My Flowergirl is quite small for her age do I've take her to the bh of s and found a lovely dress quite grown up in the colour I was looking for. Now I've just noticed the dress maker who is making my bm dresses has a Flowergirl dress in the same range as my bm ones with just a difference to the straps. It is double the price of the bh of a one though! What do I do? Get the original one which is a different material to the bm dresses but same colour and cheap or pay double for the one in same range as bm dresses? Not just that but for some reason the Flowergirl dress is dearer than the bm dresses!

This is a hard one, when u say the BH of S ones is quite grown up in what respect? Im really torn and probably wont help in the for you but my opinions are:

Part of me would say got for cheaper option as children do like to run around and have fun and also dont see why pay more for same dress by same maker for soemthing smaller it doesnt make sence and is a pet hate of mine when store/maker do this.

However I also dont like it when flower girls are put in dresses that make them to grown up for their age (if that makes sense) so depending on how gronw up the cheaper dress is maybe go for same as otehrs but with different straps and pay a bit more if it more apropriate for her age.

Personally I think its always nice to see flower girsl in different dres to BM as it gives them the feeling of being totally different and special for the day and it alwys pleases them.

I say it's grown up, what I should have said is its not babyish like some of the bh of s flowergirl dresses. I'm a bit mad that she is charging more for the flowergirl dress that's smaller than the bm dresses!

It's always the same, the more money they can get out of us brides the better!

stick with the cheaper one!!! for 2 reasons
1 - flowergirl is gonna run around, dance, spill her dinner down it so why waste money on an expensive dress.
2 - the dress maker is taking the p**s so out of principal I wouldnt part with my hard earned cash when you were happy with the chaper dress before you knew about this one.

My FG dress was £24 and she looked perfect, plus when she was running around on the grass and rolling on the floor I didnt care as i hadnt spent a fortune on it.

Stick with the cheaper one. Recent wedding I went to the flower girl had a £16 peacocks dress and got chocolate ice cream all down the front! Xx

iv got my flower girl in a different colour to my bridesmaid but still matches my colour scene bought it on the bay for under a tenner woman i bought it from got it hand mayd paid £170 for it silly to pay all that for kids bought her a second dress to change into so she can run around no way i would pay a lot of money for a kid to ruin in one night x