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    • Princess2be
      CommentAuthorPrincess2be
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    Went for my final dress fitting today and my dress is gorgeous!

    However, the girls doing my alterations asked me if i had had my hair trial and when i replied saying i was going to do my own hair they were totally shocked!!

    Now, im not a trained hairdresser or make up artist but i like my hair the way i do it and my face the way i do it.
    Have not been to a hairdressers for about 10 yrs since they cut too much off my hair and i felt ugly.

    The alterations girls made such a big deal about doing my own hair, saying that it is a special day and i should feel goergous and make a big effory etc.
    Just been feeling a bit down about it now and that im not going to look special.

    Is everyone else getting a hairdresser and make up person/
    xx




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    • CatherineR
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    I wouldn't worry - not everyone wants a hairdresser for the reasons you are saying! I know my W2B is debating on having a hairdresser and make-up artist on the day because she wouldn't be happy doing it and don't want the stress of knowing on the day if it's going to go wrong... At least if she does it, she knows exactly what she likes and wants and ultimately only has herself to blame!! Stick to your guns flower and do what you want - You need to be calm and happy not stressed and worried :) xx

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    • sarah
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    I am, but only because I have a regular makeup girl and a hairstylist.
    You need to do what makes you happy and not what other people tell you to do. Have you trialed how you will be doing your hair and makeup on the day?




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    • LauraT41
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    I am doing my own hair and make up - i wear make up daily and really like the way i do things, my experience with make up artists has not been great - so i decided that i wanted to do it all myself on my special day - take your time , and enjoy the getting ready experience , i am sure you will look gorgeous xx
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    • JoJ67
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    Dont worry about it. If you know you look nice then....if i thought i looked nice doin my own then i would. Be confident. Ur OH obviously loves u the way you do it yourself x
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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
      CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
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    Don't worry about it; if you want to do it yourself then do so; sure you'll look just as good as a professional doing it :)

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    • Bev
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    Nothing wrong with doing your own hair & make up! At least you'll know it's exactly how you want it instead of relying on someone else to try and interpret your ideas xxx
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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
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    I'm getting someone to do mine but only because I'm cr@p at doing makeup- as long as your happy to do pure own the way you like then that's fine Hun don't feel down xxx

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    • InDreamland
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    I personally got a professional hair and make up artist in for my bridesmaids and myself on the day but I know many ladies who will do their own or have a friend or relative do it for them or do their own.

    Do what you're comfortable with x

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    • nadia13
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    I'm no good on my own hair & make up but my best friend who was my bridesmaid did my make up & my sister did my hair.... They both did a fab job!! ( neither do it for a living) I just wanted to be relaxed & chilled getting ready on the morning & felt that having a stranger there wouldn't help this plus it saved some penny's lol
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    • CommentAuthorRachaelC80
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    I did my own make up.
    I was frightened a make up artist would make me look like a clown!!!
    My MoH did my hair.

    That's what I hated about going into dress shops, all the questions and strangers telling me what I should and shouldn't do on my wedding day.

    You'll look gorgeous no matter what.
    Every bride has a certain glow on her special day!!

    :-)
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    • MelissaLarner2b
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    That's so horrid to make you feel like that! They should have been encouraging if anything. As long as your happy that's all that matters. Xx
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    • StaceyP91
      CommentAuthorStaceyP91
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    They shouldn't of made you feel like that at all!
    I am personally getting a makeup artist in who is also a hairdresser, and she's doing all of us, but there is a team of them of 3 :)
    I didn't want to be stressing that my hair wouldn't be right or my makeup being the same as what I wear it everyday.

    You do what you feels comfortable, go for it if you feel comfortable and want to do your hair and makeup. :) like you said you know how you want it :)

    Xxx

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    • Susie
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    I am getting my friend to do it only because i am crap at putting my hair in styles. I would do my own make up, but I get heart palpatations when stressed, and my hands shake...dont really want clown face walking towards my H2B. If I could do it all by myself I WOULD. So dont feel down girlie, it is what YOU feel comfortable with which is important!
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    • Princess2be
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    Thanks so much for the replies ladies!!
    Here is a pic of how i like to do my hair for occasions, i covered my face cos i dont feel comfortable posting pics online, lol

    Can i please have honest opinions on what you think...
    Is this hair weddingy enough?? xx

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    Lyndsay.jpg





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    • InDreamland
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    That is beautiful, very weddingy IMPO.

