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    • InDreamland
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    Are you sure you won't be getting a day time invite hun?
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    • CommentAuthorsussie
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    maybe she sent one to your uni address thinking you weren't home??
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    • InDreamland
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    Oh no! Then yes I would be extremely hurt and insulted. I'd personally just ask her straight out why you've not received your invite yet ..............maybe frame it so you don't sound annoyed though, just say in passing "I'm really looking forward to coming to your wedding and getting my invite" and see what her reaction is.
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    • Mrs To Be
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    I would have a chat with her...maybe she's sent you a day invite and you just never received it and she's waiting for your reply.
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    • MrsShaw
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    drop it conversation.. just say 'oh so and so got their invites ok the other day.. was just wondering.. has mine been lost? it seemed missing from the bunch thats all..'

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    • LauraJo87
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    Maybe she just assumed you knew all about it and didn't do you a special invite? I find it really odd otherwise. Xx

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    • KellyN29
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    speak to her, it is awful when friend fall out and its just a misunderstanding, is it normal for her to treat you this way? I would hope not and maybe the day invite has just got lost on its way to you??
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    • phoebee
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    Speak to her find out what you have done to upset her. x

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    • Officially Mrs M
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    i would speak to her and just ask if you and her are alright and just say out right that the rest of your family got an invitie but you didn't and you wondered what you had done to upset her

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    • Llosa
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    i think i would ask her really, not aggressivly but find out if she sent one and it hadnt reached you yet
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    • almost a year wife!!
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    i wouldnt say "o everyone got their invites the other day, just wondering, has mine been lost?" this is quite assumptive that you're going and id hate it if someone said that to me....id leave it and see if u get anything first if not dont invite her at all to yours, i would be upset though..... hope it works out x

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    • natalie2614
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    Id ask her otherwise its going to eat at you, be honest with her and say you wondered if you were getting an evening invite as your family had theirs. If she has totally ignored you and knocked you off the list, then I would leave her off all together from yours! Hope you get it sorted xx

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    • mrsV2013
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    yeah ask her you mighr be getting yourself all upset for nothing. but if you ask you'll know either way xx hope it's just a mistake xx

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    • LegoWife
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    I agree you should ask her what's going on, if nothing else her answer should help you decide whether to invite her to your wedding or not.

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    • Princess2be
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    yeah, ask whether something wrong. It might just b an honest mistake or something




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    • Ha_x3
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    I would definatly feel hurt & exluded BUT has she ever actually said your invited?? X

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    • Mrs brown - 19/08/12
      CommentAuthorMrs brown - 19/08/12
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    I would be upset and hurt about it, I cant see why she has invited everyone else and left you out thats very rude! I would just ask her and see what she has to say. Good luck & let us know whow you get on x
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    • Velcro
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    I'd just hope there was a missunderstanding and try to casually drop the lack of invite in a conversation. I'm not very subtle though so Id probably just be like, OI WHERES MINE!?

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    • Linzi-jo
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    I would just get in touch with her and say "everyone got their invite the other day but there wasn't one for me, have I done something to upset you?" Good luck with it hun xxx

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    • MrsSteenie
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    We have had nothing but problems with our invitations, and 2 of our friends have had the same..... one couple had a problem with the printer so their invites were sent 2 weeks before the wedding! the other couple were reliant on bride's parents sending invites, and it was only when I told them a few weeks before the wedding that we hadn't received one that they realised they hadn't all been sent. Our invitations have been sent now, but half of them haven't arrived thanks to Royal Mail!!!!! it may be worth speaking to her in case she posted you a day invite that has gone astray in the post....

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    just ask her out right hun¬ x

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    • Laura JaneW
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    Definitely ask her outright. Just say that you heard all of your family got an invite and you were wondering since you hadn't received one if you had done something to upset her! If you really were expecting to get one, and since she knows your family through you id definitely assume you were invited! It could be a mistake!
 

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