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- CommentAuthorjadem
Ok so a little rant... sorry guys!

just feeling really down at mo.. my sister is my MOH and we went to look round shops for BM dresses and my dress and half way through day well nt even half way maybe 1hr half she decided she was to walk off and go home! this upset me alot as its something i want to enjoy with my family and BMS, its hard enough H2B's parents live in Cyprus so i cant share this with MIL2B or his sister who is also a BM, i just feel let down and everytime i try arrange something i just get the feeling she doesnt want to be there... but how the heck do i tell her she needs to sort herself out and be a MOH and sister and be here for me before i hand her MOH dutys to someone else without upsetting her and causing massive problems in the family. Also doesnt help that H2B said he is happy for me to plan but when i try discus plans with him he just doesnt seem bothered :-(
maybe im a bit hormonal today i dunno, its just really upset me.

J x
- CommentAuthorstarlighthunny
I think that you need to speak to you sister and do it in a way where you are both not going to be upset. I s there a reason that you cna think of why she is like this? ( a little jealous maybe for example?)

If your h2b is anything like mine, he is fairly uninterested due to the time scale that we have, but I know nearer the time he will be more into it........its a man thing! lol Im sure he will come round to talking alot more about it soon hun.

You know that we are all here for you chick, chin up and let us know how you are getting on x

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- CommentAuthorAurora
defintaly have a wee word with her. tell her how you feel.

I hope things get better dont let it put a downer on your plans!!

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- CommentAuthorKaz
I've got the same prob with my sister (she's MOH too!)
She just keeps saying "there's plenty of time!" I've now had enough and am going to tell her "if you don't start helping then you'll be the one in the bin bag, cos I need to spread the cost!" lol if it doesn't work she'll be exchanged for someone that gives a s***! lol x

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- CommentAuthorloustew2012
same here but the fact is shes got a wee bit of postnatal depression so i didnt help when i had the talk with my sister but shes perking up now, and now get countless texts and facebook messages.

as for h2b well he also said for me to do it but hes designed our cake and is slowly helping on things. mainly cos i said id smash his xbox and wont get another if he didnt!!!!!

deffo talk to her!!! xxx

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- CommentAuthorjadem
  
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Thank you all. I think if she doesn't turn up Saturday ill defo be having a serious convo with her. I love her to bits just need her to be here for me, and as the MOH she has so many responsibilities, only thing thats really making it difficult is she keeps saying i want this dress and this colour and when my BMs explain to her that they have to do as me and mark want (as long as they all happy with dress too) but as for the colour they will have the colour that we choose or very close to the colour, and when this is mentioned that its our wedding not hers she gets all stressy and goes off on one! im really trying my best to be nice, but she needs to remember its my wedding, i didnt even ask her to be MOH she just assumed.... :-/ this is so hard for me.
As for h2b I hope he comes round to it lol xx