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    • RoxanneV
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    I see nothing wrong with doing your own hair and make up, as long as you like it thats all that matters :) personally i am getting someone todo mines but only because im not great at it!, and my opinion is that its lovely, the main thing what you have to consider is if your having a veil or tiara etc. x
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    • InDreamland
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    Similar to how I had mine but longer

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    • Princess2be
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    Yours is stunning Dreamland, very professional!!
    x




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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
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    Thanks hun, I love the pic you posted though and think it's perfect, but I'm biased as it's so similar to what I had so I'd say go for it xx

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    • FernP61
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    Aw how nasty and bitchy its totally up to you hun your hair looks lovely on the pic gorgeous colour too i would have done mine if i could im useless with hair lol xx
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    • LauraK7
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    Love the hair I want mine similar to that!
    I am doing my own make up but will have someone to do my hair as I'm useless lol
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    • CatherineR
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    Oh honey, your hair is stunning and you should definitely do your own hair especially as you happier doing it! For the record though, I'm sure if your hair is that pretty then so is your face so show it off xx

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    • sarah
      CommentAuthorsarah
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    I assume you will be adding a veil, or tiara, or similar hair adornment to the do? If so I think it will look very weddingy. I wish I was as skilled as you when it came to my own hair.




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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
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    It looks great; go for it :D

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    • Linzi-jo
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    I think your hair looks lovely but personally I think it may look better if you bouffant the top more (similar to InDreamlands pic) rather then pull the hair to the side if that makes sense? xxx

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    • StaceyP91
      CommentAuthorStaceyP91
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    Hair looks lovely, wish my hair would look like that when I go out Haha I'm useless!!
    My hair will also be similar to InDreamLands :)

    Xxx

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    • JosephJ
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    I don't think you need to worry, how you do your hair looks lovely the way you've done it.
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    • Whovianbride
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    I think it looks lovely, for my fsils wedding I did mynown hair an makeup an when i came downstairs her makeup artist was like did you do that yourself?? It look proffesional. ( we were all staying at her mums) and i was like well i don't think I took a hair an makeup artist upstairs!lols

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    • miss_finch
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    If you feel comfortable doing your own hair then go ahead and do it, your picture shows you know what suits you and it looks lovely, unless you said, i would have thought you had, had it done professionally!!Don't listen to stupid people xx

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    • LauraT41
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    That looks beautiful hun xx
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    • Scottishbride2016
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    Looks lovely honey nothing wrong with doing your own hair and make up though I will be getting mine done as I am hopeless myself x

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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
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    It looks lovely, if you are that clever doing it yourself then don't bother with the hairdresser. I got mine done by a hairdresser but my make up I done myself.

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    i had mine done for me but ONLY because both my hair n makeup were done as wedding presents . other wise i would have called on a friend for my hair and done my own make up

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    • SandyG83
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    it looks lovely if i could do that i wouldn't be bothering with getting my hair done but i am useless when it comes to hair and im having my make-up done because i have rosacea and want a good cover up. x

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    • luratraloora
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    I think it looks great and well done that you can do that yourself! :)

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    • MrsH-2B
      CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
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    If I was having my hair down I'd be doing it myself ! But I'm having it up and no idea how to get what I want lol..
    I am doing my own make up though, I don't trust anyone to do my make up but me lol xxx

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    • DonnaH39
      CommentAuthorDonnaH39
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    It looks stunning how you've done it, I wish I could do my hair like that. I'm useless with hair




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    • Crawf
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    Wow! I am jealous of how well you have done your hair!! Looks lovely :) why okay someone to do it when you are so good already!!
    And, sorry for being so forward but WOW your waist!!

    Xx
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    • DawnK21
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    Gorgeous! Wish I could make mine look like that. Unfortunately I am not so skilled so have had to pay for someone to do mine, but if I could achieve that look by myself I would!
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    • Marrying.Ryan
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    Very gorgeous! I am doing mine myself. Just ignore what she said. You want to feel comfortable.
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    • julez
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    omg hair looks amazing im getting someone to do hair and make up im no good at any of it dont really wear make up

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    • Becky1608
      CommentAuthorBecky1608
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    I'm having my hair and make up done but only because I'm rubbish at doing my own!! If I could do my hair like you're doing yours then I'd definitely do it myself!! Ignore the ladies in the shop!!! Xxx

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    • thefuture:Mrs_Hurren
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    I'd love to be able to do my own hair but I'm rubbish at doing any type of style. If I could tho I would do it myself. X
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    • CommentAuthorFranM76
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    I think it looks great like that - wish I could do my own hair - I have all on just getting it to look nice in a pony tail!!!! Im doing my own make-up, always have, always will. Been doing it years so think I can manage ok for my wedding. My hair is a different story - need help on that one! You go for it hun, you're obviously very talented when it comes to it xx
 

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