Just need to get this out,
My best friend and I have always been so close and been though a lot together in the past, we were emotionally bullied by the same girl - think Mean Girls scenario! We both stuck together and worked hard to build up a circle of friends together. My best friend got married two years ago and I threw myself into organising her hen do for 30 people, opened a bank account for all the money, booked hotel rooms, booked activities, brought accessories for everyone to wear etc, arranged transport - basically I did everything to make it amazing. I wasnt a bridesmaid (she didnt have any) and she chose to share a room with another girl on the hen but I didnt let it bother me. She has now got a 6month old baby and he's gorgeous and i'm so happy for her.
Now i'm getting married, I thought it would be great, we've got the same circle of friends. But she has changed towards me. I think we are just in different chapters of our life and are struggling to relate to each other. We've talked about it lots and got things out in the open a couple of times over the last few months but things always go rubbish between us again. She is my bridesmaid but I have arranged my own hen do because understandably she has been too busy with the baba. But lately i've noticed she says she is too busy to see me. but then will make arrangements with the others and is excluding me and I'm finding out about it through word of mouth or bookface. I feel hurt as it also seems the others are quite happy to go along with excluding me. I have also fallen out with a good mutual friend of ours (lets call her betty) who I was very close to. I fell out with her because I booked my hen do in plenty of advance so people could save up but betty said she couldnt save up and count her out. Which I was ok about but then a few months later I see on bookface that she is on another hen do and it felt like a punch in the stomach. So my best friend is seeing betty and acting like I never existed in the friendship and has not even said to betty about the situation or how much it hurt me. But I always stick up for my best friend in situations and support her.
With the wedding not too far off, I just feel drained by all this rubbish and so low at the moment. I feel there is no point talking this over again with her cus it hasnt changed anything the last couple of times. I feel quite scared about the wedding and lonely. I'm not looking forward to the hen right now.
I know there is not much you can say to this but I just need to get it out. I'm very teary today and i'm in work trying to hide how low I feel right now.

ahhh hun! ive a friend hu recently had a bab and shes always off with another friend - hu was a total bizznatch to her when she got pregnant! i was there for her always going out but now im not around much anymore :( but with regards to your sitch u gonna have to have another chat with her- she may have a lot on at the min xxxxxx