how on earth do get my h2b pinned down to choose the songs we need for registrar and n first dance.

mark is very much a mans man, and doesnt wear his heart on his sleeve very much. he isnt one for big grand gestures or holding hands in public (you getting the drift now!?!?!?)

when i mention we need to sort these songs out he papers over my comment.

i have been writing songs downs as i think of them i.e. deep and meaningful type of songs, but if i mention them to him i get the old "we are not having that tosh".

i would love to have a bon jovi (my favorite) brought into it, but he refuses point blank. even songs like bruno mars; amazing is poo-pooed! how can i make him choose with me. Reverse psychology is needed here, but cant think of how i go about it!!

I want him to be involved, as his first wife didnt give him a say at all, so his input and ideas are important.

how have you girls picked your songs.

I gave the task to h2b as he is the one who is into music and he has come up with some crackers cant member any of them but when i listened to them i was like yeah taht is the one...... mind you it took me a long time to get him to do it though