of iron bag, a onsie, a jumper with a mooostache on it and some money to go to download festival). am making a cake for her too - one covered in chocolate bees :).. (nickname is B). x




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    • SamanthaG76
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    It's definately not unlucky if its saving you that much money!! I think superstitions are rubbish! x

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    • Tori
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    Friday 13th has already been lucky for me, I wish you some of my Friday 13th luck for your special day x




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    • Jennifer84
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    It's definately lucky with the money you're saving! Xxx
 

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