I dunno! Wedding plans have come to a stand still, don't know what else I can be getting on with in the mean time. Decided I hate my wedding dress but can't afford another one. I really can't get into the swing of things anymore. I check my email more than UKB now!!! (I know, I can see the look of horror on all your faces at this). Iv just lost my umph and I need it back!
Oh and to top it off I'v but some RIGHT pork on! I'v got me some more chin ladies and I feel like a whale. Also my skin looks horrific! My hair is shocking dispite getting it cut the other day......I need a hug, a cake, a fag (not needed one of these is MONTHS) and a makeover but a good kick up the backside might do me a bit of good.
Any offers?
CommentAuthorfuturemrsstockwin
*kick* x x x
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
BOOT! That was my kick up the backside.
Seriously though, I'm sure it's normal to have ups and downs on how interested in wedding stuff - it's hard to sustain an intense level of interest over a long period.
That's a thought - are you due your period? Sounds PMT like to me.
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Not had one for a few months. Iv got the implant in, stopped them completely for a year, started again and now they stopped again. lol. I am PMT lmao! x
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
you going mad chick ........
welcome to the dark side ...in to the land of lala
Awah Puddle...I was wondering where u were...you havent been on in a while!!!!!
Think all us ladies go through moments like this....you should perk up soon hun!!!! As for wedding planning Im the exact same at the moment...at the end of the day there is only so much you can plan for and do!!!! Youve still got plenty of time to tone up if you feel that youve put on weight.....I find that worrying about this seems to make matters worse (comfort eating)!!!!
Whats wrong with dress?? I thought you were delighted with it!!!!!xx
CommentAuthorspooney24
Aww Puddleduck I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so down. What exactly is wrong with your dress? Just wondered whether you are feeling that way cause you have put on a little weight of late or cause you are feeling so sad. Do you usually wear tops and jeans or are you a girly girl? I know that it has taken me 4 months since my dress started getting made to get my head round the fact that I wasnt getting married in a tshirt and jeans and that I could possibly look ok in a dress for one day.....it was only last Friday that my dressmaker commented that I was actually smiling in the dress rather than my usual "omg I look terrible" or "I look like a sack of tatties". Yeah I still dont think I look gorgeous or stunning or any of the other words I associate with brides but I have accepted that I look fine and that will do me.
Hope my rambling has helped a little, you know where I am if you fancy a chat. xx
26th December 2007 - the day I met my special man
8th August 2008 - the day he was mad enough to propose to me
24th July 2010 - the day I felt beautiful inside and out and
became Mrs Dickie for life. xx
CommentAuthorbillybob
I'm feeling a little bit like this too, to be honest I've had a few patches like this. I think it must be quite normal. I'm either stressing about something to do with the wedding or thinking sack it I cant be bothered. I have sent all my day invites out but only half of the evening ones (I'm having a sack it moment with those) and now some people are starting to drop snide little comments about not having received invites - which is just making me not want to finish writing them even more!!! I almost feel like telling everyone to f*** off (sorry). I am even getting paranoid that people who I havent heard from in months that cant even be bothered to ask how I am are getting in touch just because they want to come to the wedding. I think Bridezilla is actually a stress related condition. Rant Rant Rant oh and MIL keeps whinging on about how she cant find any shoes!! I really dont care about her shoes I have enough to worry about. On a lighter note I make a mean cheesecake puddleduck87. Dont worry this phase will pass.
CommentAuthorvixen
big hard (kick) up the a r s e for u hun xx..lol
georgina x~x
the little gypsy!!
CommentAuthorCeCe
Duckie - you have 12 months...relax and stop living and breathing the wedding. There is NO problem being organised but you are waaaay ahead of schedule - IMO you need some other interests...then you can dip in and out of the wedding prep as and when.
Leave it alone for now..keep up to date on payments etc so you don't fall behind x
CommentAuthorlulu83x
ar hun, i was feeling like this last week, book yourself a facial somewhere it makes the world of difference, makes u feel refreshed, relaxed and just better in yourself! dont reach for the cake! lol, I am the worst sinner of comfort eating, I have actually resolved to putting pictures of extremely toned tummys and pics of skinny jeans on all my kithchen cupboards to stop the urge!xx
CommentAuthorKarlie1976
Hope you are feeling better today chick :0) It was great to chat to you yesterday, made me feel better sharing with you... We will arrange to meet up and we can have a tea/coffee and a chin wag.... And put the worlds to right... Plus we have lots of window shopping to do..
