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    • MichelleC961
      CommentAuthorMichelleC961
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    Hi all, I'm having a pretty rubbish week, work is crazy and now wedding plans are on hold as OH mum sadly has cancer and is starting chemo :( we have been told cancer is contained so hopefully chemo will work but until we know for sure we are putting wedding on hold.

    I had just started to get excited about our new venue after we realised that our dream of New Zealand was a no go due to his mum not being able to travel all that way without going first class and costing a fortune ( she has a bag so a long haul flight woukd be difficult to change this!)

    Anyway, his mum having cancer has brought back all the horrible memories from my mum passing away 2 years ago and this broke my heart in every way so I'm just struggling to take everything in.

    I'm also working in London for the rest of the week which I'm not looking forwards too- really just want this week to be over so I can pick myself up and get my positivity back xxxx

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Oh Michelle, sending lots of love and hugs your way. I hope the chemo works well and the wedding can go ahead as planned.

    Sending get better vibes to MIL.

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    • InDreamland
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    Sending hugs your way and hope FMIL makes a full recovery x

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    • Mrs M Wade
      CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
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    Oh no Michelle. Sending lots of big hugs to you. Remember we are all here for you. Best wishes to your mil x

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    • Sarah D
      CommentAuthorSarah D
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    Sorry to hear to hear your news, sending hugs to you and I really hope the wedding can go ahead as planned, best wishes to your MIL xx

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    • Flossie
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    Sorry to hear Michelle, sending best wishes to you all and wishing your MIL a successful recovery. I think you're doing the right thing to put wedding plans on hold for now, you've got too much stress going on without needing the stress of planning a wedding too. Take some time out and have lots of family time. Hopefully you can just pick up where you left off in due course xx

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    • Emily17
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    Sending lots of hugs Michelle xx I hope the chemo works for her xx take care!

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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
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    Oh dear. I hope your FMIL recovers soon. Big hugs.

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    • FutureMrsW
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    Oh Michelle I am so sorry to hear your news. Best wishes to you and your family at this difficult time. I hope there is a positive, speedy resolution soon so things can start getting back on track. Lots of hugs xxx




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    • Mrs T Hurley!
      CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
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    So sorry to hear this. Lots of hugs being sent your way. Hope she gets better soon. x

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    • LadyC
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    Big hugs sweet. My daddy died 3 months ago from bladder cancer. My Nan has now been diagnosed with non-hodgkins lymphoma and has just had her 1st chemo. So hard xx

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    • MichelleC961
      CommentAuthorMichelleC961
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    Hey all- thanks so much for your kind words and thoughts- I know it's the right thing to put wedding on hold but I had just started to get into wedding hype mode- Oh said on the phone tonight that FMIL needs to have chemo until after Xmas too :( xxx

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    • CarolH81
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    Sorry to hear your news. Big hugs to you and your family. xx
 

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