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    • Fruity_pops
      CommentAuthorFruity_pops
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    it so close to the wedding and i just want it over will... but not for a good reason am tired and stressed so much i feel like crying at the end of everyday. i was really enjoying planning but now its so close i just cant get in to it as everything is just ...arrrrgggg

    1.am meant to have help from people and i dont seem to have anyone other than h2b who like most find it hard to talk about the girly things..
    2.i dont do heat well as i suffer with high blood pressure, asthma and was born with spina bifida i feel dead and so exhausted
    3.my mum and dad are having money issues and have lost the internet so i have had my brother staying to use to talk to his g/f in australia morning and night. costing us a bomb and
    also finding it hard to deal with him moving over there just after weddin... never not had him there. hes so excited and its all he talks about and its hard to hear as i know he not be one to keep contact that much .... feel like am losing my brother
    4.i went to pay rest of the car today to find that they didnt even have any details of the wedding or us on the books. the car we picked they dont have anymore. we paid the deposit on 17th may and dont even have anything from it .. i did have a reciept to prove it tho
    5.finally booked honeymoon (british holiday to york) to find that after we booked it and paid in full (non refunable) was looking at places to visit when there as near the beach that they is a sewage farm across the road from it :(

    (three weeks away and we had to deal with this... losing it alittle)

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    26th August 2011 at 3pm

    cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
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    • CommentAuthortweedwedding
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    Hey hun, I live in York - whereabouts are you staying??? I can give you some great tips on where to go and things.

    Really sorry to hear that people aren't being very helpful - have you asked them?
    Bittersweet with the car, good you have the receipt but such a shame that you can't have the one you booked.

    Wish I could say more to help with your other issues, but I don't know what to say.
    Big hugs though hun xx
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    • Jacs
      CommentAuthorJacs
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    Oh Gosh!!!! Just keep breathing hun. Poor you :-(
    Just focus on the most important thing right now and that is that you are getting married to the man you love - everything else is extra! I've got my fingers crossed that everything will fall into place on the day x
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    • Fruity_pops
      CommentAuthorFruity_pops
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    tweedwedding... we are staying in driffield (about 10 miles from beach)

    thanks ladies ... it just sometimes nice to let it out with anyone saying anything it can help get a big weigh off ur chest

    we do have a car booked but am so worried and scaried it not turn up and i cant get to church on the day ... wud break me if i cudnt
    just feels like its all happening at once and finding it hard sometimes to find the excitment in planning it all

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    26th August 2011 at 3pm

    cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
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    • Mrs*Maria*Louise
      CommentAuthorMrs*Maria*Louise
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    aww hun your nearly there youve come this far just try and hang on in there and breathe!! as you had the receipt i hope the company has sorted something for you, i hope you work things out just try to relax hun i know its stressful but focus onteh good points xx

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    • KayteeG
      CommentAuthorKayteeG
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    Oh no hun, sorry you're having a hard time. I know it's difficult but try to concentrate on the good things - I'm sure the day itself will be wonderful and then you'll have more time to concentrate on everything else that's going on. Hope you feel more positive soon x
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    • CommentAuthortweedwedding
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    Hi, I'm actually in York, so not really that familiar with Driffield I'm afraid. You're very close to York though, so I'd definitely try and come across and see the beautiful city that I live in :-)

    Glad you've got a car sorted though hun, I'm sure that it'll turn up :-) xx
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    • Nicsquared
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    It doesnt sound like your having the best of luck at the moment but hopefully things will get better from here on in :)
    Take your time in the heat, things will get done in their own time
    Im sure the car people will do their best to make everything run smoothly from here on in as its their mistake and they will need to make up for it - a lot of wedding business is done on reputation
    x

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    aw just try to keep calm and get through the last few weeks without having a breakdown xx when my sister got married she was so stressed out (her wedding dress had been made wrong and had to get a new one 2 weeks before wedding day) that she literally couldnt get out of bed the day after, other than to be sick :-| it totally spoiled her first day of her honeymoon so just remember that it'll all be worth it in the end and try not to think about your brother moving away until after your big day xx hope you have a lovely day xx

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    • WeeMintyMonkie
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    Hugs hunni!

    just remember that your wedding day will be the day you start the rest of your life with your man!!

    Its all worth it in the end!
    xxx
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    • katie1991
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    aww hun i feel for u just keep breathing hun u will get there and i am sure on the day everything will get pushed to the back of your mind and you will have a great day and i am sure u will get through it. xx
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    • Kat
      CommentAuthorKat
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    just wanted to tell you that driffield isn't far from beverley and I love that place. I think it is beautiful. Of course I'm biased as one of my best friends lives there lol

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    • kimmy
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    It will all be worth it in the end.xxx
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    • ada
      CommentAuthorada
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    sending you big hugs xxx You could set up skype for your brother so that it would not cost you for im to call his GF.

    You will have a lovely day just try to enjoy xx
 

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