Well the wedding is in 6 days and am now getting into a blind state of terror. Can feel a knot of panic in my chest.
I love Rich to bits and I want to marry him but I think it is just a fear in case it is a mistake. One of my friends got divorced after 18month (together 8 years) another after 6 months (engaged for 4 years) and one of my clients (I am a mortgage advisor) got married to her partner of 10 years in Jan and he left her in March.
What I am scared about is what if things go wrong as they have for the people above.
Am I being stupid. As I say I love Rich and he is everything to me but I can't help but feel scared about this huge commitment.
Is this cold feet rearing its ugly head?
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
............and breathe! Don't let other people's broken relationships play on your mind. For every 1 failed relationship there are many many successful ones!!!
Yeah it does sound like cold feet hun. You may just need to get away from all the stress and pressures of the wedding. Can you and Rich not take a couple of hours out and go for a drive or a walk in the park? Spend some time alone and rediscover why you love him so much and realise how specual your relationship is. xxx
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CommentAuthorLiz3yy
Awww, poor you. Please don't let what has happened to others upset you or mar your big day. A friend of mine got married almost a year ago after being engaged for a long time and they are very happy together.
It's perfectly normal to feel nervous, especially when you have only a week left, christ if you didn't feel nervous there would be something wrong!
I don't think it's cold feet at all, relax and enjoy the last few days of freedom so to speak, you'll be great on the day!
Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)
CommentAuthorsarsibob1
This guy who got divorced after 18 months was meant to be coming to the wedding with his wife. Only found out a couple of weeks ago that they weren't coming (only invited to evening so not an issue) and only found out yesterday that they had been divorcing for 6 months (knew they weren't coming but didn't say why). I think this has put the jitters up me. Was fine before.
