hi ladies i feel like this wedding is never going to happen. h2b still hasnt sorted his divorce and i keep telling him we need to start saving but he keeps spending ggrrrrrr!! think we might have to move wedding back to 2013 at this rate! sorry for ranting but dont feel like i can talk to anyone else about it!!
met 2008
Engaged 2010
Married 16th September 2016
I Married my soul mate, my best friend, my life!
CommentAuthorx ashlil x
ah hun u know what sometimes i feel like that 2. my h2b has jus left me 2 do it all and weneva i say 2 him i need 2 put some money in the wedding account he says ok baby next week!! x
CommentAuthorprincessnat1977
Oh hunni, my divorce took 9 months to sort from the 1st meeting with the sols to the date i recieved my absolute (and yes we partied lol) sit down with him and talk it though, tell him how you feel etc fingers crossed it will all be fine xx
CommentAuthorMrsPrestleton2be
its just really frustrating as i have found my dress and i know it wont be there if i put the wedding back a year! if i put deposit on it they will still make it but i cant even save the money for that!!
met 2008
Engaged 2010
Married 16th September 2016
I Married my soul mate, my best friend, my life!
CommentAuthorx ashlil x
same here but with the church, evry1 keeps sayin i need 2 hurry up n book the church but i dont have enough for the deposit yet cos h2b spends it all. x
im seriously thinking of speaking to his ex and askin her to do it as it doesnt look like he's in any rush to do it!! he says its ages away yet but he doesnt realise until his divorce is final i cant book anything incase she doesnt agree to a divorce!!!!
met 2008
Engaged 2010
Married 16th September 2016
I Married my soul mate, my best friend, my life!
CommentAuthorfuture-mrs-watson
Aw hon - maybe speaking to his ex is the way forward :) Good luck! x
CommentAuthorChrissy
You need a chat babe if he doesn't realise certain things, men are bloody useless at this stuff and don't see the big issue that us women (quite rightly) have with it. I have a friend in the same position and she is now having their second baby! I know he loves her to pieces but when I talk to him about the divorce that would mean sooo much to my friend he says he wants to but it's 'the hassle' Just tell him how you feel without making him feel pressured, that way he's more likely to be sympathetic. Good luck hun xxx
JD is taken so I'll settle for being Mrs Marge :o)
CommentAuthorFreyFreyMrs.Carney2B
Only speak to the ex if she's not too upset about the whole thing... she may be doing it on purpose to ruin his day... Just a thought. And you def need to sit down and chat to h2b about it... he needs to know how you feel and that it's not just nagging! Good Luck!!! x
