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    • MrsHarding2be
      CommentAuthorMrsHarding2be
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    I have been planning everything as h2b said i could, Every time i look ay my list it don't seem to go down! It starting to stress me out to the max!!

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    dont worry hun it will go down! i done most of my plannin, bridal party gifts are wat am doin now

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    • MrsHarding2be
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    I am looking for photographers atm but seem to be getting nowhere x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    i got mine off here hun!

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    • MrsHarding2be
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    That sounds good!! I don't want an expensive one

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    look through them mines £1000 for her to be there while gettin ready til after first dance, album of my choice a dvd wiv music on of all pics and the cd of all pics wiv copyright so can print any off i want

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    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • MrsHarding2be
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    Yeah i will do, thanks x

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    • WeeMintyMonkie
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    I feel the same. But i think its lack of money and still having over a year to go so cant properly book things yet thats getting to me!!
    Just wanna have monet to spend on the things i want to and to pay venues etc.
    My list seems to get added to lol

    x x x
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    • MrsHarding2be
      CommentAuthorMrsHarding2be
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    That is the same for us, we got 12 months and not much paid off, its driving me crazy xx

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    • x~Hails~x
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    I have FOUR YEARS lol to be honest Ive done EVERYTHING except paid for things.
    I know what little things Im getting, i know which company's we are using and have even paid for some deposits its really just a question of getting the money together to pay them off!
    Four years to go i do feel like im standing still sometimes tho but then i think well actually we postponed because we want our own house and i remember that when we do get married we will be happy and secure in our own place.................what could be better!

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    • Rachie :D
      CommentAuthorRachie :D
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    I have 9 months left and I cant really do anything until January now and its stressing me out tbh so I share your pain - try making things for others x

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    • nini
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    I have 11 months to go and have done absolutely nothing. The priest hasn't got back to us to confirm our date and we've been waiting 7 weeks now since we first contacted him, really stressing me out. Until the date is definite we can't book anything at all. We have chosen our caterer and have a reception venue but we have SO much to do and nothing is getting done.
    Feeling like giving up on the church we really wanted and finding somewhere else for the service just so we can start organising everything.
    Fed up :(
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    • Rachie :D
      CommentAuthorRachie :D
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    Nini hunni I'd give him a gentle call hunni x

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    • nini
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    We have been, but it's always the answerphone. We have been emailing and talking to the church warden and he is sending all our emails to the priest and the deacon but they are just not contacting us. It's so frustrating, especially as the church is in Kent and we're in Birmingham so we can't just pop to the church and hope to catch him.
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    • Kylee27
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    I had to persevere with our vicar too Nini. Got there in the end so chin up and just carry on trying. :0)

    I've got 7 months to go and things seem to be moving now, my mum is more excited about the hen night it seems (i'm joking-but only just!) and things are starting to snowball. Just having to put every spare penny into finishing paying for things and we should be done by January.

    Why not concentrate on one thing on the list at a time? So for example an email daily (doesn't matter if you annoy the warden!) until you get your date then move on to number 2.xx

    Can't wait to be married!


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    • nini
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    Yes I have been thinking about writing a list, but the thought of how long it would be terrifies me!
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    • Dee37
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    I would recommend writing that list, it feels scary but once its there you can do it with a bit of a timeline and allocate jobs to others if poss. I had that at the front of a ring binder as a colour coded spreadsheet and updated it as I went along and kept anything related in plastic wallets. Some jobs rely on others being completed so take it a day at a time. Lots of balances are 28 days before too.

    We got engaged in January and have organised the lot for October in the same year, its in 5 weeks. We've really enjoyed the planning, going to miss it :-)

    x
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    • MrsMcleish2B
      CommentAuthorMrsMcleish2B
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    I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle at the moment. I've got 9 months to go and I've only booked my Church, Reception, Bar and bought the dress! In the middle of sorting the caterer and photographer but it's taking AGES! And photographers are so expensive and confusing! :( hopefully it will come together soon for all of us x

    Wedding Day - 16th June 2012


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    • Charlyzard
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    I've got just over 6 months left.. I have a h2b, a venue and a dress. Nothing else is booked, sorted or even planned.
    I am stressing out all over the place. The more I try and decide what I want.. the more I change my mind.
    Sigh.
    xxx
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    • Dee37
      CommentAuthorDee37
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    Venue and dress are most important, its good you have those sorted.

    Try visiting local wedding fayres, they were really helpful for me with suppliers/ ideas. Found our photographer at one of those. I think most of them are expensive, its also down to personal taste and what style of pics you like, I wasn't so keen on the work of some of the cheaper ones but they vary. Plus you have to gel with them as a person as they are with you all day and often while you're getting ready.

    x
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    • MrsMcleish2B
      CommentAuthorMrsMcleish2B
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    The photographer I like has increased her price from £800 this year to £1200 next year!!! Typical! lol xxx

    Wedding Day - 16th June 2012


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    • Charlyzard
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    The more I think about things the more I think you just need to find something you like and get it.. I am umming and arring over everything I am trying to organise. Is being so indesisive a woman thing? :P

    Ive been to two weddings this weekend. They have both been brilliant and the brides have been fantastic and everything went perfect.. It just makes you realise what its all worth it in the end :D
    xxx
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    • MrsHarding2be
      CommentAuthorMrsHarding2be
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    I have written a list of things i need to do asap, and things that can wait, i looked at my brothers wedding about a month ago and seen everything was lush, kinda hoping my wedding will be the same

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    • MorgsysGirl(kempy)
      CommentAuthorMorgsysGirl(kempy)
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    I have a photographer till after the first dance, DVD and album £450 xx

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    • Mrs L 2b :)
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    I don't dare write the list for fear of how long it will be and how much money I will need!
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    • MrsHarding2be
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    kempy who does that? x my list seems to grow fast xx

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    • MorgsysGirl(kempy)
      CommentAuthorMorgsysGirl(kempy)
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    add me hun and ill message you also depends on where you live sweetie x

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