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    • Mrs M Wade
      CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jul 8th 2014
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    Well where do I start....h2b works for his dad (has done since he was 14 he's now 31) . They always have their ups and downs but today they have really fallen out :( h2b has said we might have to postpone the wedding or find a cheaper way of doing it and not have the wedding we both have always dreamed of. I've bought a lot of things for the wedding already with the date we are getting married on. H2b has now said he wants to move out of the local area and start a fresh. I know he might calm down and fix things with his dad but I can't help but think what if things don't improve and we do have to change things

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 8th 2014
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    i wouldnt do anything hasty just yet, its still two years off, give him a few weeks or so to cool off then approach the subject again.

    i very nearly did the same thing, with like 3 months to go, but he asked me to give it a week, id still not calmed down, but i could think a little clearer at that point and we got our heads together at what we needed, what we could bin off etc, how much was i *Actually* saving doing DIY etc.

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    • VictoriaL46
      CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
      Got married 5 years ago
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    You've still got a good while to go so don't get bogged down worrying just yet. Wait and see first.

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    • Mrs M Wade
      CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jul 8th 2014
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    Thanks ladies :)

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
      CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jul 8th 2014
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    Agree with the other ladies it's still a while off yet until really any panic is needed , hopefully things can resolved once things cool off a bit x

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    • MrsLJDeaton
      CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jul 8th 2014
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    Let it blow over your hubby is mad right now in a rage and needs time to calm down and cool down don't let him make any rash hasty decisions based on how he is feeling right now as it will change don't get upset or think you have to change the wedding date etc sit hubby down and talk to him tell him to have a breather and take his mind if he current situation with his father I'm sure things will blow over soon as you said they have their ups and downs and they will make up Xxx

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    • AprilS61
      CommentAuthorAprilS61
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jul 9th 2014
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    Same as the other girls. Give it a week or two to cool off and reapproach the subject and see how the reactions are. With any luck things will start to blow over. What about him looking for another job (dont know if thats possible in your cirumstances depending on what he does and can do of course) would that help if they often have ups and downs? Might be a way to help keep your OHs and dads relationship steady? X

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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jul 9th 2014
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    I'd agree with April. It wouldn't do any harm for your H2B to start job-hunting, without quitting his current job at this point. It may be that he would have a better relationship with his father if they don't work together. Even if he got a job elsewhere you wouldn't necessarily need to change your venues. In the mean time don't make any drastic decisions.

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jul 9th 2014
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    you have 2 years till your wedding ..... tbh i think your h2b has had a knee jerk reaction to this situation ... doing things in the heat of the moment can lead to irreparable damage in relationships .... i do agree that it never hurts to be looking for something else if that's what he wants

    maybe your h2b taking some time off and going away ( i mean both of you not just him ) would be "just what the doctor ordered " obviously not knowing what the fall out was about makes it a bit difficult to comment

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    • Mrs M Wade
      CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jul 9th 2014
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    Well things seem to be ok today. They've talked about what was said yesterday and have decided to let what they both said go and start a fresh. Like you've said we've got 2 years yet so not going to start fretting yet :-)

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jul 9th 2014
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    ohh thats good

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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Jul 9th 2014
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    Glad they have sorted things out x

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