Things can only get better babe. Loves
Kxxx
Oh mitmas tree oh mitmas tree, how lovely are your branches
09/10/11 What a Fandabulous day!
CommentAuthorpouchi-loo
i was just thinking the other day i havent seen you around much. never mind babes,
maybe have a night out with your braidmaids or h2b and just have fun. put on some make up, straighten your hair put on some lippy. and dance the night away.
you will get back ur wedding excitement soon. i was starting to feel this way so i when to see my venue, looked around the hall to see what things ive missed. now i am planning to make some flower displays to go around the hall on the windows. Also i walked around and had a good look at the grounds with my son.
So just look for little things to do.
why dont you like the dress anymore
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Awww ladies. Cheers. I am feeling loads better now. I'v been doing a lot of printing, cutting and sticking into my wedding sketch pad. I'v designed the wedding cake and plan to keep myself busy trying to find 3 nice brooches to pin to the ribbon around my cakes for now.
I'm ringing the registry office tomorrow too so we can arrange to give our notices. So exciting!!
H2B went back to Doncaster for a boys night this weekend. Hes home tomorrow morning. I have missed him soooo much. Hes been trying on suits with his best man and has even managed to get his mum to understand she has to accept he will be inviting his dads side of the family regardless of how she feels about it because its HIS day and he wasn't the one who chose his family. AND......she agreed he was right and appologised!!! wow! lol
I have also found a really good band called Vitamin string quartet. They do cover versions of LOADS of different songs! I urge you to have a look on the tube of you. I might buy a cd to play while the guests are waiting for the wedding to begin.
And Karlie - deffo, deffo, deffo!! xxx
CommentAuthorJay
puddleduck huni, gld your feeling better but during the wedding planning ive been up and down like a yo yo. A facial will make your skin happy, a fag will make your brain happy( although i do not encourage smoking) and if you buy an exercise dvd youll then tone up and get natural endorphans making you happy :D Dont stress though you seem very organised and youve got a year to perfect everything, i dont know if its different in england but in scotland i know you hand in your notice forms 6 weeks before the wedding and collect them the week of the wedding x
CommentAuthorMrs Turps (Nicpep)
Puddle - looking at this from another point of view - we can start an "im going crazy because of my wedding" club?
I would of course be the leader, but you can have a high up position!
18-09-10
Now a married lady :)
Im a rebel me
CommentAuthorJay
nic hun can i get in on that, i vote myself vice president lol x
CommentAuthorMrs Turps (Nicpep)
it goes in order of craziness. I might be saner tomorrow and you might have to take over as leader?
18-09-10
Now a married lady :)
Im a rebel me
CommentAuthorJay
deal im stressed to my eyeballs, ill be leader til july 11th lol x
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Well in that case if I need to be crazier then Im EATING my eyeballs as we speek Jay. Thats how crazy I am ;)
Winner - I think so
Yours Sincerely
Miss Samantha Mitchell Vice President - I.C.E.B.O.W (I'm crazy ESPECAILLY because of my wedding company)
;)
CommentAuthorMrs Turps (Nicpep)
i love how even though you are eating your own eyeballs, that it only makes you vice president. How nuts must I be to still be in charge?!?!?! :P
18-09-10
Now a married lady :)
Im a rebel me
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
You have the word MODERATOR next to your name - I cannot compete with that level of Crazy....HA! X
CommentAuthorMrs Turps (Nicpep)
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Thanks Puddle, that actually made me laugh!! (been in a bad mood)
in all seriousness, as I told Tiggs, if you ladies are stuck for things to do, I am more than happy to let you help me make my favour boxes. I'm just thinking of you ladies :P
18-09-10
Now a married lady :)
Im a rebel me
CommentAuthorEriksfjord
Hi PD. Sorry to hear you have been feeling down. Maybe that is what has been the matter with me! I have been signed off work until 14th, keep falling asleep, cannot focus on the screen for very long and my pain killers for my shoulder are making me sick and giving me headaches! Seems to me like it it B2B Fever! Take care Nicpep I would like to join the club but have no ambitions for any type of position - I just couldn't cope with this on top of everything!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx
CommentAuthorbabycham79
awww sorry to hear you've been feeling down i think thats what is wrong with me too ive started getting migraines again which ive not had for over a year an can i join the club too please lol xx
